Gender
Betrayal of trust: Understanding effects of abuse and assault on children
Mostly sexually abused victims are often abused by people they trust which can include family members, friends, acquaintances, or authority figures.
This makes it difficult for victims and the guardians to report the abuse or seek help as they may feel a sense of loyalty or obligation to the perpetrator.
Due to this sense of loyalty, many of such cases are either not reported to the police and are sometimes either settled at home with a little token as compensation or without it at all.
A typical case currently is that of Ransford, a 16-year-old footballer who is said to have been allegedly sodomised by the coach of his club, Siano Soccer Academy.
Unfortunately, Ransford died at the Komfo Anokye Teaching Hospital, after battling with severe illness which was as a result of the sexual abuse he had endured for the past three years.
Many of such cases occur and often remain hidden because of the person who committed the crime and also because victims do not believe the justice system.
Abuse of trust can have profound impact on victims, making them feel vulnerable, betrayed and powerless.
The Domestic Violence and Victims Support Unit (DOVVSU) exist to provide free services to members of the public; protect the rights of the vulnerable against all forms of abuse be it physical, sexual, emotional and psychological, socio-economic, or harmful cultural practices; establish an effective database for crime detection, prevention and prosecution.
The Unit also refer victims for medical services and specialised help to clinical psychologists; social workers from the Department of Social Welfare and counsellors attached to the Unit.
In February 2015, the government of Ghana approved its new Child and Family Welfare Policy which aims at preventing and protecting children from all forms of violence, abuse, neglect and exploitation.
The effects of sexual assault on children can have devastating, long-lasting and profound effects on the lives of victims and their loved ones.
These people abuse the trust to sexually exploit or assault minors. They groom, coerce, and deceive children and teens into committing sexual acts in person or online.
A report by the Ghana Statistical Service 2011 states that over 90 per cent of children report having experienced physical violence, both at home and in the school environment.
A paper on culture and nondisclosure of child sexual abuse in Ghana on behalf of the American Bar Foundation and authored by Kofi E. Boakye said the concept of patriarchy and its relation to rape and violence against women in general was given greater prominence.
It said further to the concept of patriarchy, and its excesses are false beliefs about (child) sexual abuse and its victims, also likely to negatively influence the disclosure of child abuse.
According to the paper, culture remains a crucial site for the construction and perpetuation of these misconceptions or false beliefs.
United Nations Childrens Fund (UNICEF)
According to the UNICEF the financial burden of child abuse in Ghana was estimated at more than USD 200 million per year or one per cent of Ghana’s GDP.
The estimated total number of children who have been physically or emotionally abused was noted at 3.4 million in Ghana.
According to UNICEF, issues that impede the prevention of violence against children include social norms, accepting and promoting the use of violence in schools, homes and other institutions as an effective way to manage the behaviour of children, laws permitting the use of “reasonable” punishment by parents against children.
Also insufficient allocation of resources to prevention and response programmes in all spheres, inadequate capacity of key government actors – including social workers, teachers, police, prosecution and courts – to prevent and respond
Other factors include lack of timely and continuous specialised management of child protection cases of violence, cultural practices inhibiting the ability of survivors of violence to come forward, and poor quality of care given to survivors of violence, which may put them to greater risk.
In 2015, UNICEF and its partners produced a Child Protection Community Facilitation Manual and toolkits containing games and activities that are designed to stimulate community reflection on child protection issues and encourage local action.
In November 2017, UNICEF with support from the Government of Ghana launched the ‘Ghanaians Against Child Abuse’ (GACA) campaign, which runs in line with the government’s Child and Family Welfare and Justice for Children policies that are helping to strengthen the child protection system in Ghana.
The campaign is using various channels including social media, traditional media, mobile theatre to create awareness on child abuse issues whilst mobilising national support to provide a safe and protective environment for children.
It is anticipated that this movement will help change the narrative of how Ghanaians protect their children.
Breaking the silence around sexual abuse and assault is crucial to preventing crimes and supporting victims.
Talking about assault has its advantages although it might be difficult for the victims to identify them.
Breaking the silence, victims talking about their experience, sharing their suffering, understanding what happened to them and the impacts on their lives and establishing relationships based on trust can contribute to giving them tools to regain their confidence.
Also education plays a crucial role in preventing any form of child sexual abuse when a child is educated on the effects of sexual abuse it arms then as well as their parents, trusted adults and educators with crucial information to keep kids safe either at home or online.
It empowers the children and their guardians with the knowledge and tools they need to protect themselves.
Also, the fight against child abuse or assault transcends borders and requires collaboration between law enforcement, non-governmental organisations, parents and educators, and the public at large.
There is therefore the need for partnerships to amplify the impact of abuse and assault on children and need for a coordinated response to fight a crime of child sexual abuse.
Gender
Impact of body image stigma on slender women
The idea of what a perfect physique is, fuelled by social media and societal pressure has distorted individual’s perspectives.
Body image stigma is one of the most debilitating issues that has led a lot of people into distorted views of reality, unhealthy behaviours, and self-doubt. Most people, particularly individuals with slender physique, are judged by their looks, making them feel inferior and not good enough.
The focus on physical appearance often makes them miss out on what really matters. Being slender offers a lot of opportunities beyond the physical appearance. However, most people do not realise this. They seek for other alternatives for external validation.
A slender physique is often associated to lean or slim physiques. Some people may view individuals with this figure as weak or fragile, lacking in energy or being skinny.
In a conversation with Miss Gifty Djarnie, a Level 200 student at the University of Media, Arts and Communication – Institute of Journalism (UniMAC-IJ), she shared her thoughts on being slender and how it has impacted her life.
According to her, being skinny or slim is normal and an identity.
“I used to be mocked because of my figure and size,” she revealed. “But as time went on, I acknowledged the fact that I am skinny, and now I am used to it. The stereotypes sort of gave me some confidence that hey, you are unique.
This is your identity and nothing can change your physique even if as time goes on, you increase in weight. It will still be in my records that I used to be skinny. So that’s an identity. One must embrace it wholeheartedly. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it.”
Gifty has acknowledged that being slender is part of her identity so she has learned to accept and embrace it. She also acknowledged that societal stereotypes can have profound impact on one’s self-perception but ultimately, it’s up to the individual to define their own identity.
Miss Patience Bumbom, a professional model and beauty queen, who tells me about the opportunities of having such figure, talks about how they are highly paid compared to plus-sized ladies, and how she gets endorsement deals from clothing brands like Damson Vogue, to advertise their products.
She encouraged slender ladies to know their worth and embrace their body shape. She recounted how her colleagues used to call her “Alangadwoa, and Sugarcane”, making her feel bad.
Such derogatory names, she disclosed compels individuals with this physique to resort to the use of body enhancement pills to artificially put on a bit more flesh to appear more attractive.
That is not to suggest that having more flesh necessarily makes one attractive. Attraction would not come by just putting on weight but more about how one presents him or herself.
Sadly, that societal pressure has increased the demand for the body enhancing products, especially in the capital, Accra.
This was confirmed by Auntie Esi, a vendor of these products. In an interaction with her, she stated that body enhancement pills, silicon butts lifters and hip pads were in very high demand by the young ladies.
“They purchase these products to boost their body parts to look attractive.”
These drugs, she explained come in various forms such as liquid, pomade and powder.
“They also come with various side effects,” she revealed. “For some, it makes them feel sleepy; others would feel like responding to nature’s call. Despite all of these, they have absolute faith in their ability to transform the physiques.”
Aunty Esi also revealed that some ladies prefer to purchase the silicon butt and hip pads rather than go under the knife for a Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) surgery due to its risks. “This has been my source of income for many years and I’m not going to stop. If I stop, how would I feed my children?” she queried.
Mr Godfred Arko Osei, a counsellor at UniMAC-IJ, shared his perspectives on the challenges faced by slender ladies and strongly advised against the use of enhancement products.
“It is all about your mindset,” he emphasized. “If you are able to cultivate a positive mindset about yourself and your appearance, it will boost your self-esteem, and other opinions won’t affect you at all. However, if you already have a negative perception about your looks, you’re already affected before anybody uses that against you. I wouldn’t encourage it because you don’t need artificial means to look good; it’s not a reflection of your true self.”
Without a doctor’s prescription, these drugs when taken, can be detrimental to the health of users. Is it worth it at the end especially when they lose their lives? What measures is the Food and Drugs Authority (FDA) taking to keep these products off the market?
Stricter regulations and public education are crucial to curb the dangers of these unprescribed drugs. FDA can work with the law enforcement agencies to enact strict measures to arrest persons who sell these products to serve as deterrent to others.
Hospitals can also collaborate with institutions such as universities to educate on the importance of self-esteem and the adverse effect of such unprescribed drugs, ultimately safeguarding public health.
*The Author (jbanfro56@gmail. com) is a Level 300 Student Journalist at UniMAC-IJ
By Banfro Josephine
Gender
Women urged to strive for success, not liabilities to husbands
An Entrepreneur and Politician, Ms Eunice Lasi, has urged young girls to strive for success and support their husbands, rather than becoming liabilities.
Speaking at the Ada Youth Summit held last Thursday, she emphasised the importance of girls attaining the highest possible level of education, developing their careers or becoming successful entrepreneurs in order to contribute meaningfully to their households.
“The narrative that girls do not need to work because they will be taken care of by their husbands must change. Men need supportive women as well,” she stated.
“It is therefore important for girls not to feel intimidated by their male counterparts, but stand up and pursue success,” she added.
Ms Lasi noted that whether in business or politics, women must remain focused and determined, while cultivating self-worth and self-respect in order to reach the top.
Ms Lasi, who contested as an independent candidate for the Sege Constituency in the 2024 elections, stressed that women should not limit themselves to the kitchen.
She noted that the perception that women belonged in the kitchen was gradually changing.
However, she stressed that it would require more women to rise, be visible and make a difference.
According to her, there were numerous opportunities available to girls, as many organisations were actively seeking to employ women.
She argued that women were often better business managers than men and should not be restricted to settling down in marriage alone.
She encouraged business leaders, especially women to mentor and support young girls to become entrepreneurs and job creators.
Ms Lasi also commended the organisers of the summit, themed “Paradigm Shift,” for their efforts in inspiring change in mindset among women and society at large.
“Let us work towards creating more platforms like this for the youth of Ada to raise their voices and be heard,” she stated.
The summit brought together traditional leaders, politicians and entrepreneurs to discuss key developmental issues, including governance, entrepreneurship and technology.
By Spectator Reporter
