Relationship
Some communication games for couples to grow closer
Maintain effective communication
If you and your spouse aren’t communicating well, it bleeds into everything else: If communication in your marriage isn’t as strong as you want it to be, working on it is a top priority. When you have good communication, you both benefit. You’ll feel closer to each other, and your marriage will be stronger and more affectionate as a result.
But sometimes, fixing communication issues feel like an uphill battle. It’s so easy to get caught up in trying to fix it, and before you know, everything revolves around the problems, and it can feel like you’re both getting weighed down.
Improving communication doesn’t need to be a struggle. Instead, why not try playing some communication games? They’re a cute, fun way to help fix communication struggles in marriages. All that’s needed is the two of you, some free time, and the willingness to play and have fun in the interest of growing closer.
•20 questions
This game is an easy way to learn more about your partner without pressure or focusing only on the hard stuff.
All you need is a list of 20 questions – of course, those questions can be anything you would like! Why not try some of the following suggestions:
What’s your favourite of all the dates we’ve been on together?
When do you feel most confident?
What’s your fondest childhood tradition?
When do you feel most loved and appreciated by me?
Where do you see yourself in five years?
What would you like to do that you’ve never told anyone before?
When have you felt proud of yourself?
Asking questions gives you insight into your partner’s thoughts, beliefs, dreams, and values. Then when the time comes to swap, they’ll get to learn more about you, too.
Try playing this communication game for couples when you have free time in the evenings or over the weekend, or even in the car. It can make a real impact on your communication levels. It can make a real impact on your communication levels.
•Minefield
A combination of physical and verbal games is the best if you want to work on bad communication in marriage. Minefield is a game where one of the partners is blindfolded and guided verbally through the room by the other.
The goal of the game is to get the blindfolded partner safely across the room by using verbal cues to avoid the obstacles, aka mines, you set ahead. This fun communication game for couples requires you to trust each other and be precise when instructing to achieve the goal.
•Helping hand
How to fix communication issues in a relationship?
There are fun communication exercises for couples that help you improve your skills. One of the games to help couples communicate is “Helping hand” that seems rather easy, but this game for married couples can be quite frustrating.
The goal is to accomplish an everyday activity such as buttoning a shirt or tying a shoe while each has a hand tied behind their back. It provides a chance to build effective teamwork and information exchange through seemingly simple tasks.
•Guess the emotion
A significant part of our communication happens non-verbally, opt for some relationship communication games that help you improve that aspect. To play the Guess the emotion game, you both need to write emotions and place them in a box.
To be continued…
Building and maintaining healthy relationships is an important part of looking after our mental health. Here are six top tips to support you:
1. Get to know yourself
Take time to appreciate yourself and connect with your emotions. Being aware of your feelings allows you to express yourself clearly and effectively. Poor emotional regulation can negatively affect your mental wellbeing.
2. Put in the work
Healthy relationships are built, not found. They require commitment and a willingness to accommodate each other’s needs.
3. Set and respect boundaries
Boundaries communicate what you appreciate and what you don’t like in a relationship. For example, respecting your need for alone time helps prevent unrealistic expectations and reduces pressure on the relationship.
4. Talk and listen
Disagreements are normal. Focus on listening to understand, not just to respond. Be open about your emotions and vulnerabilities with people you trust.
5. Let go of control
You can only control your actions, not those of others. Accepting this reduces stress and saves time while fostering healthier interactions.
6. Reflect and learn
Healthy expression of feelings helps you respond appropriately to others. Often, anger stems from hurt; recognizing this allows for better communication and relationship building. Reflect on the relationships that work well in your life, identify their positive qualities, and apply these lessons elsewhere.
As parents on a mission, raise children who are not just successful, but cultured, morally upright, and ready to lead. The secret? Blend biblical principles and traditional values with practical parenting strategies that work in today’s world.
Ghana’s culture is built on respect, community, and integrity, and when combined with Christian values like love and forgiveness, it is a powerful combo for parenting. Teaching children about traditions, biblical truths, or the importance of greeting elders is not just about preserving culture—it is about building character.
5 Practical steps to raise disciplined, cultured kids
1. Set clear expectations
Explain rules and values clearly. For example, “We respect elders because God says ‘Honour your father and mother’” (Ephesians 6:2). Also, “We respect elders because they have lived longer and know more.” Align household rules with cultural values like obedience and responsibility.
2. Lead by example
Children mimic what they see. Show respect to elders, speak kindly, and demonstrate honesty in daily life. Proverb: “If you show a child how to behave, they’ll behave.” Moreover, Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way they should go …” You can also introduce them to traditional games like “Oware” or “Ampe,” which teach strategic thinking.
3. Teach emotional intelligence
Help children label emotions (“You’re feeling angry”). Encourage resolving conflicts peacefully—like using “sorry” to mend relationships. Ghanaian proverb: “A smooth sea doesn’t make a skilled sailor.”
4. Assign responsibilities
Give age-appropriate chores (e.g., fetching water, helping with cooking). It builds accountability and pride in contributing. Link chores to cultural values like communal living (“We all help in the community”) and biblical stewardship.
5. Embed culture and faith in daily life
Cook traditional foods like Banku, Jollof rice, or Fufu, tell folktales, or celebrate local festivals with prayer and gratitude. Discuss values like ubuntu (I am because we are) to teach teamwork and empathy; alongside God’s love for unity (John 13:34-35). Make culture fun and relatable.
Some other awesome ways to make Ghanaian culture relatable for children include:
- Sharing popular Ghanaian artists like Joe Mettle, Uncle Ato, or Obaapa Christie, and teaching traditional dances like Kpanlogo or Adowa.
- Exploring Ghanaian crafts like kente weaving or bead-making through online workshops.
- Talking about festivals like Homowo (celebrated by the Ga people) or Aboakyer (a deer-hunting festival) using cool videos and pictures online.
Why this matters for Ghana’s future leaders
- Respect and integrity: Cultured children grow into leaders who respect others and uphold ethical standards.
- Community mindset: Values like cooperation and serving others (Galatians 5:13) prepare them to contribute positively to society.
- Resilience: Cultural roots give children a strong identity, helping them navigate life’s challenges.
Parenting in the digital age
- Balance screen time with cultural activities. Use Anansi stories or Bible stories on YouTube or play Oware to teach strategy and patience.
- Discuss social media etiquette through the lens of respect, responsibility, and biblical wisdom (Proverbs 15:4).
Final thought for Ghanaian parents
February 2026 is a fresh start. Blend Ghana’s timeless values with modern tools to raise leaders who are grounded, respectful, and ready to thrive.
To be continued …
Source: REV. COUNSELOR PRINCE OFFEI and Counselor Blessing Offei’s insights on relationships, marriage, and parenting in Ghana. He is an author, mental health professional, lecturer, and marriage counsellor at COUNSELOR PRINCE & ASSOCIATES CONSULT (CPAC COUNSELLOR TRAINING INSTITUTE). He is the author of several books, including “Preparing for a Happy and Fulfilling Marriage” and “A Counsellor’s Guide to Using ‘Preparing for a Happy and Fulfilling Marriage’ Effectively.”
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