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Signs of being unsatisfied in a relationship
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Are you feeling unsatisfied in your a relationship? Do you feel like your relationship has come to a standstill?
The tragic fact is that even though they are feeling unsatisfied in marriage or are in an unsatisfying relationship, a lot of couples choose to stay together and refuse to make any efforts to bring back the lost spark.
Sometimes one gets so used to being unsatisfied in a relationship and can’t even think of parting ways with a partner.
If you are unsatisfied in a relationship and feel happier without your significant other, it clearly means that there is something wrong.
The fear of being alone or abandoned may give you feelings of uncertainty. But you should always remember that it’s better to be on your own than to be unsatisfied in a relationship.
Unless you are in an abusive relationship, you must try to find ways to rejuvenate your relationship.
If you are indeed someone who feels unsatisfied in a relationship, here are some of the after-effects to look out for:
Short temper
Although it is true that every couple fights, the way it affects you surely explains why you are unsatisfied in relationship.
You’ll realise that you are acting in unhealthy ways. Instead of having a mature conversation, you often argue with your partner.
This behaviour can also start affecting your professional life. Also, brooding over issues, overthinking and uncontrolled anger are some signs that you are feeling extremely unhappy.
Lack of communication
If you and your partner often find yourselves in uneasy situations, then it means things are definitely going downhill. You find it hard to discuss the smallest of issues or prefer not telling everything.
You start keeping secrets and avoiding confrontations. Instead of feeling excited, your heart sinks when your partner calls or texts you. The simplest of activities start to feel dull and mundane. Maybe it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship or you’ll start feeling even more terrible.
No trust
You’ll find yourself checking your partner’s phone history. Trust is the glue that holds any relationship together. Also, you might be questioning your partner’s behaviour or actions. It means that you need to re-assess the status of your relationship.
Without trust, there is no understanding. Gradually, there will be further deterioration, and ultimately causing the relationship to fall apart. Hence, you should talk it out or take action before the situation worsens.
Thoughts of being with someone else
Your partner might not be your soul mate if you keep on fantasising about some other person who in your view might be a better match. Also, you don’t feel comfortable with them.
If you have a specific person in mind who you believe would be more compatible, then it’s time to reconsider stuff. Your significant other is not the first person you want to spend your time with after a busy day at work or an occasion. You might start contacting your exes or feel curious about what’s happening in their lives.
This surely indicates that you are terribly unsatisfied.
TO BE CONTINUED
Source: https://www.marriage. com
I experienced something on Monday, June 15, that really frustrated me. I had to go to the ministries but I could not get up early that day so I decided to pick a taxi and get to the Tuba Junction.
When I got there I realised that Traffic had built up from the Toll Booth towards Accra. After a while I got a Taxi and it was when we got to a certain spot on the road, that I realised why there was a traffic jam.
There is a short stretch of the road where each time it rains heavily, loose material run down the hill onto the road, blocking one side of the road. Vehicles from Kasoa to Accra are then forced to move into one of the lanes of those going towards Kasoa from Accra.
The two lane road from Accra to Kasoa becomes a single carriage way. That was the reason for the traffic jam from the toll booth onwards.
This has been a perineal problem and yet, no permanent solution has been found till date. The area falls under Ga South and even though, a new MCE has taken over, the technocrats are still there and so the problem is not new to them.
There is therefore no excuse for the inability of the Ga South Metropolitan Assembly to resolving the problem on that stretch of the road. Apart from the Ga South Metropolitan Assembly, another institution that must be held accountable is the Ghana Highways Authority.
The Highways Authority cannot say they are unaware of this issue. The fact that the problem falls within the area of responsibility of the Ga South Assembly, does not relieve the Ghana Highways Authority, of their responsibility of ensuring that our highways are maintained in a motorable state at all times.
A collaboration between the Ghana Highways Authority and The Ga South Municipal Assembly is required for a permanent resolution of the problem.
There was another traffic jam at a place called Atala about 250 metres to the traffic light at Old Barrier as a result of an issue similar to the one close to the toll booth, that I talked about earlier.
When we got to Weija junction, we encountered another traffic jam. The cause of this jam was a bad condition of road about 80 metres from the traffic light at Ga South Hospital heading towards Accra.
Due to the bad nature at that section of the road, vehicles are compelled to slow down resulting in a traffic jam stretching all the way to Weija Junction.
I started wondering if that short stretch of road cannot be sorted on one Sunday when traffic is usually light. When we got to the traffic light at Odorkor, there was another issue.
When the traffic light shows green, there is a slow down because there is a big pothole or should I say manhole in the outer lane, right at the traffic light. Vehicles in the outer lane are compelled to swerve into the second lane thereby causing a traffic to slow down and resulting in a traffic jam.
It is very important to take into account the effect of traffic jam on the national economy. If we are able to assess the value of the loss to the economy of the nation, I believe the issue of traffic jam will be prioritised.
Imagine persons working at various Government Organisations like Registrar General’s Department, Ghana Ports and Habours Authority, Ghana Revenue Authority, CEPS etc. and lives at Kasoa and whose job is to collect revenue for the state and is held up in traffic.
Just imagine the effect their lateness to work will have on the economy if you consider the delays in say clearing of goods at the port and as a result traders cannot sell their goods for government to generate the required taxes.
Let us deal with the traffic jams on our streets to promote economic growth. God bless.
By Laud Kissi-Mensah
Mortality is an inherent aspect of life, a universal experience that has sparked philosophical, theological, and scientific inquiry throughout human history.
This article aims to provide a comprehensive and nuanced exploration of mortality, acknowledging the complexity of the topic and the diverse perspectives surrounding it.
The biological imperative
From a biological standpoint, death is a natural part of the life cycle. It serves as a mechanism for the evolution of species, allowing for the passing on of genetic material and the adaptation to environmental changes.
Evolutionary perspective: Death allows for the recycling of resources, promoting the survival and adaptation of species.
Life span and senescence: Cellular aging and the limitations of biological systems contribute to mortality.
Philosophical and existential perspectives
Existentialism: Emphasises individual freedom and responsibility in the face of mortality.
Meaning and purpose: The finite nature of life can prompt individuals to seek meaning and purpose.
The human condition: Mortality is a fundamental aspect of the human experience, shaping our perceptions and values.
Cultural and spiritual views
Afterlife and spirituality: Many cultures and religions believe in an afterlife or spiritual continuation.
Rituals and mourning: Cultural practices surrounding death reflect the significance of mortality in human experience.
Legacy and remembrance: The impact of one’s life can transcend mortality.
Ethical considerations
End-of-life care: Ethical debates surround issues like euthanasia, assisted dying, and palliative care.
Quality of life: Balancing the value of life with the quality of life is a complex ethical issue.
Resource allocation: Societal decisions about healthcare and resource distribution involve considerations of mortality.
Psychological impact
Grief and loss: The experience of mortality can evoke profound emotional responses.
Fear and anxiety: The awareness of mortality can lead to existential anxiety.
Appreciation and gratitude: Recognising mortality can foster appreciation for life.
Conclusion
Mortality is a multifaceted aspect of human existence, influencing how we live, relate, and find meaning. Understanding and acknowledging mortality can prompt deeper reflections on life and our place in the world.
By Robert Ekow Grimmond-Thompson
