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He was given no letter

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Dear Obaa Yaa,
OUR father worked with a company (name withheld) for seven years. On his employment, he was not given any appointment letter.

This meant that he was a casual worker for all these years and finally resigned in January, 2026 without any end of service benefit.

Our father is a peacemaker and this is making us lose a lot of the things we were supposed to get. People took advantage of my father because he was a quiet man and always doesn’t want to step on people’s toes.

What action should we take against this company and where? And, please, if someone wants to resign from work, how many months’ notice does the person give?

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Adu Sarpong, Accra.


Dear Adu Sarpong,
THE status of a permanent worker is different from that of a casual worker. Similarly, the benefits differ.

If your daddy was not given any employment letter, it means he was taken on casual basis. A casual worker can leave employment without any notice. He can also be laid off without any notice.

So it would be a breach of the labour rules for your father’s employers to make him a casual worker for seven years, however, I don’t think you need a court action to resolve this matter.

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It is an administrative lapse and compensation that can be given to resolve all issues. Kindly see the management of your father’s employers and discuss the issue with them for an amicable settlement.

He was given no letter

Dear Obaa Yaa,
OUR father worked with a company (name withheld) for seven years. On his employment, he was not given any appointment letter.

This meant that he was a casual worker for all these years and finally resigned in January, 2026 without any end of service benefit.

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Our father is a peacemaker and this is making us lose a lot of the things we were supposed to get. People took advantage of my father because he was a quiet man and always doesn’t want to step on people’s toes.

What action should we take against this company and where? And, please, if someone wants to resign from work, how many months’ notice does the person give?

Adu Sarpong, Accra.


Dear Adu Sarpong,
THE status of a permanent worker is different from that of a casual worker. Similarly, the benefits differ.

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If your daddy was not given any employment letter, it means he was taken on casual basis. A casual worker can leave employment without any notice. He can also be laid off without any notice.

So it would be a breach of the labour rules for your father’s employers to make him a casual worker for seven years, however, I don’t think you need a court action to resolve this matter.

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Her grandma may become a hindrance

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Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am 20 and she is 19. We have been lovers for the past four months and have promised to get married to each other.

We love each other badly that one cannot leave the other for long. Our relatives know about our affair except her grandmother who will be in the country soon.

My problem is that, I doubt if the grandmother will be excited about this relationship. Her grandmother is very strict and I doubt if this relationship can be successful.

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Her grandmother has been like a mother and everything to her, so her final decision may count.

We have promised each other to stay holy and clean.

Lartey,

Sunyani

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Dear Lartey,

I don’t think your fears are justified if the girl’s parent do not object to your relationship with her.

What makes you think her grandmother will oppose the relationship if her parents endorse it?

Be positive about the relationship. There is no cause for alarm.

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I am very happy you guys are staying holy and clean until marriage.

Both of you are student and need to be careful about any decision you take.

I believe you should try as much as possible to support each other and stay away from any negative act.

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Is my girlfriend cursed?

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 I have a girlfriend who is ‘allergic’ to me and ‘allergic’ to men in general.

Because of this, I barely touch her. I do not sit too close to her. I do not even hold her hands for long.

 We have tried before. Even recently, we tried again. At first, things looked normal.

Then suddenly she lifted her hands and started scratching her back aggressively. We stopped immediately. Moments later, she ran to the bathroom and started vomiting.

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She spent almost four hours there, weak, nauseous, and drained.

 Watching someone you love suffer while you cannot do anything about it is painful. Is it a curse or an allergy?

 Hello Christian,

What you’re describing sounds frightening and emotionally exhausting for both of you. But it is important not to jump to the idea of a curse.

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 Severe reactions after touch, closeness, stress, or intimacy can sometimes be linked to medical conditions, allergies, anxiety responses, trauma, or psychosomatic reactions.

The safest and most loving step is encouraging her to see qualified doctors, especially an allergist and mental health professional, so the cause can be properly understood.

Your patience already shows deep care. Do not blame yourself or search for supernatural explanations first.

Focus on support, medical guidance, emotional safety, and honest communication while protecting both her health and your relationship.

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