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What my father in law said made me marry my wife after four years of dating – Edem

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Ghanaian rapper Edem has shared how advice from his father in law influenced his decision to marry his wife after four years of dating and having a child together.
Speaking in an interview with Zionfelix, Edem explained that choosing a wife is one of the most important decisions a man can make because a life partner can either help build or destroy a person’s future.
According to him, the key quality he looked out for in his wife was her ability to nurture and raise a family.
He explained that a woman with strong motherly instincts is important because children often spend more time with their mother if a relationship faces challenges.
Edem noted that physical attraction matters, but intelligence and character are even more important.
He described his wife as his best friend and stressed the need for couples to constantly encourage each other.
The rapper revealed that they began dating in 2009 and got married in 2013, four years later.
He explained that the decision to marry was not rushed, even after they had their first child.
He recalled that his father in law advised them not to marry just because they had a child together.
Instead, he encouraged them to take time to understand each other and be sure they were truly compatible before settling down.
Edem believes this advice helped them build a stronger and more thoughtful marriage.
On the type of marriage couples should choose, Edem explained that whether it is customary or ordinance marriage, the most important thing is what both partners are comfortable with.
He stressed that marriage is about the two people involved and not public pressure.
He also touched on why his wife is often seen without her wedding ring.
According to him, she has an allergy to gold, which causes swelling and itching, making it difficult for her to wear rings and jewellery.
He emphasised that commitment matters more than wearing a ring.
Edem added that keeping marriage private helps it last, especially in the entertainment industry, which he described as a challenging and unstable space.
He stressed that longevity, commitment and the effort to grow together are the most important elements of a successful marriage.
By: Jacob Aggrey
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Thousands bid farewell at 3-day Adua for Late Yaa Naa

The forecourt of the Gbewaa Palace, was a mixture of rich tradition and emotional scenes as thousands of mourners concluded the three-day adua for the late Overlord of Dagbon, Ndan Yaa Naa Abukari II.
For the period, the Gbewaa Palace became the spiritual and cultural heartbeat of the Dagbon Kingdom as Islamic clerics, traditional rulers, politicians, security personnel and ordinary citizens united in prayer for the repose of the soul of the revered monarch.

From dawn each day, streams of mourners, mostly dressed in traditional smocks and black attire, steadily filled the palace grounds and adjoining streets, transforming the royal seat into a sea of mourners.
Men, women, youth and children sat under canopies and open spaces while verses from the Holy Qur’an echoed across the palace, creating an atmosphere of reverence and reflection.
The air occasionally reverberated with ceremonial gunshots and traditional warrior displays, symbolising honour, bravery and the rich cultural heritage of the Dagbon Kingdom.


The adua, observed in accordance with Islamic tradition following the burial of the Yaa Naa, was attended by eminent Imams and Mallams who offered continuous prayers, seeking Allah’s mercy and eternal peace for the departed King.
Throughout the three-day observance, a steady flow of dignitaries visited the Gbewaa Palace to pay their respects and sign the book of condolence.
Among them were the Northern Regional Minister, Ali Adolf John Mburidiba; the Savannah Regional Minister, Salisu Be-Awuribe Issifu; and the National Chairman of the National Democratic Congress (NDC), Johnson Asiedu Nketia, who joined members of the royal family, traditional rulers and mourners in honouring the late Yaa Naa.

Security remained tight throughout the mourning period, with the Ghana Police Service deploying 450 personnel to ensure law and order.
The officers were stationed at strategic locations, including the Gbewaa Palace, major entry points into Yendi and other key installations, where they managed traffic, maintained public order and provided security for thousands of mourners and visiting dignitaries.
Beyond the official ceremonies, the event reflected the deep respect the people of Dagbon and Ghanaians at large had for the late monarch.
The conclusion of the three-day adua marks another important milestone in the funeral rites of the late Yaa Naa and signals the gradual transition towards the customary processes leading to the selection and enskinment of a new Overlord of the Dagbon Kingdom.
Although the formal three-day prayers have ended, mourning activities continue, with the seventh-day Islamic prayers expected to draw another large gathering of traditional authorities, government officials, religious leaders and well-wishers from across the country.
From: Geoffrey Buta, Yendi
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Seek regular medical eye care for children- Parent told

An Optometrist, Dr Adjoa Pokua Osae Awulai has called on parents to take keen interest in regularly presenting their wards for eye screening.
That, he said, would help with early detection of defects or abnormalities with the eye and seek lasting solution for them.
Dr Osae Awulai made the call at the 13th graduation ceremony of the 3 Garrison Early Childhood Development Centre, Liberation Barracks in Sunyani where a total of 106 pupils made up 50 boys and 56 girls graduated.
According to her, problems with the eye have usually been ignored by some parents that preferred to self-medicate and in the process, making the condition worse.
But she stated that the eye was an important organ that must be treated or handled with extreme care.
According to Dr Awulai, the first eye examination must actually start from birth to six months, adding that “this must be done at least twice in a year.”
This, according to her, was a significant step in improving the wellbeing and academic performance of the children as they grow.
She explained that kids with eye defects develop low self-esteem, lack confidence and perform poorly in school due to their condition.
Dr Awulai said despite her regular school visits to sensitise and create awareness on eye health and safety, most people are just reluctant and find excuses not to seek medical care.
“Some people have become so superstitious; they hold on to their religious beliefs rather than seeking medical care,” she said and urged parents to be regular and intentional about problems with their wards eyes.
She commended the management and staff of the 3 Garrison Early Childhood Development Centre for the care, sacrifice, love, and compassion for the training of the school children.
The Headmistress of 3Garrison Early Childhood Development Centre Mrs Helen Korkor Bamfo appealed to parents and teachers to show and demonstrate love, care, patience, and empathy in nurturing the young children.
This she said is a responsibility that must guide every efforts being made to train the future leaders of our dear country.
Mrs Bamfo said training kids with creative skills encompasses providing the essential support and nourishment conducive for developing their cognitive, social, emotional, spiritual and problem solving skills.
Lt. Michael Tetteh, who represented the Commanding Officer of 3BN Lt Col. Michael Naar, appealed to fathers to make their presence count, indicating that “it is critical in raising children.”
Lt. Tetteh praised the teachers for their professionalism and selfless dedication to duty.
The school pupils entertained their parents and guests with choreographed dances and poetry recitals at the ceremony.
From Daniel Dzirasah, Sunyani







