Obaa Yaa
My cheating girlfriend wants me back
Dear Obaa Yaa,
A girl I dated for over three years cheated on me with my friend and I ended the relationship.
My pain was not because she cheated on me, because I also cheated on her once and she forgave and stayed with me after pleading with her.
What I couldn’t stand was the fact that she slept with somebody I knew and someone I least expected to do this to his friend’s girl.
Now this girl is back; following me everywhere and seeking for forgiveness and come back to me.
I have assured her of my forgiveness and that I have nothing against her and my friend but she is not convinced.
She has put me in a tight corner with a request to take her back because she did same for me.
The difficulty is that the sight of her brings back those memories.
Quarmyne Seth, Odumase
Dear Seth,
I must say that I applaud you for forgiving your girlfriend and your friend especially when she forgave you when you cheated too.
I would, however, advise you against accepting her again because you would be tempted to cheat on her again.
In your situation now, trust in your relationship is no more. Just forgive her and move on. It doesn’t take a day to forget someone, especially when you both have memories together. It could take a longer time so it’s up to you to know what you actually want and go for it.
See what makes you busy and happy like going out with your friends, listening to music, going for parties, trips, just to get busy. It can help you recover.
Also, be very careful bout your friend too because he has betrayed your trust.
Obaa Yaa
I want a sponsor
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 25 years of age. I am a degree holder and wants to further my education with my Masters.
But unfortunately, I lost my father and I don’t have any one to help me financially to do my masters.
I am seeking for sponsors to help me but I do not know any such sponsor. I am, therefore, appealing to you through this letter for assistance.
Paddy, Ada.
Dear Paddy,
It is quite impossible finding such ‘sponsorships’ at random unless you have family members who want to assist.
Try as much as possible to search for a job because we are in hard times and I wonder what type of sponsorship you are looking for.
You can save after you have been paid. After working for a while, you can take a loan to further your education and arrange for suitable class.
You can start a lucrative business online just as other ladies are selling clothes, shoes, bags etc to earn a living.
Even if someone will assist you, you need to make efforts yourself.
Obaa Yaa
My boss is the problem
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I AM in love with a young man in my office. He is a very kind and gentle man every woman will dream of.
He is 35 and I am 25 years of age. I am currently pursing my Masters at the Accra Technical University in Fashion Design and Textiles.
As a matter of fact, he assists me in my project works, assignment and always ready to help me in times of difficulty.
Interestingly, he has also shown interest in me and we are planning to get married next year.
My problem is that anytime my boss sees him around me, he gets angry and gives him attitude and shouts at him to go to his office.
My fiancée wants to resign because it is making him uncomfortable in the office and this is affecting his attitude towards work.
He is accusing me of having a relationship with the boss. I am disturbed, what should I do?
Baaba,
Takoradi.
Dear Baaba,
It is natural in such a case for your fiancé to suspect your boss might be after you.
Your boss’s attitude to your fiancé is too harsh. He should take it easy with him, especially when he is assisting you with work.
I have a feeling that your boss has an interest in you so seeing your fiancé around you makes him uncomfortable.
However, you can also have a talk with your boss to find out the reason for his behaviour towards your guy.
