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What my father in law said made me marry my wife after four years of dating – Edem
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Ghanaian rapper Edem has shared how advice from his father in law influenced his decision to marry his wife after four years of dating and having a child together.
Speaking in an interview with Zionfelix, Edem explained that choosing a wife is one of the most important decisions a man can make because a life partner can either help build or destroy a person’s future.
According to him, the key quality he looked out for in his wife was her ability to nurture and raise a family.
He explained that a woman with strong motherly instincts is important because children often spend more time with their mother if a relationship faces challenges.
Edem noted that physical attraction matters, but intelligence and character are even more important.
He described his wife as his best friend and stressed the need for couples to constantly encourage each other.
The rapper revealed that they began dating in 2009 and got married in 2013, four years later.
He explained that the decision to marry was not rushed, even after they had their first child.
He recalled that his father in law advised them not to marry just because they had a child together.
Instead, he encouraged them to take time to understand each other and be sure they were truly compatible before settling down.
Edem believes this advice helped them build a stronger and more thoughtful marriage.
On the type of marriage couples should choose, Edem explained that whether it is customary or ordinance marriage, the most important thing is what both partners are comfortable with.
He stressed that marriage is about the two people involved and not public pressure.
He also touched on why his wife is often seen without her wedding ring.
According to him, she has an allergy to gold, which causes swelling and itching, making it difficult for her to wear rings and jewellery.
He emphasised that commitment matters more than wearing a ring.
Edem added that keeping marriage private helps it last, especially in the entertainment industry, which he described as a challenging and unstable space.
He stressed that longevity, commitment and the effort to grow together are the most important elements of a successful marriage.
By: Jacob Aggrey
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Mahama chairs security meeting over drug trafficking, orders formation of inter-agency task force
President John Dramani Mahama today chaired a meeting of security chiefs and received a detailed briefing on investigations into the recent trafficking of drugs out of Ghana’s ports.
The President was informed that ten individuals, including four officers of the Customs Division of the Ghana Revenue Authority (GRA), are being held while investigations continue.
The meeting reviewed the structure and security systems in place and recommended new actions.
President Mahama has directed that an inter-agency task force be formed to present a detailed roadmap, emanating from today’s meeting, on measures to prevent the trafficking of drugs through Ghana’s borders within two weeks.
By Edem Mensah-Tsotorme
A University of Ghana research on the New Patriotic Party (NPP) National General Secretary election has found that 74.2% of surveyed delegates expect former Subin MP Eugene Boakye Antwi to win the October 3 election.
The research, conducted by a team of lecturers from the University of Ghana, Legon, led by Dr Chris Atadika, involved 889 NPP stakeholders.
According to the findings, 657 of the 889 respondents, representing 74.2%, identified Eugene Boakye Antwi as the candidate they expected to win the General Secretary position.
Incumbent General Secretary Justin Frimpong Kodua was identified by 223 respondents, representing 25.1%, while six respondents, or 0.7%, mentioned Sylvester Tetteh.
The researchers, however, stressed that the figures reflect the expectations of the respondents and should not be interpreted as an independent prediction of the election outcome.
The study also examined other areas of the contest, including candidate preference, perceived ability to help the NPP win the 2028 general election and name recognition.
On candidate preference, 76.6% of respondents identified Eugene Boakye Antwi as their preferred candidate, compared with 23.1% for Justin Frimpong Kodua.
When asked which candidate they believed could help the NPP win the 2028 election, 60.1% mentioned Eugene Boakye Antwi, while 39.2% chose Justin Frimpong Kodua.
The research further found that Eugene Boakye Antwi had an 82.7% name recognition among respondents when they were asked to identify candidates contesting the position. Justin Frimpong Kodua recorded 13%.
The respondents also identified good communication skills and boldness, the ability to help the party secure victory in 2028, and the ability to unite the party as some of the key qualities needed in the next General Secretary.
The study recorded 100% awareness of the General Secretary election among the respondents.
The research team, led by Dr Chris Atadika, is expected to brief the media on the full findings at the Department of Political Science at the University of Ghana, Legon.
The NPP will elect its National General Secretary on October 3, 2026.
By: Jacob Aggrey
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