Obaa Yaa
Many disappointments worrying
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 25 years old, and working in a mining company. I had four unsuccessful relationships, all of which were at the stage of marriage.
Unfortunately, all the plans were cancelled at the final stages of our preparations which gave me emotional problems.
The grace of God has sustained me all these years and l am grateful. Though l kept hoping against hope after the first three disappointments, it was nearly a disaster when the fourth one happened.
l am afraid to accept proposal for another relationship because of the previous problems. The reason being that l am not prepared to endure any further disappointment.
l wish to remain single in order to keep away from further embarrassment. Should l carry out my intention?
Barbara, Accra.
Dear Barbara,
I sympathise with you for the painful way your relationships have ended. Indeed, every sensible person to go through an experience of this sort must be afraid to enter into another relationship.
Despite the misfortunes that had befallen you, pick up courage and do not lose hope to infer that the opportunities in life are lost to you forever.
Importantly, try to examine yourself and find out whether you have a problem which is driving your lovers away from you.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 35year –old-lady married to a banker. I am a housewife. I am fair in complexion. I got my left hand tattooed sometime last year. I have never had my peace with my husband because he strongly abhors.
In my attempt to get it erased, I have caused a big scar on my hand which has worsened the situation. Sometime ago, your esteemed paper carried a story about how permanent tattoo can be cleared and a location.
May I know whether it is possible to get the scar and tattoo erased, and how much it would cost.
Worried housewife, Prampram.
Dear housewife,
Since I have no idea how wide and deep the scar and tattoo are, it would be difficult for me to have a meaningful discussion with the specialists at the unit.
I suggest that the next time you visit Accra, you pay a visit to any skincare unit and ask what help they can offer.
But until then, do not apply any self-medication. You may also ask your doctor to advise you as if there is any way out for a surgery. All the best.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
Ever since we got married, two years ago, my husband seldom wears his wedding ring except on occasion such as church service, funerals, outdooring and other social gatherings.
For the rest of the week, he goes to work without it. The excuse he gives is that whether he wears the ring to work or not, he is by law married to me.
But I beg to differ. I suspect there is more to it than what he told me. I need your advice on this.
Eno, Ashiaman.
Dear Eno,
Some men don’t like wearing rings; others enjoy it. It is just like how some women like wearing jewellery or large earing while others would rather do away with them.
The fact, however, is that a man can misbehave even when he wears it or not because there are ladies who wouldn’t mind with the ring on.
When he gets back home, he would wear it again. What difference does it make if he doesn’t wear it all?
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