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A guide to supporting autistic children for parents, teachers
AUTISM remains widely misunderstood in Ghana. The World Health Organisation (2023) estimates one in 100 children globally are autistic; Ghana Health Service surveillance notes rising identifications yet persistent gaps in training, especially outside Accra and Kumasi. Many teachers have never seen a visual schedule; many parents meet only confusion when their child reacts strongly to noise, touch, or change. An autistic child is not “difficult” – they process sensory input and social cues differently. Some speak fluently but tire quickly in groups; some use few words but excel at patterns, memory, or art. The spectrum is exactly that – a spectrum, not a label.
Three findings shape doable action. Kasari et al. (2022) showed structured peer-engagement raised classroom initiations by 30 per cent among autistic learners. AHEAD-Ghana (2023) reported visual schedules cut disruptions by 31 per cent in public primary classes. University of Ghana Psychology Centre (2024) found two-minute daily “strength talks” at home lowered parent stress and improved compliance. These are not imported theories; they are practices we have helped families and schools apply through Counselor Prince & Associates Consult (CPAC), our accredited clinical mental-health and training centre.
Make the day knowable
Under Ghana Education Service Inclusive Education guidelines, a simple board—maths, break, reading—reduces ambiguity. In low-resource classrooms that may be paper cards; in Accra schools it may be printed strips. At home, keep one anchor ritual: water, bag, shoes by the door. Prepare the child before assemblies or church using phone photos: “we greet, then sit.” Offer a voluntary quiet corner, not punishment but reset. Break tasks; today open the book, tomorrow write the date.
Coordinate, do not duplicate
A teacher’s brief note—what helped, what tripped—lets parents rehearse the same cue at home. A parent’s update—late sleep, constipation, and a win—helps the teacher start gently. At CPAC, we coach families and teachers to keep a single-page plan: triggers, calmers, strength, and one same fact: adults burn out in silence. Couples need a hand-off each evening; teachers need peer debriefs. Kasari’s peer model works for grown-ups too. In towns with few clinicians, radio parent groups and GHS community nurses become key allies.
Celebrate real progress
When a boy counts change correctly or a girl copies a spelling, name it: “You remembered—that helped.” Strengths fund courage for harder tasks. Review monthly and drop what fails.
Remember the supporter’s needs
My therapy and counselling work and Counselor Blessing Offei’s counselling and caregiver-training show the autistic children do not require inspiration; they require environments that remember them tomorrow as clearly as today—a posted routine, a break offered, a skill noticed, and adults who talk to each other. That is nation-building at the level that matters.
Resources
- CPAC (award-winning Mental Health and Counselling Facility): 0559850604 / 0551428486
- Ghana Education Service Inclusive Education resource packs (request through district office)
- GHS child-development clinics for referral
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References
- AHEAD-Ghana. (2023). Visual supports and classroom participation in Ghanaian primary schools. Journal of Inclusive Education in Africa, 7(2), 44–59.
- Kasari, C., et al. (2022). Peer engagement interventions for autistic learners. Pediatrics, 149(3), e2021053277.
- University of Ghana Psychology Centre. (2024). Daily parent strength-talk and family stress: A pilot study. Ghana Journal of Psychology, 12 (1), 21–34.
- World Health Organisation. (2023). Autism spectrum disorders fact sheet.
To be continued …
Source: REV. COUNSELOR PRINCE OFFEI and certified caregiver and licensed counsellor, Counselor Blessing Offei’s insights on special education, relationships, mental health, and parenting/training special needs children in Ghana. He is a leading mental health professional, lecturer, ADR Expert/Arbitrator, renowned author, and marriage counsellor at COUNSELOR PRINCE & ASSOCIATES CONSULT (CPAC COUNSELLOR TRAINING INSTITUTE). He is the author of several books, including “Preparing for a Happy and Fulfilling Marriage” and “A Counsellor’s Guide to Using ‘Preparing for a Happy and Fulfilling Marriage’ Effectively.”
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Parenting teens can be challenging. But it can also be a joy. The key is to know how to care for yourself, first and foremost. Before you have children, you might think that parenting will come naturally. And, to some degree, it does. But there are days (and sometimes months and years) when all parents could use some extra support.
Last week we looked at some four simple yet powerful approaches for parenting teens that build strong relationships for the long-run. Here are the remaining two:
4: Keep communication going
Because we are often busy and distracted, we do not always take the time to really focus on our kids when they’re trying to tell us something. Take advantage of the time you have together. Having dinner together as a family, using car time to talk, or chatting before bed are good ways to stay in daily touch with your teen. Prioritise quality time as well as quantity: Consider having breakfast out on the weekend as a special catch-up time to chat about the week. Or schedule monthly “family meetings” to discuss how things have been going and any conflicts that have arisen.
5. Be an empathetic listener
Listening with empathy and caring is one of the most important tips on parenting a teenager. Researchers have shown that people’s brain patterns synchronise when they listen closely to one another and watch each other’s expressions. As a result, the connection between them becomes stronger. Not feeling truly heard can lead to isolation and lack of self-esteem which are the root causes of anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. Therefore, take listening seriously. It’s not just a way of coping with teenagers; it has an enormous impact on their well-being.
The price of ‘I do’: Why money honesty is the real marriage insurance –Part 2
She did not find out he was cheating. She found out he was drowning.
It was two weeks after their beautiful wedding. The jollof was still in the fridge. A loan officer called her number-not his-and politely asked, “Madam, please tell your husband to pay his overdue loan. We have been calling him.”
That was how she discovered her new husband had entered their marriage with a hidden debt of over GH¢ 40,000. No cheating. No other woman. Just a financial secret.
And that is how many Ghanaian marriages begin to die. Not with a shout, but with a secret alert on a phone.
We prepare for the wedding. We do not prepare for the wallet.
What is money honesty?
Let me define it simply. Money honesty is not that you both earn the same. It is that you both know the same. It is the ability to sit down and say without fear:
“This is how much I earn.”
“This is how much I owe.”
“This is how I was raised to see money.”
“This is what scares me about money.”
Financial transparency is not about control. It is about clarity. You cannot build trust on top of secrets.
Many couples tell me, “Counsellor, we love each other, love will handle money.” I always answer, “Love is the car, but money honesty is the fuel. Love without honesty cannot move.”
How To Buy Your Marriage Insurance Today – My 5-Step Protocol
If you are engaged, newly married, or even 20 years in marriage, you can still fix this. At Counsellor Prince & Associates Consult—CPAC, this is what I give couples:
Step 1: The 90-Minute Money Naked Session.
No phones, no blame. Each partner writes down on paper: Monthly income, monthly debts, monthly family obligations, savings, and your biggest money fear. Then you exchange papers. Read it. Don’t react for 24 hours. Just absorb.
Step 2: Create OUR Money, YOUR Money, My Money.
You need three pots. OUR money for rent, food, school fees, utilities, properties, and the like— joint contribution. YOUR money and MY money—a small agreed allowance no one questions. This stops the feeling of being controlled.
Step 3: The No-Secret Debt Rule.
Agree from today: No new loan, no new hire purchase, no new family financial commitment above GHS 500 without telling each other first. Not permission, but information.
Step 4: Talk About Your Money Personality.
Are you a Spender or a Saver? Are you Risky or Safe? Most Ghanaian marriages are a Spender married to a Saver. Neither is wrong. But if you don’t understand your partner’s personality, you will call his saving “stinginess” and her spending “wastefulness.”
Step 5: Do a Monthly 30-Minute Money Date
Not an argument date. Light, with tea. “How did we do this month? What worried you? What should we plan for next month?” Couples who do this divorce far less.
My Final Word
Before you say “I Do” at the altar, have pre-marital counselling and also have the money talk on the sofa.
Ask your partner:
“If I lost my job today, how long can we survive?”
“What debt are you bringing into this marriage?”
“How much do you send to your family monthly and will that continue?”
If he or she gets angry that you asked, don’t get married yet. A person who is angry about accountability will be abusive about money.
Marriage insurance is not bought at Star Assurance or Enterprise. It is bought in honest conversations when no one is watching.
The wedding costs one day. The marriage costs a lifetime. Don’t enter a lifetime contract and covenant with hidden costs.
You can still insure your marriage today.
Source:
Counselor Prince Offei, CPAC’s founder, is a leading Mental Health Professional, Marriage Counsellor, Author, ADR Expert/Arbitrator, and Spectator Newspaper Columnist. He writes on relationships, marriage, parenting, special needs support, and their connection to mental health. For therapy, counselling, or enquiries, contact Counselor Prince & Associates Consult (CPAC) in Accra on 0559850604 / 0551428486.
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