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Cultivating, multivating, maintaining Godly Relationship

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Healthy relationship with christ is important
Healthy relationship with christ is important

 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”– John 13:34-35 (NIV)

 Introduction

 LAST week, we began a journey into the profound truth that God created us for connection—first with Him and then with one another. We explored the foundational principles of Godly relation­ships, recognising that true connection reflects the heart of God and shapes our spiritu­al, emotional, and relational well-being. Relationships, far from being mere social in­teractions, are divine assign­ments where love, trust, and integrity serve as markers of Christ’s transforming presence in our lives.

This week, we will continue to delve into how to cultivate and sustain relationships that honour God and demonstrate His love to a watching world. We’ll examine the key pillars that uphold Godly relation­ships.

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4. Godly Relationships Thrive Through Humility and Service

The next point is that Godly relationships thrive through Humility and Service. In Phi­lippians 2:3-4, Paul tells us, “Do nothing out of selfish am­bition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”

This is a call to live in humility, putting others first, and seeking ways to serve them.

Humility is essential in every relationship. Pride is the enemy of healthy, godly relationships because it seeks to dominate, control, and always be right. Pride insists on winning arguments instead of resolving conflicts. On the other hand, humility invites us to listen, to understand, and to put ourselves in the shoes of others.

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In John 13, Jesus modelled ultimate humility when He washed His disciples’ feet. This act of service showed them that true greatness in God’s Kingdom comes from serving others. Likewise, in our relationships, we are called to serve—not to be served. This could mean serving our families with love and care, being there for friends in times of need, or being a source of support for colleagues.

Humility also means admit­ting when we are wrong and being willing to reconcile. It requires us to let go of our ego and approach others with a heart ready to make peace.

5. Godly Relationships Are Strengthened Through Prayer

Finally, Godly relationships are Strengthened Through Prayer. Prayer is the spiritual foundation of every relation­ship. It invites God into the centre of our interactions and gives us the strength, wisdom, and patience we need to nur­ture our relationships.

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James 5:16 encourages us to “pray for one another, that you may be healed.” Prayer is a powerful way to cultivate godly relationships because it aligns our hearts with God’s will and purpose. When we pray for others, we release them into God’s hands, trusting Him to work in their lives. Prayer also softens our hearts toward others and gives us the grace to love them, even when it’s hard.

Whether it’s in our family, friendships, or other relation­ships, we must be intentional about praying for those we are connected to. Pray for their well-being, for God’s guid­ance in their lives, and for the health of your relationship. As we pray, God strengthens the bond and empowers us to love each other well.

By Rev. Dr Joyce Aryee, the author

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 Muslim women in leadership, governance and other professional fields (Final part)

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 Though debated, women’s leader­ship is not prohibited in Islam if practiced within Islamic ethics. Muslim women historically influ­enced governance through education, economic power, and advisory roles (Ahmed, 2021). Contemporary Muslim women in public office embody the Qur’anic principle of justice (Qur’an 4:135).

Islam encourages professions that benefit society. Female physicians, gynecologists, and nurses are essential in Muslim societies, ensuring culturally sensitive healthcare (Shaikh, 2015). Similarly, Muslim women in education, media, and business embody the Pro­phetic principle of service to humanity.

The Ghanaian context

In Ghana, Muslim women play a pivotal role in sustaining both families and communities. Beyond managing households, many women assume the role of primary breadwinners, paying school fees, supporting relatives, and financing community projects. Their contributions extend into professional and public life. In academia, Dr Rabi­yatu Armah, an Islamic educationist and lecturer at University of Ghana, has championed girls’ schooling and equal opportunities in religious studies. In politics and governance, Hajia Sami­ra Bawumia, Ghana’s former Second Lady, has promoted literacy, health, and women’s empowerment through nationwide initiatives. In the media, Madam Shamima Muslim, who serves as Deputy Presidential Spokesperson under President John Dramani Maha­ma, stands as a role model for young Muslim journalists. Her career reflects how Muslim women can excel in public communication while upholding modes­ty and Islamic values. These examples affirm that empowering Muslim women in education, media, and governance strengthens both families and national development.

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Education and economic empower­ment

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) stated: “The best of you are those who are best to their women.” (Tirmidhi, Hadith 1162). Honouring women means enabling them to access education and livelihood. Denying women education contradicts both the Qur’an and Sunnah and weakens the Muslim ummah (Barazangi, 2008).

A call to rethink our attitudes

Muslim societies today must critically re-examine cultural practices that con­tinue to restrict women’s potential and return to Islam’s authentic message. The Qur’an and Sunnah affirm wom­en as not only homemakers but also scholars, professionals, and leaders in society. True empowerment lies in realising the framework Islam already provides.

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The role of Muslim scholars (‘ulama) is crucial. Those trained in Sharia and Islamic jurisprudence (fiqh) must guide women in balancing modesty with participation in business, edu­cation, and public service. History offers powerful precedents: Aisha bint Abu Bakr (RA), one of the Proph­et’s wives, transmitted over 2,000 hadiths and was a leading authority in law; and Fatima al-Fihri founded the University of al-Qarawiyyin in Morocco, the world’s oldest existing university. Their legacy demonstrates how knowledge and faith combined to shape civilisations. Equipping today’s Muslim women with similar guidance will strengthen families, uplift communities, and ensure a prosperous ummah.

Conclusion

Islam dignified women at a time when they were devalued, transform­ing them from marginalised figures to partners in faith, family, and society. From Khadijah (RA), who invested her wealth in the Prophet’s mission, to Ai­sha (RA), who transmitted knowledge and shaped Islamic scholarship, wom­en have always stood at the heart of the ummah. The Qur’an enshrined their rights to inheritance, education, economic participation, and spiritual equality (Qur’an 4:7; 33:35).

Equally significant is the role of Muslim women in marriage and family life. The Qur’an describes spouses as “garments for one another” (Qur’an 2:187), highlighting marriage as a bond of comfort and protection. As wives and mothers, Muslim women nurture faith, instill moral discipline in children, and create homes rooted in mercy, patience, and cooperation. This domestic leadership comple­ments their contributions in business, education, health, and governance, ensuring balance in both private and public life.

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Allah reminds us: “For men is a share of what they earn, and for women is a share of what they earn.” (Qur’an 4:32). Empowering women in marriage, education, and work is therefore central to building thriving families, resilient communities, and a strong ummah.

By Imam Alhaji Saeed Abdulai, the Author

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 Being a channel of truth and holiness (Part 1)

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 “Again Jesus call the crowd to Him and said, “Listen to me, everyone, and un­derstand this. Nothing outside a man can make him ‘unclean’ by going into him. Rather, it is what comes out of a man that makes him ‘unclean.” – Mark 7:14-16 (NIV)

Introduction

The Lord is really awesome in His wisdom and as Moses said when they were led to cross the Red Sea – “Who is like unto you, O Lord, among the gods? Who is like you, glorious in holiness, fearful in praises, doing wonders?” – Exodus 15:11 (KJV)

CHANNEL

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The word channel connotes action – real action because as a verb, it means:

  • to direct
  • to show the way
  • shepherd
  • lead
  • train; among others.

And as a noun it can mean:

  1. a conduit
  2. an access
  3. an artery
  4. a pipeline
  5. a means of.

But the other words I found in the Thesaurus which really thrilled me and gave me a greater understanding of who we are called to be as Christians are meaning of channel as

  1. Advertiser;
  2. Delegate;
  3. Witness;
  4. Narrator;
  5. Go between;
  6. Spokesman,
  7. Communicator;
  8. Publiciser;
  9. Speaker.

Fascinating isn’t it. This reminds us of our calling as stated in Acts 1:8 that we will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes and we will be His witness here on earth – we are to be those through whom others come to know the Lord Jesus Christ. So as I found in the Thesaurus, we are Jesus’ delegates here on earth – we represent Him. We are His spokespersons. His go between when He wants to reach out to people. We are His communicators – we are really the ones who should be on radio each day telling people about the Lord Jesus Christ as the only means of salvation and redemption from sin. Alas, political party communicators seem to have the upper hand because media houses prefer their cacophony and not our soothing but very powerful words that ONLY Jesus saves.

By Rev. Dr Joyce Aryee, the author

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