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Communication is key in marriage – Counsellor

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Manuel Owusu-Kumi

Manuel Owusu-Kumi

Reverend Manuel Owusu-Kumi a marriage and relatiuonship coun­sellor has advised married couples to be mindful of their choice of words when communicating with each other.

That, he said, was important be­cause those words have the power to either make the marriage work or mar it.

Speaking in an inter­view with The Spectator on Monday about some ‘dos and don’ts’ for a successful marital life, Rev Owusu-Kumi ob­served that marriages have two committed people determined to make the union work.

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However, he said if communication was not handled well, it could ruin whatever have been achieved.

He said the use of negative words could hurt a party badly and make them withdraw temporarily or perma­nently in some cases, in the process affecting trust and even intimacy.

“Sometimes, after an apology and forgiveness, the offended person is not able to forget about what was said,” he noted.

Rev Owusu-Kumi said good communi­cation should be the priority of anyone who wishes to have a long-lasting relationship devoid of conflicts.

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According to the Counsellor and Therapist, it was important for per­sons who were already married or have plans to get married but have a challenge as regards communication to seek professional help to deal with it immediately.

Healthy marriages, he noted pro­motes peace of mind for couples to be productive at work, be less anxious and prevent diseases.

He said asking for assistance was not a sign of weakness as people tend to believe but rather a sign of maturity.

Rev Owusu-Kumi noted that, there were spouses that refuse to talk at home because of the fear of being misunderstood but that would over­time affect the relationship.

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He cautioned against the use of derogatory expressions like ‘you are not smart,’ ‘can’t you do this simple thing,’ ‘you are useless’ or attempt to make a comparison with another person.

“In place of such expressions, couples should sound very positive, optimistic about each other and find ways of addressing their challenges together,” he advised.

The Counsellor advised couples to be calm and even excuse themselves even in the face of extreme provoca­tion.

“This allows for reasoning, risk as­sessment, logic among other positive things which overtime had helped to save many marriages and even pre­vented physical and verbal attacks.”

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He advised singles planning to get married to seek counselling from pro­fessional and certified counsellors to be advised properly.

Rev Owusu-Kumi urged the youth to consider characteristics such as a per­son’s vision, purpose, and determina­tion for work in making their choices.

 From Dzifa Tetteh Tay, Tema

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From policy to practice: Making productivity a national movement in Ghana- Part 1

Management Development and Productivity Institute (MDPI), Ghana

Productivity is not a corporate buzzword. It is the bedrock of national transformation. Until Ghana moves productivity from the language of policy documents into the lived reality of every worker, farmer, entrepreneur, and public servant, our development aspirations will remain aspirations.

Introduction: A Nation with Ambition but an Execution Gap

Ghana has never suffered from a shortage of ambition. From the bold industrialisation dreams of the Nkrumah era to the Ghana Beyond Aid agenda and successive medium-term development frameworks, the country has produced visionary policy blueprints that articulate what a prosperous, self-reliant Ghana should look like. Yet a persistent and troubling gap remains between policy design and policy delivery — between what is promised and what is practised.

Ghana’s labour productivity, while growing in pockets, continues to lag behind peers in sub-Saharan Africa and falls far short of what is required to accelerate structural transformation. According to the Africa Productivity Report, productivity growth on the continent remains constrained by low technology adoption, weak institutional frameworks, and limited investment in human capital. Ghana is not immune to these forces.

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The question before us, therefore, is not whether Ghana needs a productivity revolution. It plainly does. The question is: how do we move from policy intent to national practice? How do we turn productivity from a technical concern of economists and planners into a movement that every Ghanaian owns and champions?

Why policy alone is not enough

Ghana has had a National Productivity Policy. It has had the Ghana Shared Growth and Development Agenda. It has the Coordinated Programme of Economic and Social Development Policies. These are serious, well-intentioned frameworks. So why does the average Ghanaian worker not feel them?

The answer lies in what management scholars call the implementation deficit — the widening chasm between policy as written and policy as lived. Several structural weaknesses deepen this gap in Ghana. First, our productivity agenda has remained largely top-down, conceived by technocrats and rolled out through bureaucracies without sufficient grassroots ownership.

Second, institutions mandated to drive productivity, including the Management Development and Productivity Institute (MDPI), the Ghana Enterprise Agency (GEA), and sector-specific agencies, have historically been under-resourced relative to their mandates. Third, the culture of measurement is weak: what is not measured is rarely improved, and in many of our workplaces and public institutions, productivity is neither tracked nor rewarded.

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There is also the matter of culture. Productivity is ultimately a behavioural phenomenon. It thrives where there is discipline, accountability, a sense of urgency, and institutional trust. Building that culture in Ghana requires more than new policies. It requires sustained leadership, behavioural change, and a shift in what we celebrate as a society.

Lessons from the Kaizen Philosophy: Small changes, big results

One of the most instructive case studies in translating productivity policy into national practice comes from an unlikely source, Japan’s post-war reconstruction. Faced with the ruins of industrial capacity and a shattered economy, Japan did not simply craft more ambitious plans. It changed the way every worker, manager, and citizen thought about their daily work. The Kaizen philosophy, meaning “change for the better,” spread from factory floors to hospitals, schools, government offices, and eventually entire supply chains.

The Africa Kaizen Initiative (AKI), championed by the African Union Development Agency-NEPAD and supported by Japan’s International Cooperation Agency (JICA), has begun introducing these principles to the African continent, including Ghana. The approach is deliberate: start with enterprises and individuals, embed a culture of continuous improvement at the operational level, and then allow that culture to scale upward into sectors, value chains, and national systems.

The lesson Ghana should draw is powerful: national productivity movements do not begin with national policies. They begin with the person at the desk, the farmer in the field, the nurse on the ward, the teacher in the classroom, deciding that today, they will do their work a little better than yesterday. Policy creates the enabling environment. But the movement must be human.

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Five pillars for making productivity a national movement

Drawing on global best practices and Ghana’s specific development context, I propose five pillars for transforming productivity from a policy commitment into a national movement.

1. Embed productivity in education and early career development

No nation sustains a productivity culture without instilling its values from the earliest stages of human development. Ghana’s educational curriculum at the basic, secondary, and tertiary levels must give explicit attention to time management, work ethic, quality consciousness, problem-solving, and continuous improvement. Technical and Vocational Education and Training (TVET) programmes should become rigorous schools of craft excellence, not holding grounds for those who could not access universities. Employers, universities, and TVET institutions must collaborate to define what “productive work” looks like in Ghana’s context and ensure graduates are equipped to deliver it.

2. Build a national productivity measurement system

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You cannot improve what you do not measure. Ghana needs a robust, regularly updated national productivity database that tracks productivity across sectors, enterprises, and regions. The Ghana Statistical Service, MDPI, and sector ministries must collaborate to develop key productivity indicators, including output per worker, total factor productivity, and process efficiency ratios, and to report on them publicly. This data should inform budget allocation, incentive design, and policy adjustments. Transparency about where Ghana stands and which sectors are improving fosters accountability and healthy competition.

 

 

 

 

 

By Ethel Ansah-Antwi

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It will be interesting to check the number of times the phrase “plans are far advanced” and the other one “it is in the pipeline” appear in responses of politicians to questions from their constituents and their public releases. 

It appears they are taught this in special classes organised for them in how to respond to questions during public interactions like town hall meetings etc.  Whenever you hear someone speaking on TV or Radio and using such phrases, the probability of him or her being a politician, a government spokesman or an official of some sort is very high. 

They know they are lying to you but they will still use such language to make you believe that the issues that are of concern to you are being addressed. The worst of them are those with the title Government Spokesman. They will tell you lies with a straight face and attempt to defend the indefensible.

It reminds me of a cartoon someone sent to me.  It showed a woman seriously admonishing his little boy and saying to him “If you do not stop this lying, you will grow up to become a Government Spokesman.” 

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A very interesting observation from the lady but it is a factual statement.  How many times have we not heard statements from government spokesmen, only for us to realise as they say, a few moments later, that they were a pack of lies or to be charitable, a pack of misleading statements.

 This attitude is so entrenched in our society, irrespective of the government in power.  What worries me is that, these persons, would still go to church on Sundays and mosques on Fridays.  They may even be leaders in those churches and mosques.  How they are able to live with their conscience, is something worth researching into.

We may have to design a system that will compel politicians to be transparent so that these political statements that seek to deceive the public, can be reduced if not completely eradicated.  The funny thing is that, they never say how long the pipe is.  All they say is that, it is in the pipeline. 

The integrity of the political leaders, must be evident for people to trust in the democratic experiment we have embarked on in this Fourth Republic.  The culture in other places is that, leaders who are found to have lied, resign voluntarily.

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This is where we have to become deliberate in pushing for such a culture to be adopted and entrenched in our society for good governance to thrive.

Let our political discourse be shaped by language that projects truth and transparency.  This is the only way, the citizens will begin to have faith that they have lost in the democracy we are practicing.

Let us do all we can, as a people, to make values of integrity and accountability become part of the values we cherish as a nation, to compel our leaders to aspire to live by them to help all of us. 

This is because, should democracy fail in this fourth republic, the consequences will be disastrous.  Let us pray for leaders as the Bible instructs so that the deceitful phrases of it is in the pipeline and plans are far advanced, when those declaring them know they are lying, will be a thing of the past.  God bless.

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