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Pride of leadership
I Read Government. And I believe I know what governance is supposed to be. However, I don’t understand politics. I have tried not to give myself the headache of trying to understand what it is all about. I guess I have a fair idea about democracy and its nuances. I have a fi rm belief that every society must practise democracy to suit its peculiar culture, customs and norms, not what is dictated by foreign or external forces.
I have observed that global leadership is dictatorial. America is a typical example, where democratic processes inside of that country are followed to the letter, yet the US dictates what other countries must do. Then comes in Donald J. Trump. We all have seen what Trump did to the democracy America prides itelf in. On January 6, 2021, his supporters descended on Capitol Hill and vandalised the very cradle of that country’s democracy. When you elect a rabble-rouser President, what do you expect? Pride and arrogance of leadership cost him the presidency in last year’s election. Pride of leadership has caused the collapse of empires, dynasties and governments. Empires like the Roman, Byzantine, Ottoman, British and others have come and gone. Indiscipline of leadership in some cases drowned these empires. Some were caused by the powers behind the thrones. Many of those powers were wives, concubines, fathers or even siblings who wielded power over the emperors, kings or whatever fancy
nomenclature they went by. Sadly, many modern leaders have not learnt from the history of these empires and strut around as if they are the chosen ones of God to run people’s lives. And this is my worry. I keep saying that a disciplined child cannot be born of an undisciplined parentage. The calf watches the mother’s mouth as she munches the grass, not so? Ghana’s Minister of Finance has gained notoriety for disrespecting parliament. Mr. Ken Ofori-Atta chooses to go deliver the economic policy of government at a time convenient to him while the lawmakers who would approve or disapprove the policy sit on their haunches waiting for him. Simply put, this is pride of leadership. If our leaders cannot respect institutions of state and their protocols, what business do they have in leadership? This is not an attack on the person of the Minister, but he is an example of what is festering in our national life. President Nana Akufo-Addo is noted for his punctuality at state events. I remember he was to attend the 170th anniversary of the founding of the Presbyterian Training College at Akropong in 2018. Because of our offi cial lateness to events, I almost did not attend though some of us had a special invitation as old students from the Principal. President Akufo-Addo was there before the scheduled time. Former President John Mahama hardly respected time when he was in offi ce, but Prof. Atta Mills was a Pride of leadership
stickler for punctuality as President Akufo-Addo. I had the opportunity of covering an event involving former President Kufuor at Sekondi in 2002. He was late. When I asked my buddy, former President Jerry Rawlings, why he attended certain functions late, he only answered that it was all “for effect.” I did not know what that meant but I let it pass. It is perfectly in order for public offi ce holders to be late for any event because of the workload they carry or for whatever reasons. But it is a mark of good leadership, maturity and respect for others to send a message to the gathering that for XYZ reasons, you are unable to beat the time and that you should be given whatever number of minutes to be present. You win respect as a result. But what do our offi cials do? They saunter into the programme before ranting out apologies when those gathered are either tired, angry or agitated by this offi cial behaviour. No sooner had that budget statement been delivered than the Minister in charge of roads, Mr.
Kwasi Amoako-Atta, decided that all toll booths be shut down on the country’s highways. I am told this minister is himself a member of parliament and knows the Standing Orders and their protocols. How come he could order the closure of toll booths when the House had not approved the budget statement? Indiscipline, if you asked me. Or is it pride of leadership? Leadership must inspire. Leadership must be exemplary. Leadership must encourage others to want to strive for leadership positions in service to their people. Leadership must be honest with the people. It must show a commitment to serve and not run roughshod over the people. With this behaviour of some of our leaders, what do we expect of those who will come after them in future? Personally, I do not care how our public offi ce holders conduct themselves in their offi cial positions, but they must be mindful of the signal they are sending to the youth who are acclaimed as the leaders of tomorrow. Where is the tomorrow for them if we corrupt their today with our negative attitudes? Give the Devil his due. In spite of accusations of highhandedness, Salifu Amankwa brought a certain discipline to the Nkrumah Circle area of the capital. Discipline is the watchword here.
Ten years after he left and more years after his death, people were still afraid to walk over the lawns around Circle anyhow they pleased. Leadership must uphold discipline at all times. What are human rights when lawlessness pervades the very fabric of society? Ghana did not go before Nkrumah. And all of the leaders who have gone have left Ghana behind. So, this country will be there after we are all gone, but the Ghana we leave for the generations after us will determine how history and posterity will judge us.
Writer’s e-mail address: akofa45@yahoo.com
By Dr. Akofo K. Segbefia
When Abigail Fremah steps up to the Armwrestling table, the noise fades, the tension settles, and order takes over.
Despite a calm, but firm and meticulous disposition, she has become one of the quiet forces shaping Ghana’s growing reputation in the sport, not as an athlete, but a referee trusted on the continental stage.
Abigail’s journey into Armwrestling did not begin at the table. Like many Ghanaian sports enthusiasts, she grew up playing several disciplines. Football was her first love, but she also featured in volleyball and basketball during her school years. Sports, she says, was simply a way of life not just for her.
“It runs through the family. All my siblings are into sports,” she stated.
“I was involved in almost every sport in school, football, volleyball, netball, hockey; I did everything,” she recalls.
Her academic background in Health, Physical Education and Recreation laid a solid foundation for her sporting career. While on scholarship at the university (University of Cape Coast), she often used her modest budget to support young athletes, sometimes sharing skills and even T-shirts at programmes she attended. Giving back, she explains, has always been part of her motivation.
However, as she matured as an athlete, Abigail made a critical self-assessment.
“Armwrestling involves a lot of strength,” she admits. “Looking at my body type, I realised I couldn’t fit properly as a competitive athlete.”
That moment of honesty pushed her to a different trajectory but equally important path in sports; which is officiating.
During her National Service, she was encouraged by Mr Charles Osei Asibey, the President of the Ghana Armwrestling Federation (GAF), to consider officiating. He introduced her to a technical official, Mr Hussein Akuerteh Addy, who formally took her through the basics of Armwrestling officiating in 2021.
“I started as a case official,” she says. “We moved from region to region every week, officiating competitions. That’s where it all began.”
By 2022, Abigail was actively involved in national assignments, though she missed the African Championship that year. Her breakthrough came in 2023, when Ghana hosted the African Armwrestling Championship.
It was her first experience officiating at a major international competition and it changed everything.
“That was my first national and international exposure at the same time,” she says. “It really opened my eyes.”
Today, Abigail is a World Junior Armwrestling Referee, a status earned through performance, consistency and discipline. She explains that progression in officiating was not automatic.
“It’s all about performance, your appearance at African Championships, your conduct, how you handle pressure; that’s what takes you to the world level,” she stressed.
As a referee, Abigail’s priority is safety and fairness. Armwrestling, she notes, comes with risks, particularly injuries to the wrists, elbows, shoulders and arms.
“If athletes don’t follow the rules or refuse to listen to officials, injuries can happen,” she explains, adding that focus was everything.
Before every match, she ensures that all equipment which includes elbow pads, hand pegs and table alignment were properly set. Athletes are not allowed to cover their elbows, must grip correctly, and must follow the referee’s commands precisely.
“We make sure everything is fixed before the grip,” she says. “Once we say ‘Ready… Go’, there should be no confusion.”
She is also firm on discipline. Warnings are issued for infractions, and repeated misconduct attracts penalties.
“The referee must be respected, if you don’t listen, the rules will deal with you,” she says.
Abigail credits her confidence partly to her sporting family background. Her mother was a volleyball player, while other family members also participated in sports. Though they were initially concerned about her safety, her rise to the top reassured them.
“They were afraid at first,” she admits. “But they were also very proud, especially because some of them never got the opportunity to reach this level.”
Looking ahead, Abigail is optimistic about the future of Armwrestling in Ghana. In less than a decade, the country has produced African and world-level medalists, a sign, she believes, of great things to come for Ghana.
“Whenever we go out, we come back with medals such as gold and silver,” she says, and to her that was a sign of growth.
In the next five to ten years, Abigail sees herself rising to become a World Master Referee, the highest officiating level in the sport. Until then, her routine remains intense, training four times a week, working closely with athletes, standing on her feet for hours, and constantly refining her understanding of the rules.
“I love this sport,” she says simply. “That love is what keeps me going.”
Abigail encouraged women to be bold and intentional about their place in sports saying “don’t limit yourself because of fear or stereotypes.”
She also urged women to invest in learning, discipline and consistency, stressing that respect was earned through performance.
For Abigail, as Ghana’s armwrestlers continue to make their mark, she will remain where she is most effective at the table, ensuring the game is played right.
By Esinam Jemima Kuatsinu
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As he had promised Aperkeh, the elderly man and his wife and three daughters stopped by Aperkeh’s parents’ house. Mr Amando and his family were preparing to settle in for the night.
“Brother Ben and family”, Mr Joshua Amando said warmly, “although I know you are here on a matter that can hardly be described as joyous, it is still good to see you. You are welcome. Please sit down while I bring you water”.
“Yes, we will take water, even though we are hardly thirsty, because this is our home”.
“Okay, Ben”, he started after they had drank, “Let me go straight to the point. My daughter Priscilla has told me about the goings on between her brother Aperkeh and our daughter Stella.
Before informing me, Priscilla had expressed concern to Aperkeh about some habits he is adopting, especially the late nights and the drinking. She tells me that one Saturday morning, she was there when Stella complained about his drinking and some girls who had come to the house to look for him, and he assaulted her.
I called him and complained, but all he could say was that I don’t know what caused him to react that way, so I could not judge him. Now he does not answer my calls.
I have sent Priscilla to his house to call him, but he has refused to come. Unfortunately, Ben, my son is a much different person than the young boy who completed university and started work at the bank. I am really embarrassed about his treatment of Stella”.
“Joshua, let me assure you that even though what is happening is very unfortunate, it will not affect our relationship.
We have been friends since childhood, and I thought that with their parents’ blessing, the relationship between Aperkeh and Stella would grow to become a blessing to all of us. But there appears to be a real challenge now.
Stella thinks that Aperkeh wants her out of his house, and indeed Aperkeh himself told me that, about an hour ago.
So I’m taking my daughter home. I suggest that you do what you can to straighten him out, but if it does not work out, let’s accept the situation and continue to be one family.
I am sure that being the well behaved girl that she is, Stella will meet a young man who will cherish her. Fortunately, this problem is happening early in the day, so they can sort things out if possible, or move on with their lives if they are unable to stay together”.
“I’m really grateful for that, Ben. I will do my best in the next few days to reason with him, because apart from the relationship with Stella, Aperkeh is risking his job and career with this lifestyle.
A good job and salary offers an opportunity to gather momentum in life, not to destroy yourself”.
“Okay Brother Joshua. We will say goodnight. I hope to hear positive news from you”.
As he descended in the lift from the fourth to the ground floor, Aperkeh wondered who would be waiting at the reception to see him at nine on Monday morning. He had spent good time with both of his new girls during the weekend, so it had to be someone else. He got out of the lift and pulled a face when he saw Priscilla.
“Priscilla”, he said as he sat down by her, “what do you want here? You know Monday morning is a busy time at the bank. I am a very busy person, so say what you want, I have work to do”.
“You are very funny, Aperkeh. You are telling me, your sister, that you have work to do, so I should hurry up? Okay, Dad says I should advise you to come home tonight, because he wants to discuss the issue of Stella with you. He sent me to you twice, and you did not come.
He has tried to call you quite a number of times, but you have refused to answer his calls. He says that if you do not come tonight, you will be very surprised at what he will do. He says you will not like it at all, so better come.
“What is all this? Why won’t you people leave me alone? Stella is very disrespectful. I told her that if she wanted to continue to live in my house, she must obey me. It is that simple.
She chose to continue ordering me about, controlling me in my own house, so I told her that if she could not live under my conditions she should leave. And she left. In fact, her own father came and took her away. So what again?’’
“How did she disobey or control you? Was she complaining about your continuous drinking and late nights? And did you slap her on several occasions because of that? Did you tell her that if she could not live under your conditions she should leave? You actually said that to her father? You have forgotten that before she came to live with you, our two parents met and agreed, and gave it their blessing?’
“Why don’t you leave, Priscilla? I don’t have to listen to all that”. “Okay, I will go. Your father who gave birth to you and educated you to university level sends me to you, and you ask me to leave? I wish you would defy him, and refuse to come home as he’s telling you, because he is planning to give you the discipline you badly need. Let me tell you. Stella is such a beautiful and decent girl, and I assure you that someone will grab her before you say Jack. You are only 30 years old, and you have already become a drunkard”.
As he walked towards the lift, Aperkeh decided on what to do. He would go home, and calmly listen to what his father had to say. The old man was very unpredictable, and he wouldn’t dare ignore him. So he would take all the insults and threats, but as for Stella she was history. According to Priscilla, Stella was beautiful and all that, but she had not seen the two curvaceous princesses who were all over him, ready to do anything he asked. And these were not barely literate waakye girls, but university graduates from wealthy homes, really classy girls. With stuff like that, who needs a waakye girl? He smiled as he took his seat.
A few minutes to five, Aperkeh was packing up to leave for home to meet his dad when his phone rang. It was Priscilla.
“Aperkeh, Dad says you don’t need to bother to come. Stella’s dad says she came to him early this morning to plead that she would rather stay at home than return to your house. She thinks you are already decided to be rid of her, and she does not want to risk being assaulted again. So it’s done. You can go ahead and enjoy the nice life you have started”.
Before he could tell her to go to hell, Priscilla hanged up the line. He was partially stung that his dad had virtually cut him off. The last thing anyone would want was to fall out of relationship with his own family, which had always supported him.
But the truth was he was no longer interested in Stella. What was wrong with going by one’s feelings? He could only hope that one day, his parents and sister would try to reason with him.
By Ekow de Heer
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