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Early mistakes in relationships that should be avoided

The early stages is a relationship is usually the most fun and rosy part, as everyone is excited about being in love and feeling loved by someone else.

Putting your personal life on hold

During the early days of a relationship, a lot of plans are shelved by both parties so as to bring the compromise needed to coexist. But regardless of the plans and compromise, you should never put your life’s plan on hold. This can lead to frustration for you in the long run.

Moving too fast

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You start to feel all excited and want to fast-track some things like wedding plans, meeting his friends etc. If you force your partner to rush some things, you are setting yourself up for eventual failure.

Ignoring red flags

If you notice some things about your new partner, draw his attention to it and let the person know you are not comfortable with that. Don’t ever ignore red flags or hope that they would eventually change.

 Bringing old habits to new relationships

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There is never a perfect human being in the world, so if you think it is only you that should be loved with your flaws then you are yet to grow into an adult. If your previous relationship ended because you are a spendthrift, then is it reasonable to bring that same habit to the new one?

 Not being your true self

If you earn GH¢1,000 a month, please spend your money in the best way you deem fit. You don’t need to impress her so that she will stay with you. If she does not love you and your honest earnings, then what are you doing with her after all? Be calm and remain your true self?

Trying to impress everyone

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Because you do not want your guy or lady to be vexed, instead of you saying no to a certain request, you jumped and said yes. You are setting yourself for an eventual failure in the relationship.

 Making up excuses

If you see your partner misbehaving, you don’t have to make up an excuse for their behaviour. Tell them they are wrong and let them know your side of the issue. And if they don’t, please find a way out. A bad partner from the start can only go worse.

There are other pointers  that an early relationship faces, but do not ignore the above points.

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‘Thousands of Ghanaian women suffering from Obstetric Fistula’

• Dr Ochan in a handsahke with Mr Adu Owusu after the meeting
• Dr Ochan in a handsahke with Mr Adu Owusu after the meeting

 Thousands of Ghanaian women continue to suffer in silence from Obstetric Fistula (OF) due to inadequate access to sur­gical treatment, the United Na­tions Population Fund (UNFPA) has revealed.

Dr Wilfred Ochan, UNFPA’s Country Representative, disclosed that over the past decade, Ghana has accumulated a backlog of more than 12,000 untreated cases, de­spite recording an estimated 1,300 new cases each year.

He made the remarks during a visit to the New Times Corporation (NTC) in Accra to mark the Interna­tional Day to End Obstetric Fistula (IDEOF).

“Only 1,000 repairs have been done in 10 years. That leaves thou­sands of women isolated, in pain, and excluded from society due to a condition that is both preventable and treatable,” Dr Ochan said.

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He stressed the need for great­er investment in surgical capacity, public awareness, and partnership, especially with the private sector— to accelerate Ghana’s efforts to eliminate the condition by 2030.

Obstetric Fistula results from prolonged or obstructed labour without timely medical care, caus­ing a hole between the birth canal and bladder or rectum, leading to continuous leakage of urine or faeces. The consequences include stigma, chronic incontinence, and often, the death of the baby.

To help close the treatment gap, the UNFPA is working with health institutions including the Komfo Anokye and Cape Coast Teaching hospitals to scale up sur­geries and outreach.

“We must not allow women to suffer lifelong trauma for sim­ply trying to give life,” Dr Ochan urged.

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The Managing Director, Mr Martin Adu-Owusu, pledged NTC’s support in raising public awareness and promoting maternal health initiatives.

“We are ready to collaborate with you to ensure that maternal deaths and issues affecting women come down to the barest minimum so that together we can achieve the UN goal to eliminating Obstet­ric Fistula by 2030,” he said

 By Esinam Jemima Esinam

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 Inflated prices of Abaya, Jalabiya on Eid-al-Adha celebration

 Muslims in Ghana and all over the world yesterday observed the Eid-al-Adha celebration.

It falls on the first day of Shawwal, the 10th month of the Islamic cal­endar and is celebrated by Muslims to mark the end of the month-long dawn-to-dusk fasting of Ramadan.

The build up to yesterday’s edition was characterised by a high demand for traditional Islamic attire here in Tamale, leading to a sharp rise in prices.

Checks by The Spectator from the various markets in the Tamale area re­vealed that prices for popular outfits like the Abaya, Jalabiya, and Kaftan have skyrocketed within the period.

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Although there is no prescribed out­fit for the celebration, many Muslims in Tamale traditionally choose modest and loose-fitting garments that reflect Islamic values.

Abayas and Jalabiyas often import­ed from Turkey, Dubai, Egypt, and Northern Nigeria have become partic­ularly the most sought-after attires, resulting in the price hikes.

Currently, prices for men’s attire range from GH₵250 to GH₵800 while women’s outfits are selling from GH₵350 to GH₵1000.

Children’s garments are also not left out of the pricing craze. Bargain­ing for the youngsters starts from GH₵150.

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Hajia Naila Abdul Karim, owner of ‘Cover with Style,’ confirmed a signifi­cant surge in sales in the holy month.

“Each day, more than 20 people, mostly women walk into the shop. We also send over 40 parcels daily to customers across the country,” she stated.

She attributed the price increas­es to the cedi’s depreciation and a recent shortage of Turkish imports, noting that most of her stock now comes from Dubai.

Hamdia Kamil, a loyal customer, shared her experience: “Two years ago, I bought an Abaya for GH₵350. This year, it’s GH₵650. I had no choice because it’s a special occasion and I want to feel good. Still, I hope the dresses are made affordable so others can also celebrate in style.”

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At Baby Last Closet in Sakasaka, another fashion outlet, prices for women’s outfits range from GH₵350 to GH₵1,300, while men’s attire goes from GH₵250 to GH₵1,000.

“Some customers complain about the cost, but because it’s Ramadan, many still go ahead and buy,” said the shop owner.

Similarly, Mandy’s Haven at Zogbeli sells exclusively for Eid celebrations, dealing in high-end Abayas, Jalabi­yas, and Kaftan materials. Prices there reflect quality and origin, with female attire ranging from GH₵450 to GH₵5,000, and kaftan fabric sold at GH₵200 per yard.

For many, including resident Iddri­su Suale, the holy month remains a sacred period despite the economic pressures. “Things are expensive this year, but I still want to make the day special for my children. I plan to get them Abayas and Jalabiyas from Egypt,” he indicated.

Despite the bustling nature of preparation and the high cost of goods, resident expressed optimism of having a good time in observing the deep spiritual significance of the occasion.

 Story & photos by Paul Dery

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