Obaa Yaa
No Lady loves me
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 30 years of age, unemployed and struggling to make a living. I am so hairy that I started shaving at age 20.
The excessive shaving has made my cheeks rough. I look much older than my age.
At age 30, I feel I should have a wife or be involved in a serious relationship leading to marriage but I have no one.
Currently, I am depressed because I am still looking for a job.
However, my choice of a woman who actually satisfies my set standard or whom I wish to have does not love me.
I have tried several other ladies but it all backfired although I am sober and live a modest life.
Could it be that I am jobless or due to my rough cheeks. Can something be done about it?
Troubled man, Kumasi.
Dear Troubled man,
I would want to believe it has more to do with your being unemployed.
If you propose marriage to a woman while you are unemployed, she would not take you serious.
Marriage thrives more on other factors than love, especially when children are born in the marriage, you need money to take care of them.
I will also suggest you see a skin specialist about your rough cheeks and do not jump into conclusion about your looks.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 35year –old-lady married to a banker. I am a housewife. I am fair in complexion. I got my left hand tattooed sometime last year. I have never had my peace with my husband because he strongly abhors.
In my attempt to get it erased, I have caused a big scar on my hand which has worsened the situation. Sometime ago, your esteemed paper carried a story about how permanent tattoo can be cleared and a location.
May I know whether it is possible to get the scar and tattoo erased, and how much it would cost.
Worried housewife, Prampram.
Dear housewife,
Since I have no idea how wide and deep the scar and tattoo are, it would be difficult for me to have a meaningful discussion with the specialists at the unit.
I suggest that the next time you visit Accra, you pay a visit to any skincare unit and ask what help they can offer.
But until then, do not apply any self-medication. You may also ask your doctor to advise you as if there is any way out for a surgery. All the best.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
Ever since we got married, two years ago, my husband seldom wears his wedding ring except on occasion such as church service, funerals, outdooring and other social gatherings.
For the rest of the week, he goes to work without it. The excuse he gives is that whether he wears the ring to work or not, he is by law married to me.
But I beg to differ. I suspect there is more to it than what he told me. I need your advice on this.
Eno, Ashiaman.
Dear Eno,
Some men don’t like wearing rings; others enjoy it. It is just like how some women like wearing jewellery or large earing while others would rather do away with them.
The fact, however, is that a man can misbehave even when he wears it or not because there are ladies who wouldn’t mind with the ring on.
When he gets back home, he would wear it again. What difference does it make if he doesn’t wear it all?
