Obaa Yaa
I miss my ex
Nobody can tell what the end would be that is why I try my best to tolerate anyone who comes my way but it seems most people turn to use my leniency for my weakness.
Reminiscing the memories we shared together always gives me goose bumps and this has always been a blast from my past. How I wish we were still together but the harm has already been done.
I loved this girl with my whole heart but all this while she took me for a joke. I was later informed by a friend that, my girl is cheating on me with another guy which I didn’t want to believe because I trusted her so much.
Rumours about her cheating on me kept making waves as days elapse to the extent that I was advised by my parents to quit the relationship but I never listened.
Out of the blue, my girlfriend introduced me to her guy on my birthday which almost got me to lose my senses. Currently, I am okay but the thought keeps coming to mind and makes me miss her. What should I do to get rid of this because, I don’t want to go into that situation again
Samuel Sawovi,
Koforidua
Dear Samuel,
Well, the game is over with this particular lady, although it is normal for you to keep missing your ex-partner. Try to move on.
Doing that would require you to keep busy with productive activities like sports and make new positive friends. Do not try to console yourself by entering into a new relationship.
Use this time to build yourself and prepare for you will surely find love again. This time when everything goes well it will stay. Good luck.
Obaa Yaa
I want a sponsor
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 25 years of age. I am a degree holder and wants to further my education with my Masters.
But unfortunately, I lost my father and I don’t have any one to help me financially to do my masters.
I am seeking for sponsors to help me but I do not know any such sponsor. I am, therefore, appealing to you through this letter for assistance.
Paddy, Ada.
Dear Paddy,
It is quite impossible finding such ‘sponsorships’ at random unless you have family members who want to assist.
Try as much as possible to search for a job because we are in hard times and I wonder what type of sponsorship you are looking for.
You can save after you have been paid. After working for a while, you can take a loan to further your education and arrange for suitable class.
You can start a lucrative business online just as other ladies are selling clothes, shoes, bags etc to earn a living.
Even if someone will assist you, you need to make efforts yourself.
Obaa Yaa
My boss is the problem
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I AM in love with a young man in my office. He is a very kind and gentle man every woman will dream of.
He is 35 and I am 25 years of age. I am currently pursing my Masters at the Accra Technical University in Fashion Design and Textiles.
As a matter of fact, he assists me in my project works, assignment and always ready to help me in times of difficulty.
Interestingly, he has also shown interest in me and we are planning to get married next year.
My problem is that anytime my boss sees him around me, he gets angry and gives him attitude and shouts at him to go to his office.
My fiancée wants to resign because it is making him uncomfortable in the office and this is affecting his attitude towards work.
He is accusing me of having a relationship with the boss. I am disturbed, what should I do?
Baaba,
Takoradi.
Dear Baaba,
It is natural in such a case for your fiancé to suspect your boss might be after you.
Your boss’s attitude to your fiancé is too harsh. He should take it easy with him, especially when he is assisting you with work.
I have a feeling that your boss has an interest in you so seeing your fiancé around you makes him uncomfortable.
However, you can also have a talk with your boss to find out the reason for his behaviour towards your guy.
