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My husband wants me to stop attending church

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Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am the president of the youth ministry in my church. My inconsistency at church and meetings began when I got married.

My husband complains bitterly anytime I go for executive meetings in the evening. Recently, I had to attend one of the meetings because I was scheduled to serve as a Master of Ceremony for our youth service.

On my way back, I realised our front door was locked. He watched me through the window and asked me to go back to where I came from.

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I went back home later and apologised, yet he is still not minding me and keeps giving me attitude. I have had no peace in the house because he insists I should stop going to church. Did I make the right choice of a husband?

Naa, Teshie


Dear Naa,

Being a Christian wife, you should ensure that whoever you marry understands and aligns with your faith and beliefs. I believe if you had done due diligence before marriage, you might not be going through all this now.

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The Bible admonishes us not to forsake the assembling of the saints (Hebrews 10:25). On that note, I suggest that you talk to your husband about it and, if possible, get your pastor involved.

If all your efforts fail, then do what pleases your husband — that will amount to submission. Eventually, this may save you from unnecessary stress; otherwise, it could create serious marital problems.

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Parking on road shoulders endangers pedestrians

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vehichles parked on the shoulders of the road

Dear Editor,

Walking along roads in some parts of the capital has become increasingly challenging.

While trading on pedestrian walkways remains a concern in certain areas, the parking of vehicles on road shoulders also poses a serious risk to pedestrians.

Often, pedestrians are forced to walk dangerously close to these parked vehicles or even step into the middle of the road to make way for oncoming traffic.

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This situation is not only frustrating but also highly unsafe.

I recall an incident when I alighted at a lorry station and was walking home. A Tata bus was approaching, and due to vehicles parked on both sides of the road, I had nowhere to walk safely.

The situation became so dangerous that I had to quickly jump into a nearby shop to avoid being knocked down by the oncoming Tata bus.

That experience was frightening and could have easily resulted in an accident.

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In my view, it is time for authorities in the road sector, such as the National Road Safety Authority and the Motor Traffic and Transport Department (MTTD) of the Ghana Police Service, to take urgent action to address this issue and prevent possible loss of life.

Strict enforcement measures, including towing improperly parked vehicles and imposing substantial fines, would serve as a deterrent to offenders.

From Ray

Adabraka

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Extend break between JHS and SHS

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Dear Editor,

I wish to use this column of your respected newspaper to appeal to the Ministry of Education and the Ghana Education Service to consider bringing back the practice where students stayed home for some months after completing the Basic Education Certificate Examination (BECE).

Within that period where they stay home for some time and wait for their results, it afforded parents some time to prepare and save towards the next move in the academic life of their children.

In recent times, students are quickly admitted into Senior High School immediately after their examinations, leaving little time for parents and guardians to adequately prepare financially and emotionally for the next stage of their children’s education.

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Many parents, therefore struggle to buy school items such as chop boxes, trunks, mattresses, uniforms and other necessities within the short period given.

This situation places pressure on families, especially those with low incomes.

Previously, the break after BECE allowed students to rest after years of academic work while parents and guardians made proper preparations for their wards.

It also gave students enough time to learn vocational skills, assist their families and mature before entering boarding school life.

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Bringing back this period will greatly reduce stress on both parents and students and help ensure better preparation for Senior High School education.

And one other thing we have not taken notice of is that within that period, parents also prepare their children mentally and psychologically before they go to school. They are thought how to be independent.

So we see new secondary students displaying an appreciable level of maturity which is missing in this era where they go to senior high schools and still behave like primary school kids.

I hope the authorities will carefully consider this concern in the interest of students, parents and guardians across the country.

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By Eugene Ampiaw,

Accra.

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