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Good reasons for getting married – part 3

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 7. Marry to create a new family unit.

A key purpose of marriage is to create a new family, the nuclear family. It should be based on love, respect, faith, and shared goals. For many people, getting married is the first step toward starting a family. Marriage provides a legal and social framework for raising children. It helps build financial stability. And, it offers lifelong emotional support and companionship.

The choice to marry and start a family is personal. It depends on your circumstances, values, and aspira­tions.

Here are some Scriptures that support the idea of marriage creating a new family unit:

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• Genesis 2:24 – “Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”

This verse highlights the impor­tance of leaving one’s family of origin and cleaving to one’s spouse, forming a new family unit.

• Ephesians 5:31 – “Therefore a man shall leave his father and moth­er and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

The verse reiterates the concept of two individuals becoming one through marriage, forming a new family unit that supersedes previous familial relationships.

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• Proverbs 18:22 – “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.”

This verse suggests that finding a spouse and forming a new family unit can be a blessing from God.

• Malachi 2:15 – “Did He not make them one, with a portion of the Spirit in their union? And what was the one God seeking? Godly off­spring. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and let none of you be faith­less to the wife of your youth.”

This verse says marriage should produce godly offspring. Thus, form­ing a new family through marriage is part of God’s plan.

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8. Marry to have and raise godly children.

Marriage is the best way to have children. It is both spiritual and legal. It provides a stable home to raise godly children and build a life together.

Marriage provides a strong foun­dation for raising godly children. When two people are committed to each other and to God, they can bet­ter nurture their children. Marrying someone with the same beliefs and values can create a more cohesive family. It can also give a stronger sense of purpose in raising children. Additionally, a strong marriage can support you as parents. It can help you navigate the ups and downs of parenthood. However, being married does not guarantee godly children. In rare cases, single or co-parents can raise faithful, spiritual children.

In conclusion, it’s up to you as parents to provide a loving, nurtur­ing, and spiritual environment that fosters your children’s relationship with God.

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Ask your marriage counsellor: What should we do if we haven’t had a child after 1 to 3 years of marriage?

To be continued …

Source: Excerpts from ‘Pre­paring for a Happy and Fulfilling Marriage’ Book by REV. COUNSELOR PRINCE OFFEI (Psychotherapist, Lecturer, and Marriage Therapist). https://counselorprinceass.wixsite. com/edu-counseling-psych

https://princeoffei22.wixsite. com/website-psychologist

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COUNSELOR PRINCE & ASSOCI­ATES CONSULT (CPAC COUNSELLOR TRAINING INSTITUTE

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Woman granted bail after being accused of absconding with GH₵156,445 ‘Susu’ money

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A woman who is accused of bolting with ‘susu’ money totaling GH₵156,445 has appeared before an Accra Circuit Court. 

Martha Nana Esi Afful was alleged to have collected the money from 35 complainants. 

Charged with 35 counts of fraudulent breach of trust, Martha, who was earlier remanded, pleaded not guilty. 

The court, presided over by Mr Joseph Y. Kuunsong on Wednesday, admitted the accused person to a GH₵200,000 bail with two sureties. 

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One of the sureties, the court said, must be a public servant earning not less than GH₵5,000. 

She is expected to reappear on August 12, 2026. 

The Prosecution’s case before the court is that the complainants are traders and residents at La in Accra. 

Prosecution described Martha as a ‘Susu’ collector, who resided at Burma Camp. 

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The court heard that the accused person run a business with the name ‘ZOE’ and she deceived the 35 complainants into believing that she collected ‘Susu’ daily, which was kept for a period of one-three years, and paid interest on the money invested. 

The complainants contributed in 2023 for a three-year period, prosecution said. 

In December 2025, when the complainants went to take their money with interest, Martha went into hiding and only took phone calls from a few complainants. 

Prosecution said the accused provided a MTN Momo number through which a few of the complainants still paid monies. 

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It said all efforts made to collect the money, totaling GH₵156,445 from her, proved futile. 

On June 14, 2026, a report was made to the police and Martha was picked up at a washing bay at Tse Addo. 

During interrogation, she admitted the offence in her caution statement, saying she lost her husband and relocated to Swedru in the Central Region, hence the complainants were unable to reach her from December 2025 till date. 

Prosecution said Martha further stated that she had invested the monies into refuse collection business and she needed time to pay the amount. 

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Police are investigating the claims. –GNA

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Health alert : Seek immediate medical care after exposure to flood water

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A Public Health Nurse at the Roman Ridge Sub-Municipal of the Ayawaso West Health Directorate, Ms Patience Adoli Kporxah, has cautioned the public against coming into contact with floodwaters, warning that exposure can lead to serious diseases, infections and injuries.

Floodwater, she said, should always be treated as contaminated, regardless of how clean it appears, because it may contain sewage, human and animal waste, chemicals, fuel, sharp objects and disease-causing micro-organisms.

In an interview with The Spectator in Accra on Thursday, Ms Kporxah explained that contact with contaminated floodwater exposes people to bacteria, viruses, parasites, hazardous chemicals and other physical hazards that can result in illness or injury.

Her advice came in the wake of recent exposure to floodwater following Monday’s torrential rains that left vast areas of the capital flooded.

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As a result, a lot of people were seen either ‘swimming’ in the floodwater to rescue people or retrieving items being washed away.

According to her, exposure to floodwater could cause skin infections, particularly where there are cuts or open wounds, as well as diarrhoea diseases such as cholera, typhoid fever, dysentery and other forms of gastroenteritis if contaminated water was swallowed.

Other health risks, she said include hepatitis A, eye and ear infections, tetanus in people with untreated wounds or incomplete vaccination, and injuries from submerged sharp objects, debris or electrical hazards.

Ms Kporxah advised anyone who had contact with floodwater to monitor their health closely and seek immediate medical attention if they develop symptoms such as fever, diarrhoea, vomiting, abdominal pain, severe headache, muscle aches, skin rash, difficulty breathing, or yellowing of the eyes or skin.

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She also urged people whose wounds became red, swollen, painful or begin to discharge pus, as well as those who accidentally swallow floodwater, to report to the nearest health facility without delay.

Although not everyone exposed to floodwater requires immediate treatment, she stressed that pregnant women, people with weakened immune systems, individuals living with chronic illnesses and those with significant wounds should seek prompt medical evaluation.

On water safety, Ms Kporxah cautioned that rainwater was not automatically safe for drinking or cooking, especially during or after flooding. She explained that rainwater collected from roofs, gutters or open containers could be contaminated by bird and animal droppings, dust, leaves, bacteria, viruses, parasites and chemical pollutants.

She advised that rainwater intended for drinking should first be treated by boiling, chlorination or another approved water purification method before use.

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Touching on food safety, Ms Kporxah said factory-sealed bottled drinks and canned foods with intact packaging might still be safe after flooding.

However, she stressed that any containers submerged in floodwater should be thoroughly cleaned and disinfected before handling. Foods in paper packaging, damaged containers or products with broken seals should be discarded because contaminated water may have seeped into them.

She further warned that flooding increases the risk of outbreaks of cholera, typhoid fever and other waterborne diseases through contaminated water sources.

In addition, she said flooding could contribute to respiratory illnesses in overcrowded shelters and mould-infested buildings, foodborne illnesses from spoiled or contaminated food, and mental health conditions such as anxiety, stress, depression and trauma.

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It could also disrupt access to medicines and healthcare for people living with chronic conditions, including diabetes, hypertension, asthma and kidney disease.

Ms Kporxah therefore urged the public to practice good hygiene, avoid unnecessary contact with floodwater, consume only safe food and drinking water, and seek medical attention promptly whenever symptoms develop.

She said observing these preventive measures would help minimise the risk of disease outbreaks and protect lives as the country continues to experience heavy rains and flooding in some communities.

By Esinam Jemima Kuatsinu

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