Obaa Yaa
Married woman is pestering me
I am in my mid-twenties and had just started my national service. I am single and do not have any intentions of starting a serious relationship at the moment. But I am worried as a woman who has two children continues to pester me into having an affair with her. I have told her I am not interested but she says I am “playing with her feelings.” She has started blackmailing me emotionally and it is becoming too much for me to handle. Please advise me.
Francis, Taifa
Dear Francis,
You have made the right decision to turn down her advances. Indeed, you are too young to start such relationship. Continue to shun her company and block any form of communication you have with her. She is supposed to be enjoying her marriage not to extend her untamed pleasures to you. Do not allow her to blackmail you emotionally. If you reside in the same vicinity but try and move to a location unknown to her and blacklist her contact numbers.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 35year –old-lady married to a banker. I am a housewife. I am fair in complexion. I got my left hand tattooed sometime last year. I have never had my peace with my husband because he strongly abhors.
In my attempt to get it erased, I have caused a big scar on my hand which has worsened the situation. Sometime ago, your esteemed paper carried a story about how permanent tattoo can be cleared and a location.
May I know whether it is possible to get the scar and tattoo erased, and how much it would cost.
Worried housewife, Prampram.
Dear housewife,
Since I have no idea how wide and deep the scar and tattoo are, it would be difficult for me to have a meaningful discussion with the specialists at the unit.
I suggest that the next time you visit Accra, you pay a visit to any skincare unit and ask what help they can offer.
But until then, do not apply any self-medication. You may also ask your doctor to advise you as if there is any way out for a surgery. All the best.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
Ever since we got married, two years ago, my husband seldom wears his wedding ring except on occasion such as church service, funerals, outdooring and other social gatherings.
For the rest of the week, he goes to work without it. The excuse he gives is that whether he wears the ring to work or not, he is by law married to me.
But I beg to differ. I suspect there is more to it than what he told me. I need your advice on this.
Eno, Ashiaman.
Dear Eno,
Some men don’t like wearing rings; others enjoy it. It is just like how some women like wearing jewellery or large earing while others would rather do away with them.
The fact, however, is that a man can misbehave even when he wears it or not because there are ladies who wouldn’t mind with the ring on.
When he gets back home, he would wear it again. What difference does it make if he doesn’t wear it all?
