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The ‘wahalla sikaman teenage girls’ 

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A househelp cleaning the floor
A househelp cleaning the floor

THESE days wives are very careful when recruiting house helps who are also called maids or maidservants.

In the past, such recruitment exercise took into consideration that a maid must be beautiful enough to brighten the home and to impress visitors with her charming smile and good shape. In a nutshell, the more beautiful the maid, the higher the status of the family.

Wives soon came to realise that the beautiful servants were causing too many problems for comfort. The beautiful maids with their swinging waists and provocative curves made their husbands restless. Susceptible husbands suffered from romantic jitters and could not sit still.

The men just could not help admiring the darling maids. Some just couldn’t keep their eyes off them and swallowed saliva in yearning.

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In probably four out of five cases, husbands could not resist the devil’s temptation. It all happened when the wives travelled to a funeral or a crusade.

The longer the crusade, the better. 

Unwilling maids were influenced with money, threat of dismissal or “common raps” and they condescended to allow their masters taste the forbidden fruit. 

Some maids, in the process, overthrew their madams and announced their take-over in dawn broadcasts.

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Appetite

Wives have become wiser in recent years and now recruit maids they think their husbands wouldn’t have appetite for. But in some cases, they have misfired. When a husband is a typical he-goat and looks like one, he goes after everything that wears a skirt. The shape and beauty do not really matter so long as a skirt is involved.

In any case, a beautiful maid is more likely to cause a domestic upheaval than a plain one, and wives note that point accordingly.

I think with the Children’s Bill, wives can rejoice. They can employ maids below 16 years (the age of consent) so that it would be illegal for their husbands to go sniffing after them. But with the Children’s Bill, there are too many problems inherent.

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Today, some girls aged 14 look 17 because of their precocious development as a result of good nutrition or as a product of their peculiar physiological and anatomical make-up. And believe me, some of these young girls inflate their ages deliberately to make themselves marketable in today’s world of sugar daddies and love in exchange for money.

To worsen the problem, some parents do not know the ages of their kids. They just bring forth the laughingly naughty kids and keep no records. “I gave birth to Kwadwo 18 days after the fifth earth tremor hit Sikaman,” a confused father would say.

So Kwadwo or Abena or anybody for that matter can just look into the mirror, study her (or his) face carefully and decide that she must be 16, also because her buttocks resemble that of a 16 year old girl next block.

The law says that girls aged 16 can be courted and taken to bed so long as they consent to it. On the other hand, they cannot get married at 16. So, the law allows a young teenager to have sex and get pregnant at 16 but prevents her from getting married at that age. adzeei!

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The law further embarrassed itself by saying that a girl of 16 can marry, after all, so long, as parents of both parties lend their consent to it. So what exactly is this law saying?

That although you are not supposed to get married in effect, parents can influence their 16 year olds to marry even when they are not physically deem it fit?  In effect, parents can influence their 16 and emotionally matured for it?

The law must be definitive. If it allows teenagers get pregnant at 16, then the marriage age to have sex should be at 16, meaning that they can legitimately automatically be 16 because ideally, it is only married people who are supposed to get pregnant and bring forth babies.

So if the marriageable age is legally 18, then the age of consent must be 18. Short and simple!! The present law implies that a girl who gets pregnant at 16 has to wait for two years to get married (if her parents do not sanction it). So by 18, the child is two years old with no legitimate father, and the father might have married an older girl and gone off.

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Teenage prostitutes

Now, let’s forget about marriageable girls and concentrate on young teenagers who are getting addicted to alcohol. The beer bars allow in girls as young as 14 to sit down and drink anything from raw akpeteshie to large-sized Guinness, otherwise known as “odeeku.”

A girl of 16 can swallow four bottles of Guinness after laying foundation with three tots of gin. And she walks straight and steady. They are the sort of girls who are now fully enshrined in the trade of prostitution. 

And you know what? The old prostitutes are not happy with their intrusion. The young teenagers have all the equipment to attract higher bids – “bobby stands”, flexible waist, curves, beauty, style and hip. 

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So they are taking the bread out of the mouths of the old gang. And the oldies are now using macho to get the youngsters off. In fact, they are beating them and organising men to rape them.

To counteract this, the young girls are heading for mallams to get protection. The battle is joined. Sikaman Palava is investigating.

This article was first published on Saturday August 8, 1998

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Disqualified — Part 1

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THE discussion lasted only ten minutes. Mr Philip Sampson, Eunice’s father, had asked to see him, and he was led to the sitting room for the first time. Mr Sampson indicated that he should sit down.

‘Yes, Kakraba. I know that you have been, er, friends with Eunice for some months now, and naturally, as her father, I thought it would be important to meet you, and to reach an understanding with you on, er, some basic issues. So, I hear you are a graduate in building technology. Now, tell me about what you do’.

‘Okay. I worked with the Electricity Company for two years after National Service. During that time I interacted with some lawyers and land surveyors on our project sites, so I suggested to some of them that we take some dilapidated buildings in some parts of Accra, rehabilitate them and find new owners. Soon after starting that I got a job as Project Manager with a group of development agencies who are executing projects in the Northern Region, so I have been balancing the two positions’.

‘I see. That sounds like a bold step. So is it going well, financially?’

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‘Well, sir, I absolutely enjoy what I’m doing now. Financially, I would only say that I am a work in progress. A lot of what I’m doing now involves some risk taking, as it involves trust issues with land and property owners.

I am partnering with prominent lawyers and land surveyors, so I am not taking any serious risks. So currently I am doing okay financially, but it will take me some time before I reach the level where I can say I am comfortable financially.’

‘Okay. Now tell me about your parents’.

‘My father was an Agricultural Extension Officer, so we spent some time at several locations with him. He is now enjoying his retirement. And my mother is a retired nurse. I have three elder sisters, all married’.

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‘So you live with your parents?’

‘Yes and no. My dad built his home on one acre at Pokuase, so he gave me one plot, and I have done a three-bedroom house, where I live’.

‘Okay, fine. Thanks for the answers. You see, in addition to my position socially, I spent many years in the diplomatic service, so I’m sure you will understand that I need to ensure that my kids, especially my daughters, maintain suitable relationships. For now I think it is fine that you and Eunice are friends. I’m sure you understand what I mean’.

‘Yes sir. I understand perfectly well.’

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‘Great, okay, that would be all.’

Kakraba stood up, bowed and said thank you to Mr Sampson, and walked to the garden where his girlfriend Eunice, her mother Mrs Elaine Sampson and her two elder sisters, Yvonne and Emma, were seated, busily discussing some dresses being offered for sale online.

‘So,’ Mrs Elaine asked him, ‘you and Daddy had a good discussion?’

‘Yes, Ma. We certainly did. I really appreciate Dad for the discussion. It was really good.’

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‘Great. Although he has met you here on quite a number of occasions, I think it is good that you have met for a chat.’

‘Yes indeed, Ma, and I really appreciate it. So Eunice, I will be on my way. I will call.’

Eunice led him to his car, and after driving off he exhaled and shook his head. Although he had long concluded that Eunice’s family were so snobbish that a future relationship with her would be problematic, this discussion, or was it interrogation, had virtually cancelled any likelihood.

Mr Sampson just told him, in no uncertain terms, that the Sampson family was so prominent and socially connected that a union between his daughter and him was undesirable.

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He had a good relationship with Eunice. They shared some beautiful moments together, and often went out to entertainment joints, often with her three friends Marian, Patricia and Amanda. But Kakraba was often uncomfortable with their preferences.

Eunice regularly spoke about her family’s experiences during her father’s postings in Europe and Asia, and her three friends were always discussing the latest fashion trends, always noting the importance of placing themselves among the best-dressed ladies in town.

Eunice, her mother and siblings had indicated in several ways that he did not quite fit into their social standing. They had only said a mild ‘thank you’ when he brought them a goat or sheep and a generous amount of foodstuffs from the north every month.

But Kakraba did not really take it to heart, because they were quite inexpensive up north. Moreover, he always went to the food market and arranged with the truck drivers for a big package which was picked up by his buddy Paa John and delivered to his family and a few others, including the Sampsons.

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The fluidity of life:  A comprehensive analysis of amniotic fluid dynamics

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Amniotic fluid is the vital, specialised environment that cradles the developing fetus throughout gestation.

Far from being a static reservoir, it is a dynamic, metabolically active substance that facilitates growth, protects the fetus from physical trauma, and plays a crucial role in organ development.

 Understanding the fluid mechanics and biochemical composition of this medium is essential for obstetric care and fetal medicine in 2026.

1. Composition and dynamic turnover

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​Amniotic fluid is a complex, aqueous solution that undergoes constant turnover. Its composition changes as pregnancy progresses, reflecting the maturation of fetal organ systems.

Early gestation: The fluid is primarily an extension of maternal plasma, filtered across the fetal membranes (the amnion and chorion).

​Mid-to-late gestation: The composition becomes dominated by fetal contributions. The fetus swallows amniotic fluid, which is then processed by the fetal kidneys and excreted as urine. This “swallow-excrete” cycle is the primary driver of fluid volume regulation.

Key components: Beyond water, the fluid contains fetal skin cells, lanugo (fine hair), vernix caseosa (protective skin coating), electrolytes, proteins, carbohydrates, lipids, and antimicrobial peptides, all of which serve to nourish and protect the fetus.

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2. The functional importance of fluidity

​The “fluidity” of this environment is not merely descriptive; it is functional. The amniotic sac provides a highly regulated physical and chemical niche:

Mechanical protection: The fluid acts as a shock absorber, cushioning the fetus against external physical impact and preventing the umbilical cord from being compressed against the uterine wall, which could jeopardize oxygen supply.

Musculoskeletal development: The buoyancy provided by the fluid allows the fetus the freedom of movement necessary for the development of muscles and the proper formation of skeletal structures.

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Temperature regulation: By maintaining a constant thermal environment, the fluid protects the fetus from fluctuations in maternal core temperature.

Infection defense: Amniotic fluid contains a suite of innate immune factors, including lysozyme and various immunoglobulins, which provide an essential barrier against ascending bacterial infections.

​3. Clinical assessment: Volume as a Diagnostic Marker

​Obstetricians monitor amniotic fluid volume throughout pregnancy as a key diagnostic metric. Deviations from the normal range are categorized as follows:

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​Oligohydramnios (Low Fluid Volume): This can be a sign of fetal growth restriction, renal dysfunction (the fetus is not producing enough urine), or placental insufficiency. It is a critical indicator that necessitates immediate diagnostic investigation to ensure fetal wellbeing.

​Polyhydramnios (Excess Fluid Volume): This is often associated with conditions that interfere with the fetus’s ability to swallow or process fluid, such as gastrointestinal obstructions or maternal conditions like gestational diabetes.

​The Amniotic Fluid Index (AFI)-the sum of the deepest vertical pocket of fluid in each of the four quadrants of the uterus-remains the standard ultrasound measurement tool for assessing these volumes in clinical practice today.

4. The fluidity of developmental signaling

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​Recent research in 2026 has deepened our understanding of amniotic fluid as a “signaling soup.” It contains an array of extracellular vesicles and microRNAs that facilitate communication between the fetus and the maternal environment. These molecules are critical for signaling the initiation of labor and preparing the fetal lungs and gastrointestinal tract for the transition to postnatal life.

Conclusion

​Amniotic fluid is a sophisticated, life-sustaining medium that serves as the biological interface between mother and child. Its complex dynamics-constant production, ingestion, and recycling-ensure the physical, thermal, and immunological security required for human development.

​In modern obstetrics, the ability to monitor the volume and composition of this fluid provides a window into fetal health, allowing clinicians to detect and address potential complications proactively. As our knowledge of the biochemical signaling pathways within the amniotic sac continues to expand, so too does our capacity to ensure optimal health outcomes for both the mother and the fetus.

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