Obaa Yaa
My wife is always late
Dear Obaa Yaa
I am a 40 year old banker married to fashion designer. My wife doubles as an usher and singer at church.
Most often, because I don’t take part in any church activities I usually take the lead when she has meetings after church.
Of late, my wife has been keeping too long at church. She sometimes comes home as late at 5:00pm after church, especially on Sundays.
Recently, she came back from an all-night looking so dirty and it looked like she has been rolling on the floor.
Sometimes she gives excuses about the all-night services and a special healing she is expecting from God which makes her wait on the lord until the pastor tells her to go home.
She told me she was receiving an anointing and so she fell on the ground.
I want to know is this how the Holy Spirit works.
Nyantakyi,
Kejetia.
Dear Nyantakyi,
Why do you allow your wife that latitude? Before you realise, her pastor has impregnated her and she’d give you the child.
Stop her immediately, because there is something fishy going on there.
You are in for a big disgrace if you continue to allow this go on.
The Holy Spirit is a decent spirit. It cannot encourage rolling on the floor for anointing.
Obaa Yaa
I want a sponsor
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 25 years of age. I am a degree holder and wants to further my education with my Masters.
But unfortunately, I lost my father and I don’t have any one to help me financially to do my masters.
I am seeking for sponsors to help me but I do not know any such sponsor. I am, therefore, appealing to you through this letter for assistance.
Paddy, Ada.
Dear Paddy,
It is quite impossible finding such ‘sponsorships’ at random unless you have family members who want to assist.
Try as much as possible to search for a job because we are in hard times and I wonder what type of sponsorship you are looking for.
You can save after you have been paid. After working for a while, you can take a loan to further your education and arrange for suitable class.
You can start a lucrative business online just as other ladies are selling clothes, shoes, bags etc to earn a living.
Even if someone will assist you, you need to make efforts yourself.
Obaa Yaa
My boss is the problem
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I AM in love with a young man in my office. He is a very kind and gentle man every woman will dream of.
He is 35 and I am 25 years of age. I am currently pursing my Masters at the Accra Technical University in Fashion Design and Textiles.
As a matter of fact, he assists me in my project works, assignment and always ready to help me in times of difficulty.
Interestingly, he has also shown interest in me and we are planning to get married next year.
My problem is that anytime my boss sees him around me, he gets angry and gives him attitude and shouts at him to go to his office.
My fiancée wants to resign because it is making him uncomfortable in the office and this is affecting his attitude towards work.
He is accusing me of having a relationship with the boss. I am disturbed, what should I do?
Baaba,
Takoradi.
Dear Baaba,
It is natural in such a case for your fiancé to suspect your boss might be after you.
Your boss’s attitude to your fiancé is too harsh. He should take it easy with him, especially when he is assisting you with work.
I have a feeling that your boss has an interest in you so seeing your fiancé around you makes him uncomfortable.
However, you can also have a talk with your boss to find out the reason for his behaviour towards your guy.
