Obaa Yaa
How will the end be?
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I Started dating this guy since I completied SHS and everything has been sailing smoothly but I am of the view that he might jilt me along the way due to my past experience.
I must confess, my guy is as gentle as a lamb but I have trust issues with him since he does not openly tell me everything he is going through.
Until recently, he has started putting up weird behaviour which I am uncomfortable with but I have decided to swim against the tide because it seems he is not taking me serious anymore. He does not pick my calls, besides he shouts at me. I currently have my heart in my mouth because I can foresee danger ahead but I do not want to be a victim.
Ama, Osu
Dear Ama,
Every relationship has its ups and downs. Trust issues should be handled with tact. I advise that when you get in touch with him politely ask if he wants to remain in the relationship with you. I believe he will tell you about his problems and seek help. In the meantime if you still get the same treatment from him be focused, forge ahead in life and pursue your dream. Build your life and any good man would cherish you once you are positive and progressive.
Obaa Yaa
I want a sponsor
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 25 years of age. I am a degree holder and wants to further my education with my Masters.
But unfortunately, I lost my father and I don’t have any one to help me financially to do my masters.
I am seeking for sponsors to help me but I do not know any such sponsor. I am, therefore, appealing to you through this letter for assistance.
Paddy, Ada.
Dear Paddy,
It is quite impossible finding such ‘sponsorships’ at random unless you have family members who want to assist.
Try as much as possible to search for a job because we are in hard times and I wonder what type of sponsorship you are looking for.
You can save after you have been paid. After working for a while, you can take a loan to further your education and arrange for suitable class.
You can start a lucrative business online just as other ladies are selling clothes, shoes, bags etc to earn a living.
Even if someone will assist you, you need to make efforts yourself.
Obaa Yaa
My boss is the problem
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I AM in love with a young man in my office. He is a very kind and gentle man every woman will dream of.
He is 35 and I am 25 years of age. I am currently pursing my Masters at the Accra Technical University in Fashion Design and Textiles.
As a matter of fact, he assists me in my project works, assignment and always ready to help me in times of difficulty.
Interestingly, he has also shown interest in me and we are planning to get married next year.
My problem is that anytime my boss sees him around me, he gets angry and gives him attitude and shouts at him to go to his office.
My fiancée wants to resign because it is making him uncomfortable in the office and this is affecting his attitude towards work.
He is accusing me of having a relationship with the boss. I am disturbed, what should I do?
Baaba,
Takoradi.
Dear Baaba,
It is natural in such a case for your fiancé to suspect your boss might be after you.
Your boss’s attitude to your fiancé is too harsh. He should take it easy with him, especially when he is assisting you with work.
I have a feeling that your boss has an interest in you so seeing your fiancé around you makes him uncomfortable.
However, you can also have a talk with your boss to find out the reason for his behaviour towards your guy.
