Relationship
Things that make him miss you whenever you’re not together
• Love is kind
- Your girly products and clothes around his home.
They may take up a lot of space in his abode; but he knows that they are yours. They serve as subtle reminders of your existence in his life. And it reminds him of how much he misses you whenever you’re not there with him.
- Your cooking skills.
You already know that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. It proves to him that you are someone who is perfectly capable of taking care of him. And he’s really going to miss your cooking skills whenever you aren’t around. He’s going to miss feeling pampered and taken care of. You spoil him; and it drives him crazy whenever he can’t be with you.
- Your overall helpfulness in his life.
Congratulations if you have actually found a man who is deeply appreciative and thankful for everything that you do in his life. You wouldn’t have to wonder about whether he notices your overall value and effort. But if he’s the kind of guy who just isn’t expressive, know that he really appreciates your helpfulness whenever you’re not around. He grows to realise that he can’t just keep on relaxing because you are always the one who is picking up the pieces whenever you’re there. So, he has to work double-time whenever you aren’t.
- Your hair all over the place.
He might act like he’s so annoyed seeing all of your hair all over his apartment or his bathroom. But watch; all of that annoyance fades whenever you’re away. Know that when you’re not around, he’s going to miss you. And he’s going to hate seeing your hair around his apartment because it’s going to remind him of the fact that you’re not there with him. He’s going to hate the fact that even though your essence is there, your physical presence is nowhere to be found.
- Your physical touch.
There’s always something so calming and endearing about you touching your man. Whether it’s something as simple as the two of you holding hands as you’re walking alongside each other or if you’re just gently rubbing his leg as you’re seated beside each other. He might not really mind it as it’s going on; but he really does love it. And he’s going to end up missing it whenever you’re not within each other’s physical reach. He loves the subtle transfers of love and affection that occur within every single touch.
To be continued…
Aries
You are a warrior by nature, try to balance out your own needs to ensure you do not give all of yourself to another. Give yourself some love, too!
Taurus
Do not fret, the secrets being hidden are not bad and are beneficial to your future. In fact, you will be super happy when they are revealed. Then, you can make strategic moves forward.
Gemini
Your friendship circle is evolving, allowing you to meet new people who will become your best buds over time. Embrace the rare chance to connect and engage with others you meet now.
Cancer
Home is where your heart is this week. And the more reason for you to start making yourself feel cozier in your space now. Treat yourself to a few new items to decorate and spruce up your pad to get in the spring spirit. Add fresh.
Leo
Lean into your higher mind and vibe. This will give you the ultimate opportunity to achieve personal fulfillment and spiritual growth over the next few months. Doing so will encourage you to reach new personal heights.
Virgo
Standing up for yourself takes a lot of guts and confidence. Luckily for you, you are able to assert your view against others and defend yourself against those who aim to bring you down.
Libra
Making your mark on the world is challenging, but you are headed in the right direction. As long as you accept that you need to be a leader rather than an innovator in your endeavours, you can take on your goals with success.
Scorpio
You are being introspective and plotting your next moves on and off this week. Take this time and energy to strategise the upcoming sunny days, so you can use them to your advantage and achieve your desires.
Sagittarius
It is time to get creative! This means busting out your drawing board, paintbrushes and colour palette to make art. Whether it is for professional endeavours or for pleasure, you will be inspired to bring your passions to light
Capricorn
Work is becoming very chaotic at the moment and requires all of your time, but you have the chance to balance out your vibe and not focus on professional endeavours. Find your chill spot and lean into self-care.
Aquarius
You are feeling extra chatty and more able to engage with friends. Word of advice: think before you speak to avoid conflict with others.
Pisces
This week gives you the chance to restart, reboot and get motivated to take on new opportunities. The question is: Are you ready now?
Attention-Deficit or Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is often mistaken for laziness or indiscipline. In consulting rooms across Accra and in reports from school teachers, the pattern repeats: children who are bright but forgetful, parents who feel helpless, teachers who see incompleteness.
Research is clear-Barkley (2015) and others describe ADHD as a difference in the brain’s regulation of alertness, impulse and working memory, not a lack of effort.
The family’s role begins with structure. Regular sleep, predictable meal and homework times, and a simple visual list (uniform → books → water → corridor) provide the external scaffolding these children need. Praise what is completed—“You opened the book and wrote the first sentence”-instead of rebuking what is missing.
Schools can help by seating the child front-row and centre, giving short written plus verbal instructions, allowing brief movement breaks, using quiet nonverbal cues and, where possible, grading effort and method as well as neatness. These adjustments reduce conflict and raise submission rates without lowering standards.
Couples and caregivers should share roles: one grounds, one pivots, and both protect rest. Shame-“bad parenting, bad child”-needs replacing with fact: different wiring, needs scaffolding.
Outcomes improve not by promises of perfection but by daily routines, clear limits and warmed connection. One homework slot kept, one instruction chunked, one calm repair after blurting-these small wins shift the family climate and let the child be seen beyond the label.
Resource
• CPAC (award-winning Mental Health and Counselling Facility): 0559850604 / 0551428486
Source: REV. COUNSELLOR PRINCE OFFEI’s insights on special needs support, relationships, and mental health in Ghana. He is a leading mental health professional, lecturer, ADR Expert/Arbitrator, renowned author, and marriage counsellor at COUNSELLOR PRINCE & ASSOCIATES CONSULT (CPAC COUNSELLOR TRAINING INSTITUTE) – 0551428486 /0559850604.
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