Editorial
Don’t demand sex from teenage girls when you support them
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Some teenage girls are becoming increasingly concerned about men requesting sex from them in return for the support they provide.
The girls have urged for intervention to address their predicament, claiming that the demand for sex by men in exchange for assistance frequently leads to teenage pregnancies among them.
The girls voiced these concerns when the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) conducted a study in three locations with over 200 adolescents, 80 percent of whom were girls.
The initiative forms part of the larger West and Central Africa strategy to ensure a better future for girls and is a component of Ghana’s national priorities for the welfare of teenage girls.
Participants were selected from the Greater Accra, Ashanti, and Upper West regions, including Wa, Kumasi, and Tema.
In collaboration with the government, the consultations were conducted to establish safe spaces where girls between the ages of 10 and 19 may discuss their goals and concerns and propose solutions.
The girls said that “some of us are willing to work, but there are very few opportunities available” and described their situation as a terrible reality that is having a significant impact on them.
They also bemoaned the fact that “we would gladly take jobs if we had access to them so that we can move away from this harmful lifestyle.”
Even more disturbing is the abusers’ use of their social status, influence, and power to coerce, manipulate, exploit, or threaten these defenseless girls. Some victims may feel pressured to comply with the abuser’s demands, making it difficult for them to report the abuse or escape, which causes emotional distress.
Experts in emotional therapy say that serious mental trauma, such as anxiety, sadness, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), can result from feeling helpless and exploited.
The Spectator advises parents to be responsible, mentor, and assist teenagers in making decisions about their sexual health. They should also establish private, open avenues for sex education discussions in order to allow their children to ask questions about sex, puberty, and relationships,
By empowering victims, holding perpetrators accountable, creating safe environments, and fostering education and awareness we can work towards preventing sexual abuse and help reduce the high rate of teenage pregnancies.
The Spectator applauds UNICEF for promising to keep turning these realisations into tangible action by strengthening programmes that empower adolescent girls and provide them with the opportunities needed to thrive.
We also implore the government and all other stakeholders to take action in order to invest in teenage girls’ potential, promote gender equality, and provide a better future for them.
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Editorial
Road safety must begin with us the users

Dear Editor,
Before we start blaming the government, the authorities and how bad our roads are, perhaps we should first ask ourselves what role we played in making our roads unsafe.
Road safety is often discussed as though it is solely the responsibility of the government and law enforcement agencies, neglecting our roles we play to make the roads unsafe.
While authorities have an important role to play, the behaviour of individual road users remains equally important.
A driver who speed, overtakes recklessly, uses phone while driving or drives when tired is making a decision that could affect many lives.
A motorcyclist who ignored traffic light and also refuse to wear a helmet, passengers who encourage the driver to speed and the pedestrians who crosses a busy road carelessly can also contribute to danger.
We must therefore develop a strong culture of personal responsibilities on our roads.
Drivers should obey speed limit, avoid distractions and ensure their vehicles are road worthy, passengers should also not encourage reckless driving simply because they want to arrive at their destination quickly whiles pedestrians must also exercise greater caution when crossing roads.
At the same time authorities must continue to improve road infrastructures, enforce traffic regulations consistently and educate the public about responsible road use.
Road safety cannot succeed through enforcement alone; it requires change in attitude. If each road user understand that another person’s life may depend on their decision, our road can become safer.
Let us not wait for another crash before we remember the value of life. Thank you for the space.
From Akwasi Aaron
Accra.
Editorial
Free SHS does not mean free parenting
Dear Editor,
I was concerned by a point raised during a radio review about the growing expectation among some parents that once their children attend government schools, particularly under the Free SHS programme, the government must provide virtually everything they need.
This mindset deserves serious public discussion.
The introduction of Free SHS has undoubtedly lifted a significant financial burden from parents. Government is already absorbing substantial costs associated with the education of thousands of Ghanaian children. Students in public second-cycle institutions also benefit from provisions such as tuition support, meals and other essential services.
However, Free SHS should not be interpreted as free parenting. A parent should not expect the government to provide every personal item a child needs simply because the child attends a public school. Items such as mattresses, sponges, toiletries, clothing, chop boxes and other personal necessities should, where possible, remain part of the parent’s responsibility.
The same principle applies at the basic-school level. Government has a responsibility to provide quality education and create an enabling environment for children to learn. Parents, however, have an equally important responsibility to support their children’s education and welfare.
Government cannot and should not replace the family. When parents gradually transfer every responsibility to the state, we risk creating a culture of dependency in which citizens expect government to solve every personal problem. That is neither sustainable nor healthy for our development as a nation.
We must therefore appreciate the support government provides while recognising that education is a shared responsibility. Parents must continue to contribute according to their means, schools must do their part, and government must continue providing the necessary educational infrastructure and support. Rather than asking, “What else will government give us?” parents should also ask, “What can I do to support my child’s education?”
Free education is a public investment, not an invitation for parents to abandon their responsibilities. Ghanaians must therefore change the mentality that government must provide everything. The state can carry a significant portion of the burden, but the family must never surrender its responsibility.
Free SHS should make education more accessible not make parenting optional.
From Desmond Aidoo
Sowutuom




