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Prophecy and the human psyche

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Bob was rushed to the hospital on a stretcher one Sunday evening with his face looking pale as he gasped for breath.

Something has triggered his asthma into motion and this time around, he needs more than his inhaler to stay alive.

After hours of medical attention, Bob finally calms down. He opens up to the medical staff that earlier on at Church that day, the visiting Prophet openly prophesied that he had seen Bob lying dead in a coffin.

Bob said shortly after Church service, he begun hallucinating and seeing some of his dead relatives. The fear of dying at a young age, he said, is what triggered his asthma attack.

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After Bob’s recovery, he resolved never to become a victim of doom prophecies.

He set up an NGO to provide healing to all those traumatised by such prophetic utterances.

Bob also spearheaded a campaign that created awareness on the schemes propagated by fake Pastors to enslave the Christian populace.

The Human Psyche

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In psychology, the human psyche is the totality of the human mind that helps us navigate through life. Psyche, in the original Greek word refers to our mind or soul.

Sigmund Freud’s psychoanalytic theory of personality states that the three levels of our personalities are the conscious mind, the subconscious mind, and the unconscious mind.

What we see, hear, feel and experience have huge effects on our mental processes and mental wellbeing. We may either process what we see, hear, fear and experience positively, negatively, or neutrally based on our psyche.

Prophecy and its effect on the psyche

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Prophecy has a great hold on those it is directed at. This is so because it is seen to emanate from the spiritual realm and its effect is seen as profound and inescapable.

To a Christian, God speaks His truth to the mind of a prophet concerning a situation so that he can reveal the truth concerning the situation.

Prophecy can be private (restricted to an individual) or public (mostly to a nation). Prophecy can also take the form of a rebuke or a general instruction to either an individual or groups of people (or nation).

If the prophecy carries good news such as, passing an examination, getting a promotion at work or escaping death, it fills a person with peace, joy and a sense of fulfilment and victory.

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On the other hand, if it is about failure, misfortune, or death, it can result in intense fear, panic, and anxiety and in some case, severe depression.

Ghanaians, have on many occasions been gripped with fear after some prophets took to various platforms to announce the death of some public figures.

Reverend Owusu Bempah, prophesied that the National Chief Imam will soon die which infuriated some Muslim youth. The pastor later apologized to the Chief Moslem Cleric who is still alive.

The sports and political space have also not been exempted from prophetic utterances.

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Prophet Emmanuel Badu Kobi, Head and founder of Glorious Wave Church International, some months ago predicted a win for Brazil in the Copa America finals and a victory for England in the 2020 Euros finals, both prophecies, he said, were inspired by the Holy Spirit.

However, the prophecies failed. This made him the subject of intense mockery on the internet and compromised his credibility.

During a Sunday service on July 18, 2021, Prophet Badu Kobi explained that all his football prophecies had come to pass except the aforementioned.

“There is no football prophecy I have said which has never come to pass except these two, ” he fumed.

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He added, “There is no prophet without a failed prophecy, are you God? They should show me one. If every prophecy has come to pass then every church member would have succeeded.”

He said those who bet on football matches should be blamed for what happened, adding that, these people decided to use God’s word to make money for themselves and since God is against gambling, He turned the prediction upside down.

Ahead of the 2020 General Elections in both Ghana and United States of America, Prophet Badu Kobi also prophesied that Donald Trump and John Mahama would win their reelection campaign, but these prophecies never came to pass. The late TB Joshua, the Nigerian Tele Evangelist, also prophesied that Hilary Clinton will win the United States elections which turned out to be false.

Reverend Albright Asiwome Banibensu, a licensed Psychologist, says prophecy may lead people to take actions that they otherwise would not take.

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He said this happens when the person believed the prophecy and “sees no hope.”

“Since how we think influences how we feel and how we feel does influence how we behave, a person’s behaviour is sure to be impacted by prophecy. All these are as a result of what prophecy we hear, how we process it, and how we feel about it. Thus when prophecy is processed negatively or positive impacts our mental health,” he said.

He said in some instances, the manner in which prophecy should be delivered can be revealed to the Man of God in addition to what should be said.

Rev Banibensu, who is the National Vice President, Ghana Psychological Association (GPA), said however, the bottom-line was that Ministers of the Gospel must learn how to be merciful, operate with wisdom and speak the truth in love because ultimately, prophecy was supposed to draw people closer to God.

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“A prophet should not prophesy to draw attention to himself. The Bible makes it clear in 1 Corinthians 14:32-33 that, ‘the spirits of the prophets are subject to the prophets. For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace…’ To this end, prophecy should not result in chaos but should ultimately result in peace,” he said.

He said if the simple rules of prophesying the truth with mercy, in wisdom and to achieve peace were adhered to, prophetic utterances would cause less psychological damage.

Secondly, Rev Banibensu said once a prophecy was spoken, it meant that God did not want the fearful thing to happen to you. So it should be seen as a message of hope no matter what.

Thirdly, he said people needed to know that prophecy originated from three sources, thus; the Spirit of man (controlled by mind and emotions, according to Jeremiah 23: 16), evil Spirit (from Satan and familiar spirits, according to 1 Samuel 28: 7 and Jeremiah 23: 13) and the Holy Spirit (from God Himself, according to 2 Peter 1: 21). 

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— GNA

…to be continued

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Highlights from 15th Rhythms On Da Runway 

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It was a night filled with thrills, pomp pageantry as the Ghana’s Creative industry heavyweights gathered at the Iconic Osu Castle for the 15th Rhythms on the runway last Saturday.

An event, powered by Nineteen57 was dubbed ‘Black Star Edition ‘ saw some celebrated designers curate exquisite designs and accessories for exhibition. 

That moment bravery came as top models and some celebrities projected these designs majestically on the runway with brisk catwalk.

By Edem Mensah-Tsotorme 

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How to Navigate Social Media Boundaries as a Couple

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Navigating social media boundaries as a couple can be a tricky task. With constant access to our loved ones’ lives that social media provides, it’s important to establish clear boundaries to ensure a healthy relationship. Here are a few tips to help couples navigate this challenge.


1. Have an Open and Honest Conversation

The first step in setting boundaries on social media is to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about how you both feel regarding social media usage in the relationship.

Having these conversations can be difficult but are essential to creating understanding and mutual respect.


2. Be Specific

When having the conversation, it is important to be specific about the behavior that bothers you and the boundaries you would like to set.

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Instead of making general statements like, “You spend too much time on social media,” try saying something like:

“I feel neglected when you are on your phone for extended periods during our conversations. Can we set a limit on phone usage during our quality time together?”


3. Be Considerate

Be considerate and understanding of your partner’s points of view and try to find solutions that satisfy both parties.

Remember, setting boundaries is not about controlling or limiting each other; it’s about creating a healthy balance and fostering a strong, trusting relationship.

Social media can be a great way to stay connected with friends and family, but when it comes to romantic relationships, it’s important to establish boundaries to ensure it doesn’t interfere with the quality of the relationship.

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4. Agree on Social Media Etiquette

Creating social media etiquette guidelines between romantic partners can be a sensitive topic, but it can also be a helpful tool in maintaining a healthy relationship.

Social media etiquette is a set of guidelines that outline how you and your partner will interact on social media and what is and isn’t acceptable behavior.

This can include:

  • Whether or not you will follow each other on social media
  • What kind of photos you will post of each other
  • How you will interact with other people online

One important aspect of social media etiquette is setting boundaries around privacy.


5. Respect Each Other’s Privacy

Respect for each other’s privacy is one of the most critical aspects of social media boundaries.

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This includes:

  • Not snooping on your partner’s social media accounts
  • Not sharing personal information about them online
  • Not posting pictures or status updates that they may be uncomfortable with

6. Don’t Use Social Media as a Measure of Your Relationship

Social media should not be used as a benchmark for the health and happiness of your own relationship.

In today’s world, it’s easy to get caught up in the constant stream of images and updates that friends, family, and even strangers share about their romantic lives.

It is important to focus on your relationship rather than compare it to the selective versions of other people’s relationships you see online. Every relationship is different and has its own set of challenges and successes. Focus on what makes your relationship unique and special.


Conclusion

Setting boundaries on social media when in a relationship is essential for maintaining a healthy and happy connection.

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Key factors include:

  • Open and honest communication
  • Respect for each other’s privacy
  • Not using social media to measure your relationship

By following these steps, couples can navigate social media boundaries effectively and strengthen their relationship.

— Source: Arkansas Relationship Counselling Centre

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