Obaa Yaa
She never ask for sex
Dear Obaa Yaa
I AM 43 and she is 40. We live at Nyamekye near Mambo spot in Accra.
My wife is a very nice person and she attends to all my needs, especially in bed. But she has never initiated our sex acts.
Each time I have to be the one who would make the first move.
I would be happy if she gives me the green light, but should I convey such a delicate message to her?
Francis,
Nyamekye.
Dear Francis,
In my opinion, this is not a delicate matter. Tell your wife that you need a positive change in your love life, and I think this is a fair request.
She might find it difficult to initiate sex in the beginning but when you encourage her. She would learn.
It would then come naturally to her every time, and mind you, do not reject her when she ask for it too often.
All the best.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 35year –old-lady married to a banker. I am a housewife. I am fair in complexion. I got my left hand tattooed sometime last year. I have never had my peace with my husband because he strongly abhors.
In my attempt to get it erased, I have caused a big scar on my hand which has worsened the situation. Sometime ago, your esteemed paper carried a story about how permanent tattoo can be cleared and a location.
May I know whether it is possible to get the scar and tattoo erased, and how much it would cost.
Worried housewife, Prampram.
Dear housewife,
Since I have no idea how wide and deep the scar and tattoo are, it would be difficult for me to have a meaningful discussion with the specialists at the unit.
I suggest that the next time you visit Accra, you pay a visit to any skincare unit and ask what help they can offer.
But until then, do not apply any self-medication. You may also ask your doctor to advise you as if there is any way out for a surgery. All the best.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
Ever since we got married, two years ago, my husband seldom wears his wedding ring except on occasion such as church service, funerals, outdooring and other social gatherings.
For the rest of the week, he goes to work without it. The excuse he gives is that whether he wears the ring to work or not, he is by law married to me.
But I beg to differ. I suspect there is more to it than what he told me. I need your advice on this.
Eno, Ashiaman.
Dear Eno,
Some men don’t like wearing rings; others enjoy it. It is just like how some women like wearing jewellery or large earing while others would rather do away with them.
The fact, however, is that a man can misbehave even when he wears it or not because there are ladies who wouldn’t mind with the ring on.
When he gets back home, he would wear it again. What difference does it make if he doesn’t wear it all?
