Editorial
I’m pregnant and unhappy
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am a married woman with a three-year-old child, and expecting another baby soon. But instead of feeling excited, I am worried.
My mother passed away just three weeks before I had my first child. I had no one to help me. Luckily, my sister-in-law came to stay with me. But it’s rather unfortunate — she does not do any of the house chores or assist in taking care of the baby.
Even when I was in excruciating pain after delivery, I had to do everything in the house by myself. I have complained many times to my husband, but it seems he does not care.
I want his sister to leave. I don’t want to go through stress and disrespect in my own matrimonial home. So how do I tell him clearly but respectfully that I don’t want his sister in my house?
Ruthline, Accra
Dear Ruthline,
I understand how stressful and exhausting it can be when you do not get any support system after childbirth. Postpartum depression sets in easily, making many women lose their self-esteem.
You have already shown strength by planning ahead to do all things by yourself. Now, it is time to protect your peace.
I suggest that you remind him gently of how things are going, and how it affected you emotionally and physically. Let him know you are not rejecting his family, but asking for space to rest and bond with your baby.
On the other hand, I don’t understand why your sister-in-law is refusing to assist you.
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Dear Editor,
I WRITE to express my growing concern about the increasing display of adult content on some television stations in the country.
These programmes, often aired during hours when children are most likely to be watching, pose a serious threat to their moral development and general well-being.
Television remains one of the strongest influences on young people, and stations have a responsibility to ensure that their content reflects the values we seek to instil in our society.
Unfortunately, some channels appear to prioritise sensationalism and profit over public safety and decency.
Such content not only exposes children to material they are not prepared to process but also undermines parents’ efforts to guide their behaviour.
I call on the National Media Commission (NMC) and other regulatory bodies to intensify monitoring and enforce stricter guidelines to protect viewers, especially minors.
Broadcasters must be reminded of their duty to promote responsible and wholesome programming.
Our airwaves should uplift, educate, and inform — not endanger the moral fabric of the next generation.
Eugene Ampiaw,
Accra
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Dear Editor,
I AM writing to share my thoughts on the ongoing issue at Wesley Girls’ Senior High School, which has attracted national attention after the Deputy Attorney General released a statement in court.
The matter is about whether Muslim students are being denied the right to freely practice their religion, and whether they are being compelled to follow practices that go against their faith.
To me, this is not just a legal issue but a question of fairness and respect in our schools.
While the Constitution guarantees every student the right to practice their faith, schools also have traditions and rules that must be respected. As the saying goes, “When you go to Rome, you do what Romans do.” If a teacher is teaching, it is not right for a student to suddenly leave for prayers. That disrupts learning.
Instead, schools should provide a clear time and place for worship, so that students can honour their faith without disturbing academic work. There is time for everything; time to learn, and time to pray.
Wesley Girls SHS can continue to uphold its Methodist heritage while also respecting the rights of Muslim students.
This compromise will protect unity and ensure that our schools remain places of both discipline and inclusion.
Princess Wonovi
Accra
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