Relationship
A smooth landing or bumpy flight?
Agoo! Agoo! Korkorkor! Hear ye, hear ye! Umofians, gather round! It is another glorious day in the land, and I, the tale-bearer, come bearing news hotter than a fiery coal from the blacksmith’s forge!
Like the King of the jungle returning from a triumphant hunt, the First Gentleman’s return has been loud, bold, and impossible to ignore. Whew! What a comeback, Umofians! Who would have thought that a one-term wonder could make such a glorious return and send the mighty ‘Osono’ running faster than a squirrel at a hunter’s sound?
Ah! How the wheels of time sometimes spin faster than lightning bolt striking the ground! This is indeed a tale for the Pied Piper, the bards who sing of legends, and every tale-bearer who spins a tune so wild, even the gods would lean in to catch a word!
But wait ooo, Umofians! The victory drums have barely finished echoing, yet the village square is buzzing louder than bees in a palm wine calabash, hinting at trouble brewing in the land.
Eii! Eii! Eii! Who knew such a simple act could whip up such fiery storm in Umofia? It seems the First Gentleman’s swap to the ‘Dzata Chariot’ of his Kingsman instead of the ‘Umofia chariot’ has sent ripples through the land. Now, the mighty ‘Osono’ are charging in, trunks ablase, and ready to take the drama to new heights. Indeed, what goes around does come around.
You see, aeons ago, I was lounging under the village baobab tree, savouring my sweet ‘sobolo,’ when news swept through Umofia like a brisk wind. Dearest old ‘King Sakora’ had decided that the old village chariot was a tad outdated!
After all, when one is seeking comfort and perhaps a little shower in the skies, why settle for an old chariot? Ah, the extremes one can go when they need a little extra space to bathe in the sky! But, why linger when the mighty ‘Osono’ has been sent packing?
Well, as we Umofians cling to our stools under the village baobab trees, with eyes squinting at the skies like hawks on the hunt, one might wonder: Are the skies ahead smooth for the ‘Akatamanso’? Or are we in for a bumpy ride full of twists and turns? Only time will tell, right?
In the meantime, whispers from the chief linguist indicate that the First Gentleman will continue soaring in the Dzata chariot. After all, when you have a Kingsman with a chariot, why bother with the village one?
First Gentleman, welcome back to the throne! Your return has indeed been as loud as a lion’s roar in the village square, turning heads and dropping jaws. We, the Umofians, wish you well; may the gods guide your path and perhaps send a little rain to cool things down.
Ehem! A gentle nudge to the ‘Osono’; those who live in glass houses should not throw stones, especially when your own high-flying bath antics have been the subject of village gossip! Or is this just a classic case of ‘do as I say, not as I do’? It seems the ‘osono’ is so eager to call the Akatamanso black, it’s forgotten it is brewed in a blacker pot!
Until next time, stay tuned, Umofians! The skies are full of stories yet to unfold, and who knows what storm clouds might gather next?
To be continued………..
With Eyram, the Tale Bearer
Relationship
The power of shared hobbies: how common interests can strengthen relationships and marriages
In today’s fast-paced world, relationships and marriages can be put to the test. With the demands of work, family, and social obligations, it is easy to lose sight of what brought us together in the first place.
However, research has shown that shared hobbies and interests can play a significant role in strengthening relationships and marriages.
In this article, we will explore the benefits of shared hobbies and provide tips on how to incorporate them into your relationship.
Shared hobbies can include dancing, cooking, painting or drawing, travelling, gardening, hiking, learning to play a musical instrument, photography, writing, baking, swimming, language learning, attending concerts or special events, and volunteering.
Shared hobbies and interests can bring numerous benefits to a relationship. For one, they provide a common ground for couples to connect and bond over.
When both partners are passionate about the same activity, it creates a sense of unity and togetherness. Shared hobbies can also help to:
• Reduce stress and anxiety: Engaging in a shared hobby can be a great way to unwind and relax together.
• Improve communication: Working on a project or activity together can foster communication and teamwork.
• Increase intimacy: Sharing a hobby can create a sense of closeness and intimacy, bringing couples closer together.
Take, for example, a couple who shares a love of cooking. They might enjoy trying out new recipes together, experimenting with different flavors and ingredients. Not only does this provide a fun and creative outlet, but it also allows them to spend quality time together.
Another example is a couple who shares a passion for travelling. They might enjoy exploring new places and taking in the breathtaking views together. This shared activity can create a sense of adventure and excitement, bringing them closer together.
If you are looking to incorporate shared hobbies into your relationship, here are a few tips to get you started:
• Find common ground: Identify activities or hobbies that you both enjoy, or try something new together.
• Schedule time: Make time for your shared hobby, whether it is a weekly dinner date or a monthly music concert.
• Be supportive: Encourage and support each other’s passions and interests.
In conclusion, shared hobbies and interests can play a significant role in strengthening relationships and marriages. By finding common ground and engaging in activities together, couples can build a deeper connection and create lasting memories. Whether it is cooking, special concerts, photography, or painting, shared hobbies can bring numerous benefits to a relationship. So why not try something new today and see how it can bring you and your partner closer together?
As the saying goes, “A happy marriage is a union of two good forgivers.” By sharing hobbies and interests, couples can build a stronger, more resilient relationship that will last a lifetime. So take the first step today and discover the power of shared hobbies in strengthening your relationship.
To be continued …
Source: Excerpts from “COURTSHIP MATTERS: Keys to a Fulfilling Lasting Marriage” Book by REV. COUNSELOR PRINCE OFFEI (Lecturer, Published Author, and Marriage Counsellor).
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By Counselor Prince Offei
Relationship
Balancing professional goals and relationship expectations
In today’s fast-paced world, juggling a demanding career and a fulfilling relationship has become a significant challenge for many individuals.
The strain of professional life can often encroach on personal relationships, leading to stress, conflict, and potentially even the breakdown of the relationship.
However, with careful planning, open communication, and mutual support, it is possible to navigate these challenges and cultivate a healthy work-life synergy.
The challenges of balancing
career and love
One of the primary challenges of managing a career and a relationship is the competing demands on time and energy.
A demanding profession can require long hours, frequent travel, and high levels of stress, leaving little time or energy for a romantic partnership. This can lead to feelings of neglect, resentment, and frustration in the partner who feels overlooked. Furthermore, differing priorities and expectations can also create tension in the relationship.
For instance, one partner may prioritise career advancement and financial stability, while the other may value family and relationships above all else.
Strategies for harmony
So, how can individuals cultivate a harmonious balance between their professional and personal lives?
Here are some strategies that can help:
1. Effective communication: Open and honest communication is the foundation of any successful relationship. By sharing career goals, expectations, and needs with your partner, you can prevent misunderstandings and ensure that both partners are on the same page.
2. Boundary-setting: Establishing clear boundaries between work and personal life is essential to maintaining a healthy balance. Prioritise quality time with your partner and learn to say “no” to demands that encroach on personal time.
3. Quality time: Spending quality time with your partner is vital to nurturing a strong and healthy relationship. Whether it is a romantic getaway, a quiet evening at home, or a fun activity, make time for your partner and prioritise your relationship.
4. Mutual support: Supporting each other’s goals and aspirations is critical to a successful partnership. Encourage and support your partner’s career ambitions, even if they differ from your own.
5. Seeking help: Finally, do not be afraid to seek help when needed. Whether it is couples therapy, career coaching, or simply talking to a trusted friend or family member, seeking support can provide valuable guidance and relief.
The rewards of synergy
When individuals successfully navigate the challenges of managing their career and relationship, they can experience numerous benefits, including:
1. Increased fulfillment: A healthy work-life balance can lead to increased satisfaction and fulfillment in both personal and professional life.
2. Deeper connection: Effective communication and mutual support can foster a deeper connection and stronger bond between partners.
3. Improved productivity: By prioritising time and energy, individuals can become more productive and efficient in both their personal and professional lives.
4. Resilience: A strong and supportive partnership can provide a sense of security and resilience, helping individuals navigate life’s challenges with greater ease.
In conclusion, cultivating a harmonious balance between career and relationship requires effort, commitment, and a willingness to adapt and grow together.
By prioritising effective communication, boundary-setting, and mutual support, couples can build a strong and resilient partnership that supports their personal and professional aspirations.
To be continued …
Source: Excerpts from “COURTSHIP MATTERS: Keys to a Fulfilling Lasting Marriage” Book by REV. COUNSELOR PRINCE OFFEI (Lecturer, Published Author, and Marriage Counsellor).
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https://princeoffei22. wixsite.com/author https://counselorprinceass. wixsite.com/edu-counseling-psych https:// princeoffei22.wixsite.com/ website
COUNSELOR PRINCE & ASSOCIATES CONSULT (CPAC COUNSELLOR TRAINING INSTITUTE)
By Counselor Prince Offei
