Connect with us

Fruitful Living

Building responsible men for tomorrow (Part 2)

Published

on

Emotional intelligence, as described by Mayer and Salovey (1997), is the ability to perceive, understand, manage, and use emotions wisely. In leadership, it enables calm decision-making, empathy, and resilience.

A teacher, imam, or entrepreneur with high emotional intelligence inspires trust and cooperation, even in adversity. Spiritual intelligence, defined by Emmons (2000) and King (2008), is the ability to apply spiritual values to daily life — to find purpose, act with compassion, and remain morally anchored in challenging situations. It helps young men connect personal ambition with divine accountability.

Together, emotional and spiritual intelligence cultivate ethical leadership — the kind that prioritises service over status, integrity over image, and community welfare over personal gain.

Such leadership is what Ghana, and the world, needs: men who lead with conscience, competence, and compassion — embodying responsibility in every sphere of life.

Advertisement

As Mahatma Gandhi once said, “True education must correspond to the surrounding circumstances or it is not a healthy growth.” For Ghanaian youth, education must therefore include mentorship, entrepreneurship, and service.

A responsible man takes charge of his learning, his career, and his growth. He invests in his future with diligence, honesty, and a commitment to contribute positively to his society.

4. Responsibility in marriage and family life

Family is the bedrock of any society. Strong nations are built on strong families — and strong families depend on responsible men. The Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم said:

Advertisement

“The best of you are those who are best to their wives.” (Tirmidhi, Hadith 1162).

 In Islam, leadership in the home is not domination; it is service. The husband is a caretaker (qawwam), entrusted to love, protect, and guide with mercy. Responsibility in marriage means emotional intelligence, financial prudence, and spiritual leadership.

Sociologist Anthony Giddens (2013) in Sociology notes that modern family life requires emotional participation, not just financial provision. Men must be present not only as breadwinners but as role models, listeners, and teachers.

In today’s Ghana, we see families crumbling due to absentee fatherhood, domestic violence, and lack of communication. True masculinity is not measured by authority, but by empathy and responsibility. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم demonstrated this balance helping with housework, caring for his family, and treating all with gentleness.

Advertisement

When men lead with compassion and discipline, families thrive and when families thrive, nations prosper.

By Imam Alhaji Saeed Abdulai

Join our WhatsApp Channel now!
https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBElzjInlqHhl1aTU27

Continue Reading
Advertisement

Fruitful Living

Life after Ramadan : What is expected of us

Published

on

All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the worlds. We praise Him, we seek His help, and we seek His forgiveness. We seek refuge in Allah from the evil within ourselves and from the consequences of our deeds. Whomever Allah guides, none can misguide, and whomever He leaves astray, none can guide.

May the peace and blessings of Allah be upon Prophet Muhammad, his family, his companions, and all those who follow his guidance until the Day of Judgment.

Introduction

Ramadan is a sacred season of intense spiritual purification—a month in which believers strive to reconnect with Allah through fasting, prayer, charity, and self-restraint. However, the true measure of Ramadan is not confined to its thirty days; rather, it is reflected in the transformation that follows it.

Advertisement

The question every sincere believer must ask is: What happens after Ramadan? Does one return to old habits, or does one sustain the spiritual momentum gained? Islam teaches that worship is not seasonal but continuous.

Allah commands: “And worship your Lord until there comes to you certainty (death).” (Qur’an 15:99). Thus, life after Ramadan is a test of consistency, sincerity, and true devotion.

Life after Ramadan: What is expected of us

a. Consistency in worship

Advertisement

The foremost expectation after Ramadan is steadfastness in acts of worship. The spiritual discipline cultivated during Ramadan must continue beyond it. The Messenger of Allah —

Prophet Muhammad — said: “The most beloved deeds to Allah are those that are consistent, even if small.” (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī; Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim)

Practical applications include:

• Observing the five daily prayers punctually

Advertisement

• Maintaining regular recitation of the Qur’an

• Performing voluntary night prayers (Qiyām al-Layl), even if minimal

• Engaging consistently in dhikr (remembrance of Allah)

Consistency is the hallmark of sincere faith.

Advertisement

b. Guarding Against Returning to Sins

One of the gravest dangers after Ramadan is reverting to sinful habits that were abandoned during the holy month.

Allah warns: “And do not be like the one who untwisted her thread after it was strong…” (Qur’an 16:92).

Returning to sins may indicate that one’s transformation was temporary rather than genuine.

Advertisement

Preventive measures:

• Avoid environments that encourage sin

• Replace harmful habits with beneficial ones

• Maintain righteous companionship

Advertisement

True devotion is shown by perseverance after spiritual highs.

c. Maintaining the Spirit of Taqwa

The ultimate objective of Ramadan is the attainment of taqwa (God-consciousness).

Allah says: “O you who believe, fasting has been prescribed for you… so that you may attain taqwa.” (Qur’an 2:183)

Advertisement

After Ramadan, believers should evaluate themselves:

• Has my consciousness of Allah increased?

• Am I more mindful of my actions and speech?

• Do I avoid sins with greater awareness?

Advertisement

If these qualities endure, then Ramadan has achieved its purpose.

d. Continuing Voluntary Acts of Worship

Ramadan should serve as a foundation, not a peak.

Among the recommended acts after Ramadan is fasting six days in Shawwal. The Prophet

Advertisement

Mohammed (pbuh) said:

“Whoever fasts Ramadan and follows it with six days of Shawwal, it is as if he fasted the entire year.” (Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim).

Other recommended practices include:

• Regular charity (ṣadaqah)

Advertisement

• Voluntary fasting on Mondays and Thursdays

• Frequent seeking of forgiveness (istighfār)

These acts sustain the spiritual elevation attained during Ramadan.

e. Signs of an Accepted Ramadan

Advertisement

Scholars highlight several indicators that Ramadan has been accepted:

• Continuation of good deeds after Ramadan

• Increased humility and sincerity

• Regret over shortcomings during the month

Advertisement

• A stronger inclination towards obedience

As the righteous predecessors said:

“The reward of a good deed is another good deed after it.”

f. Becoming Better in Character and Society

Advertisement

Ramadan is not solely about ritual worship; it is about moral refinement.

The Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) said:

“The best among you are those with the best character.” (Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī)

After Ramadan, a believer should demonstrate:

Advertisement

• Greater patience

• Increased generosity

• Forgiveness and compassion

• Honesty and integrity

Advertisement

A transformed character is the true fruit of fasting.

g. Sustaining a Lifelong Ramadan Mindset

A believer lives between hope and fear:

Hope that Allah has accepted his deeds

Advertisement

Fear that his efforts may fall short.

This balance nurtures continuous spiritual growth and humility.

Conclusion

Life after Ramadan is the true test of faith. Ramadan is a training ground, but what follows determines whether its lessons have been internalized. A successful believer is one who continues in obedience, maintains taqwa, and strives for excellence in character long after Ramadan has passed. Let Ramadan not be a temporary phase, but a lifelong transformation.

Advertisement

Author

Imam Alhaji Saeed Abdulai

Kpone Katamanso Metropolitan Chief Imam

Governance Expert, Certified Counselor, and Public Speaker

Advertisement

A renowned Islamic scholar and community leader, Imam Saeed Abdulai is actively engaged in

religious guidance, social advocacy, and public education through sermons, media engagements, and scholarly writings.

References

The Qur’an, Surah Al-Ḥijr (15:99)

Advertisement

Sahih al-Bukhari; Sahih Muslim

The Qur’an, Surah An-Naḥl (16:92)

The Qur’an, Surah Al-Baqarah (2:183)

Sahih Muslim

Advertisement

Reported from the sayings of the Salaf (righteous predecessors)

Sahih al-Bukhari

Continue Reading

Fruitful Living

Eid ul-Fitr: The climax of 1 month of fasting

Published

on

ALL praise belongs to Allah, the Lord of the worlds, who ordained fasting in the blessed month of Ramadan as a means of spiritual purification and moral elevation for the believers. We thank Him for granting us the opportunity to witness and complete this noble month. May His peace and blessings be upon the noble Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), his family, his companions, and all those who follow his guidance until the Day of Judgment.

As the crescent of Shawwal appears, Muslims across the world celebrate Eid ul-Fitr, a day that marks the successful completion of a month devoted to fasting, prayer, charity, and spiritual reflection.

Historical and scriptural background

The observance of fasting during Ramadan was divinely prescribed by Allah as an act of worship and discipline for the Muslim community. The Qur’an establishes this obligation in clear terms:

Advertisement

“O you who believe! Fasting is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before you, that you may attain righteousness (taqwa).” (Qur’an 2:183)

This verse demonstrates that fasting is not unique to Islam alone but was also practiced by earlier religious communities. However, in Islam it was perfected as a structured act of devotion observed annually during the month of Ramadan.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the spiritual rewards associated with fasting. He said:

“Whoever fasts Ramadan out of faith and in hope of reward, his previous sins will be forgiven.” (Sahih al-Bukhari; Sahih Muslim)

Advertisement

Ramadan therefore becomes a period in which believers strive to purify their hearts, discipline their desires, and strengthen their relationship with their Creator.

The objectives of Ramadan fasting

The central objective of fasting in Islam is the attainment of taqwa, which refers to a heightened consciousness of Allah that influences one’s conduct and decisions.

The Qur’an explicitly highlights this purpose when it states: “That you may attain righteousness (taqwa).” (Qur’an 2:183)

Advertisement

Through fasting, Muslims learn self-restraint and patience. By abstaining from food, drink, and marital relations during daylight hours, believers cultivate discipline over their physical desires.

Fasting also nurtures compassion for the less privileged. Experiencing hunger and thirst reminds the fasting person of the hardships endured by the poor, encouraging generosity and social responsibility. For this reason, Ramadan is also a period of heightened charity and community solidarity.

Furthermore, Ramadan serves as a time for spiritual renewal through increased prayer, recitation of the Qur’an, remembrance of Allah, and acts of kindness. By the end of the month, the believer ideally emerges spiritually rejuvenated and morally refined.

Understanding Eid ul-Fitr

Advertisement

Eid ul-Fitr literally means “the festival of breaking the fast.” It is the joyous occasion that follows the completion of Ramadan and symbolizes gratitude to Allah for granting believers the strength to fulfill this important act of worship.

The Qur’an alludes to this celebration when it states: “…that you complete the prescribed period and glorify Allah for guiding you, and perhaps you will be grateful.” (Qur’an 2:185)

Eid ul-Fitr is therefore not merely a cultural festival but a religious expression of gratitude and devotion.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) also confirmed the significance of this celebration when he arrived in Madinah and found the people observing other festivals. He said: “Allah has replaced them for you with two better days: the Day of Eid al-Fitr and the Day of Eid al-Adha.” (Sunan Abu Dawud)

Advertisement

These two annual celebrations, therefore, hold a sacred place in Islamic tradition.

Observance of the Eid ul-Fitr prayer

One of the most important features of Eid ul-Fitr is the special congregational prayer performed by Muslims. This prayer consists of two units (rak‘ahs) and is distinguished by additional Takbīrāt (proclamations of “Allahu Akbar”) that glorify Allah.

Following the prayer, the Imam delivers a sermon (khutbah) reminding the community of the lessons of Ramadan and encouraging them to remain steadfast in righteousness.

Advertisement

The Eid prayer symbolises unity and brotherhood, as Muslims gather in large congregations to express gratitude to Allah and celebrate their collective spiritual achievement.

Celebrating Eid ul-Fitr in Accordance with Authentic Islamic Teachings

Islam provides clear guidance on how Eid should be celebrated in a manner that reflects gratitude and moderation.

One of the key obligations is the payment of Zakat al-Fitr, a charity given before the Eid prayer to ensure that even the poor can share in the joy of the day. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “The Messenger of Allah made Zakat al-Fitr obligatory as a purification for the fasting person and as food for the poor.” (Sunan Abu Dawud)

Advertisement

Muslims are also encouraged to wear clean or new clothes, eat before going for the prayer, and exchange greetings of goodwill.

Equally important is maintaining family ties, visiting relatives, helping the needy, and spreading happiness within the community. At the same time, Muslims are reminded to avoid extravagance or activities that contradict Islamic moral values.

Key take-home messages from the Eid Khutbah

During the Eid sermon, the Imam typically emphasises several important lessons derived from Ramadan.

Advertisement

First, believers are reminded that the discipline cultivated during Ramadan should continue throughout the year. Acts of worship such as prayer, charity, and remembrance of Allah should not end with the conclusion of the month.

Second, Muslims are encouraged to uphold the values of compassion, justice, and unity within their communities.

Finally, the khutbah often calls upon believers to remain conscious of their responsibilities toward society, promoting peace, morality, and social harmony.

Eid Greetings to the Muslim community

Advertisement

As Muslims celebrate this blessed occasion, we pray that Allah accepts our fasting, prayers, charity, and all acts of devotion performed during Ramadan.

May the spiritual lessons of the month remain with us throughout the year, guiding us toward righteousness and compassion in our daily lives.

I extend my warmest greetings to Muslims everywhere and wish you all Eid Mubarak.

Author Profile

Advertisement

Imam Alhaji Saeed Abdulai is the Kpone Katamanso Municipal Chief Imam, a Governance Expert, and a Certified Counsellor. He regularly contributes to national discourse on religion, social development, governance, and moral leadership, and participates in media discussions on family life, ethics, and community development.

By Imam Alhaji Saeed Abdulai, Kpone Katamanso Municipal Chief Imam

Advertisement
Continue Reading
Advertisement

Trending