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Do not be too trusting
An incident occurred over 18 years ago that came to mind as I was thinking about what to write for this weekend. This life could be tricky at times and calamity can strike without warning.
It is therefore prudent for people to take the advice of the Bible as given by our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ according to Matthew 10:16 “…be ye therefore wise as serpents…” (KJV). Just like the Bible admonishes that a man’s enemy is a member of his family, one can never be too careful.
If you think the good news or promotion or good fortune that has come your way, makes everybody happy, then you are very wrong. The people who can cause you harm are those you least suspect because they are often so close to you which therefore dulls your sense of alertness that danger is lurking around.
A very useful example is a former deputy minister who lost her appointment because her own cousin who she had employed as her driver, betrayed her by recording her conversation and leaking it. In the presence of a person close to you, you will not entertain any fear and will communicate freely without a thought.
The story of highlife musicians in this country can never be complete without mentioning the name of Daasebre Dwamenah. In fact his music had a unique style and was melodious such that if you are not careful, you might be tempted to dance to it while walking along the street.
What happened to him in 2006 is something that everybody must take lessons from. That incident sent him to prison and it was so sad and so painful. Daasebre was going for a musical show in the UK and when he was going through customs on arrival at Heathrow Airport, he was arrested for drug trafficking because Cocaine was found hidden in his bag.
That was a shocker because he had no idea how that substance got into his travelling bag. He was sent to prison custody in the UK to await prosecution. This incident really affected him because it threw all his plans into disarray.
Fortunately for him, after about 9 or 11 months in prison his lawyer was able to get the judge to free him.
Interviews he granted after his release from prison and his return to Ghana clearly showed that he was framed up by a close friend. People indeed can be wicked and so we need to be watchful and alert.
It really showed that this world is indeed a dark place and people we consider as friends or close relations could be wolves in sheepskins. Apparently the illegal substance or illicit drug was placed in the bag by the friend while preparation was being made by Daasebre towards the journey.
According to the renowned highlife musician, the friend was involved in his preparation and so had unfettered access to his suitcase. It can be surmised that it was during this period that the drug was inserted into the suitcase.
One thing in this world that gives some comfort or to be precise consolation when people wrong us is natural retribution which some people call the law of Karma. The guy who most people who had knowledge of the circumstances surrounding how the mysterious parcel containing the cocaine got into Daasebre’s bag suspects as the culprit, has recently passed away.
If the traditional belief that in the life hereafter those who have already taken the lead receives new comers and ask them what brought them there, then Daasebre who departed from this life in 2016, will have a chance to exact some vengeance on him.
People forget that whatever we do on this earth there will be a day of accountability. Again whatever we acquire, we shall one day leave everything behind.
Let us not be too trusting otherwise we could
Conflict at work is more common than you might think. According to 2022 research by The Myers-Briggs Company, more than a third of the workforce reports dealing with conflict often, very often, or all the time in the workplace. The same report found that managers spend an average of four hours per week dealing with conflict, and nearly 25 per cent of people think their managers handle conflict poorly or very poorly.
Addressing a dispute might feel tense or awkward, but resolving the conflict is typically well worth it in the long run. Whether you’re trying to mediate conflict between colleagues or are directly involved, here are seven steps you can take to manage workplace conflict.
1. Don’t put it off
Facing conflict head-on is hard. However, waiting too long to address it can negatively impact your emotional well-being, focus, and the entire office environment. If you’re feeling angry, letting that emotion fester can also escalate it over time. This can make you less responsive to other points of view and make it harder to resolve the issue.
The sooner you can address the conflict, the better it will be for you, the person you disagree with, and your entire team.
2. Learn all you can about the problem
It’s important to determine the type of conflict you’re dealing with. Begin by considering the cause of the conflict. For example, ask yourself whether someone said something that upset you or if you have emotions of anger and resentment that stemmed from something that happened.
Then try to identify if it’s a task, relationship, value, or team conflict. Once you know what type of conflict it is, you can work to resolve it with specific tactics for that situation.
If you skip this step, you may waste time or escalate the situation further by trying to address issues irrelevant to the real conflict.
3. Actively listen
Listen attentively when people share their side of the story. Active listening is one of the most valuable professional skills you can possess. This type of listening involves not only hearing what the other person is saying but also listening to understand their point of view.
No matter your role in conflict, it’s easy to begin sharing your opinion with little regard for the other people involved. However, it’s important to learn about all sides of a disagreement to make well-informed decisions before drawing conclusions.
To reach a resolution, you must step back and prioritize listening over talking. Ultimately, that will encourage the other person to do the same when it’s your turn to speak. –source: betterup.com
Today, I focus on the Temple Of Praise Ministries International (TOP Church) in Helsinki, as I continue my description of personalities or institutions and their accomplishments as members of the Ghanaian Diaspora in Finland.
The TOP Church in Finland has seen significant strides and accomplishments that must be made known to the public. 
Some history
The Church was established in Finland in September 2016. Since its inception, it has steadily grown both spiritually and numerically, by the grace of God, as disclosed to me by Mr Matthew Anini Twumasi, the Presiding Elder of TOP’s branch in Finland. The TOP Church has other branches across Africa, Europe, and America.
The Church in Finland was founded with a vision to create a welcoming and dynamic community where people could experience God’s love and grace (see, www.topchurchfinland.org). According to Presiding Elder Matthew, the TOP Church operates within a unique environment where Christianity coexists with what is seen as a largely secular society.
Despite this, he submits, there are significant opportunities for outreach, unity, and demonstrating the love of Christ through service and community engagement.
Activities
Church services at the TOP Church are typically held on Sundays for the main worship. In addition, there are mid-week prayer sessions, Saturday prayer services, and a half-night service held on the last Friday of every month. “We also organise quarterly programs”, Elder Matthew added.
His impression of the Church so far has been positive. “It is a vibrant and welcoming community where members are committed to worship, fellowship, and supporting one another in faith”, he stated.
In sum, Elder Matthew said the Church continues to grow by God’s grace. “We remain hopeful and committed to spreading the Gospel, strengthening the faith of our members, and making a positive impact in society”, he continued.
Achievements
The TOP Church has a number of achievements and achievements. Some of the strengths include strong community bonds, cultural diversity, and deep commitment to spiritual growth.
I also remember that during the COVID-19 period, I heard that the TOP Church was one such bodies that hugely supported its members and others to cope with the situation.
According to Elder Matthew, the challenges facing the church include “adapting to cultural differences, engaging the younger generation, expanding outreach in a secular society, and securing a permanent place of worship”.
Role in the Ghanaian community in Finland
The TOP Church plays a prominent role as a religious group that serves Ghanaian migrants and others in the Finnish society.
Thus, the TOP Church is a religious body for Ghanaian migrants in Finland and other nationalities who want to worship with them for diversity and better intercultural and multicultural understanding.
The Church also has mechanisms in place to support its members who are bereaved as a way to commiserate with them in times of death and funerals.
The Ghanaian community has played a vital role in the growth of the Church. Their strong sense of fellowship, dedication to worship, and active participation have helped build a solid foundation and attract others to the ministry, according to Elder Matthew.
Integration
By its activities, the TOP Church is helping to ensure integration of its members well into the Finish society.
This is important since social interaction and citizens’ well-being are an important part of the integration process.
The role of migrant associations and groups such as TOP Church acting as bridge-builders for the integration and inclusion of migrants through participation in the decision making process and by acting as a representative voice is highly appreciated in Finland. Thank you!
GHANA MATTERS column appears fortnightly. Written in simple, layman’s terms, it concentrates on matters about Ghana and beyond. It focuses on everyday life issues relating to the social, cultural, economic, religious, political, health, sports, youth, gender, etc. It strives to remind us all that Ghana comes first. The column also takes a candid look at the meanings and repercussions of our actions, especially those things we take for granted or even ignore. There are key Ghanaian values we should uphold rather than disregard with impunity. We should not overlook the obvious. We need to search for the hidden or deeply embedded values and try to project them.
With Dr Perpetual Crentsil
