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Appearance can be deceptive

One of the themes running through Shakespeare’s work is the conflict of appearance and reality. He was the first to tell us that “All that glitters is not gold,” and he again reminded us that “Every cloud engenders not a storm.” In trying to tell us that things are not always as they seem, the bard said, “Things sweet to taste prove in digestion sour.”
It is sometimes good for us to reflect on the themes of great literature because their truth isn’t always limited to a certain time or people. And we, much more than the people of Shakespeare’s day, are living in a world of false images where reality is hard to sort out from appearance. It’s a world where a political candidate’s hairstyle may prove more important to his campaign than his stand on the issues. It is a world where we know one another so superficially that for some our best friends are those flickers of a colour on a television set. It is a world where our dream homes are the slim facades of a Hollywood movie set. A world where we put on fronts because we are uncertain people will like us without our veneer.
The great danger in all this is that we may become so confused between appearance and reality that we put our faith and time in the temporary, rather than the eternal, spending a lifetime chasing cotton candy realities. It is too easy to equate the importance of a person with his visibility, the meaning of a job with its notoriety. We may let those things which seem the most pressing pull us away from the things which are most important. We may begin to think that power is wealth and influence, rather than personal integrity.

It was Rudyard Kipling who said, “Lo, all our pomp of yesterday, Is one with Ninevah and Tyre,” two cities which have utterly vanished from the map.
Appearance and reality, if only they would label themselves so we could clearly recognise them and act accordingly. But appearance has a way of seeming immediate, important, demanding. And reality dressed in simple clothes fades quietly into the background. We rarely have time to stop in our running and ask, “What really matters in the eternal scheme of things?”
Thus, there is the father who misses his child’s first piano recital, but not his business meeting. There is plenty of time for a mindless magazine, but not the scriptures. We learn to envy those who are served, not those who do the serving.
But one day when our eyes are clear, appearance with all of its false gaiety and self-seeking will take a final curtain bow and reality will take its rightful place centre stage. Then we will know if we have put our faith and time in their proper place.
Long ago, the prophet Samuel was taught: “. . . the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.” This passage of scripture is familiar to many. But, like Samuel, we may find it difficult at times not to be distracted, or even misled by appearances.
Samuel was struggling to find a replacement for King Saul when the Lord gave him this counsel: “Look not on the countenance, or on the height of his stature,” but rather look on the heart. He was still mourning the downfall of this great leader when, as prophet, he was commanded to anoint a new king. At that point in time, looking on the heart of any other man even a future king required the opening of his own heart.
And so, it goes for each of us. Think how our lives are enriched when we choose to look on the heart, and when others look on ours. How we value the friend who at first seemed so different from us, but who we took the time to get to know. How we cherish the family member who sees past our shortcomings and never fails to find goodness in us. For who we are on the inside how we think and feel, matters so much more than what we appear to be.
Appearances can be deceptive, to be sure. The clothing we wear, the company we keep, the car we drive, the house we occupy are all outward measurements that can keep us from each other’s hearts. They allow for quick and easy classifications. But the stature of a person’s soul is so much more difficult to qualify, let alone discern.
Henry David Thoreau had much to say about looking deeper: “We know but few men,” he wrote, and “a great many coats and breeches.” So often, our evaluations of each other don’t extend far past coats and breeches. But, as Thoreau decides, “. . . if my jacket and trousers, my hat and shoes, are fit to worship God in, they will do, will they not?”
Certainly, the Lord is less concerned about outward appearances. His all-seeing eye penetrates the very heart and discovers there the greatest treasure. He sees goodness, because He is good. He knows truth, because He is truth. He discerns real love, because He is love.
The more our own hearts are full of His goodness, truth, and love, the more we will be able to see as the Lord sees and really look on the heart.
By Samuel Enos Eghan
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Pass clearer property law for spouses …AWLA urges government
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A group of female lawyers known as the African Women Lawyers Association (AWLA) is calling on the Parliament of Ghana to urgently pass a comprehensive law on spousal property rights to eliminate ambiguity and ensure fairness in divorce settlements.
Among the rights proposed were a clearer definition of marital property, formal recognition of non-monetary contributions, stronger guidelines for judges, improved enforcement of court orders and expanded access to legal aid for vulnerable spouses.
This, the group underlined, would cure the inconsistent court rulings that continue to leave many divorced spouses, particularly women, trapped in uncertainty, injustice and often left with nothing or something insignificant after years of marriage.
Addressing journalists at a press briefing in Accra on Monday, the Executive Director of AWLA, Ms Effiba Amihere, said although the Supreme Court had over the years laid down important legal principles on the sharing of marital properties, conflicting judgments had created confusion and frustration for families seeking justice after divorce.
She explained that while some rulings recognised marriage as an economic partnership where both financial and non-financial contributions should be valued equally, others demanded proof of direct monetary contributions before property could be shared fairly.
This contradiction in the law, she said, had left many spouses vulnerable, especially women whose years of unpaid domestic work often went unrecognised in courtrooms.
“There are women who spend decades building homes, raising children, supporting businesses and sacrificing careers, only to walk away from marriages with little or nothing because their contribution cannot be measured in cash,” she stressed.
She argued that certain rulings appeared to rely on irrelevant considerations such as a spouse’s appearance, lifestyle or level of financial independence instead of established legal principles.
Ms Amihere, however, praised a landmark Supreme Court decision on July 17, 2025, which she described as a major step towards fairness and clarity in family law.
The ruling outlined important guidelines for courts in determining how marital properties should be shared after divorce and factors to be considered.
The ruling captured the duration of the marriage, the acquisition of property, financial contributions, pre-marital assets, debts, as well as non-financial contributions such as childcare, housekeeping, emotional support and domestic labour.
The judgment, she praised, was particularly significant because it openly acknowledged the economic value of unpaid domestic work, an area she said had long been ignored despite sustaining countless households across the country.
She maintained that Ghanaian courts had already affirmed that marriage was a joint enterprise and that contribution should not be reduced to money alone.
The organisation also appealed to the Office of the Attorney General and Ministry of Justice, the Judiciary of Ghana and the Ghana Bar Association to support reforms aimed at protecting spouses and strengthening justice in family law cases.
By Esinam Jemima Kuatsinu
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Don’t leave children’s eye care solely to health professionals

Dr Zakarea Al-Hassan Balure, an Optometrist, has urged parents to take active responsibility for the eye health of their children instead of leaving it solely in the hands of health professionals.
He said good eyesight was essential for effective learning and overall child development, emphasising the need for parents to seek regular eye screening services for their children.
“Parents are always concerned about their children’s academic performance, but without good eyesight, learning becomes difficult.
“It is important that parents seek regular eye screening services for their children at the health facility, and not to wait for free screening services, though they are also good,” he stated.
Dr Balure, the Manager of Bliss Eye Care, a private eye clinic in Wa, made the call after a free eye screening exercise organised at Tanina in the Wa West District under the Blissful Sight for Kids (BS4Ks) Programme.
The programme, implemented by the Bliss Eye Care in partnership with Ghana Vision, a Swiss-based charity organisation, has, since its inception about a decade ago, impacted thousands of children in the Upper West region and beyond through free eye screening and treatment services.
The exercise in Tanina recorded improved attendance compared to patronage in the district in previous years, an indication of growing awareness among parents about the importance of child eye care.
A total of 684 children were screened during the exercise, out of which 42 were found to have normal eye conditions.
However, 623 children were diagnosed with pathological eye conditions requiring medication, eleven had refractive errors requiring eyeglasses, while eight cases of cataract and glaucoma were also detected.
Dr Balure commended parents and guardians within the Tanina circuit for travelling far distances to access the service for their children.
He called for sustained awareness creation and community participation in eye health programmes to improve their children’s vision, which is necessary for improving educational outcomes and the well-being of children.
Speaking to the Ghana News Agency (GNA), Mr Mahama Abdul Fatawu Mwinibang, the Assembly Member for the Tanina Electoral Area, expressed gratitude to Bliss Eye Care and Ghana Vision for the intervention, as it helped bridge a critical healthcare access gap in the area.
He, however, appealed to the organisers to consider including older persons in subsequent screening exercises.
He encouraged parents and guardians to maintain close relationships with their children to enable them detect eye-related problems early for treatment. –GNA
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