Obaa Yaa
Is this nude picture for me?
Obaa Yaa,
We have been married for close to three years now and my husband has never sent me his nude picture before, not even when we were dating and stayed apart but now that we stay together he did.
He recently sent me his nude picture and am baffled by his actions. This act of his has got me thinking recently that my husband might be cheating on me.
I don’t know why my husband will start sending me nude pictures now that we stay together. It is possible he was sending it to someone and it mistakenly came to me instead.
I am beginning to lose the trust I have in my husband and his love for me.
Should I confront him about it or act like I don’t know what he has done and see how things turn out?
I need your advice please.
Celestina, Amasaman.
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Dear Celestina,
It is regrettable that this is happening to you. First of all, I would advise you to confront your husband on the nude picture he sent to you in a calm and low tone. It could be that he wasn’t sending it to anyone but it mistakenly came to you.
Your husband wouldn’t send you his nude pictures when he is living with you in the same room and share the same bed intentionally.
Don’t keep a problem to yourself and be assuming but rather inhabit the practice of confrontation and talk to him.
I hope this goes on well, all the best to you dear.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 35year –old-lady married to a banker. I am a housewife. I am fair in complexion. I got my left hand tattooed sometime last year. I have never had my peace with my husband because he strongly abhors.
In my attempt to get it erased, I have caused a big scar on my hand which has worsened the situation. Sometime ago, your esteemed paper carried a story about how permanent tattoo can be cleared and a location.
May I know whether it is possible to get the scar and tattoo erased, and how much it would cost.
Worried housewife, Prampram.
Dear housewife,
Since I have no idea how wide and deep the scar and tattoo are, it would be difficult for me to have a meaningful discussion with the specialists at the unit.
I suggest that the next time you visit Accra, you pay a visit to any skincare unit and ask what help they can offer.
But until then, do not apply any self-medication. You may also ask your doctor to advise you as if there is any way out for a surgery. All the best.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
Ever since we got married, two years ago, my husband seldom wears his wedding ring except on occasion such as church service, funerals, outdooring and other social gatherings.
For the rest of the week, he goes to work without it. The excuse he gives is that whether he wears the ring to work or not, he is by law married to me.
But I beg to differ. I suspect there is more to it than what he told me. I need your advice on this.
Eno, Ashiaman.
Dear Eno,
Some men don’t like wearing rings; others enjoy it. It is just like how some women like wearing jewellery or large earing while others would rather do away with them.
The fact, however, is that a man can misbehave even when he wears it or not because there are ladies who wouldn’t mind with the ring on.
When he gets back home, he would wear it again. What difference does it make if he doesn’t wear it all?
