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• Marriage is a balance between life and love

• Marriage is a balance between life and love

What is marriage?

Marriage is a union of individual people. Also called matrimony, marriage acts as a social and legal contract that gives a partner someone to rely on, brings a greater degree of intimacy and emo­tional security.

What is the history of mar­riage?

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Marriage has, since an­cient times, been recognised as a liaison for economic reasons and family engage­ments. However, it has come a long way with time to be recognised as a union of peo­ple in love who promise to spend a lifetime together.

To get in-depth informa­tion, read this quick guide on the definition of marriage and its history.

How many types of marriag­es are there?

There are many types of marriages, each serving its own purpose to provide a balance between life and love. From civil unions, inter­faith marriages, polygamous marriages, arranged mar­riages to marriages of conve­nience and safety marriage, the type depends on what the individuals want from each other.

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What are the stages of marriage?

There are five stages of marriage. It starts from the romantic stage and moves onto the power struggle phase, followed by the stability and commitment phase. It ends at the bliss stage when couples get ready to create together, and this can include a family or business together. It is very essential to know what the stages of marriage are to un­derstand how to experience the changes associated with each stage.

What are the most important things in marriage?

For the success of a marriage, various elements come into play. Some of the important things in a marriage are acceptance, fighting fairly, appreciation, communication, and so forth. By learning what marriage is and what the most important things in marriage are, you can explore how to enjoy married life and build a solid marital relationship.

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What are the things to know before getting married?

The dynamics from a romantic relationship stage to that of a marital one don’t differ drastically. Still, there is a marked change over time in the expectations that partners have from each oth­er, among other things.

It is necessary to under­stand what is the meaning of marriage to you, have a degree of awareness, and work towards establishing healthy practices to brace for such changes and keep the relationship healthy. It is equally important to consider a few things before choosing a partner .

To be continued…

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…Tips to mentally prepare your child for the school year

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1. Talk early and often

It is never too early to start talking with and listening to your children about the first day of school. Ask them what they think school will be like and see if they have any specific concerns so that you will have time to address it over the next couple of weeks. It is totally normal to have first day jitters.

2. Go to the orientation

If your child’s school is hosting an orientation or back-to-school night, take advantage of it. Often children are worried that they will not know how to get to the bathroom, where to eat lunch, or how to get to a locker. If your school does not offer one or you are unable to make it, ask the teacher if it would be possible to stop by for a visit. Teachers are usually in their classrooms prepping for the new school year in advance.

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3. Meet the teacher

For kids, wondering if they will like their teacher is a big source of fear. If your child isn’t comfortable in the teacher’s classroom, he or she will be less likely to be ready to learn. Many teachers will make themselves available for a phone or video call or will return an email if a visit is not possible.

4. For younger children, read books or watch educational cartoons

In August, local libraries will often display books about starting school or going to a new school. These materials can help children read about and see what a typical day will consist of and what they will learn in school.

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5. Take your kids shopping with you

Your kids will be more excited to use their back-to-school supplies if they picked them out. Doing so will help them feel prepared and will also provide an opportunity to talk about how the new supplies might be used in the coming year.

6. Set up school “zones” and establish clear expectations

At home, establish a location for school materials such as a place to put backpack and lunchbox, and set up a distraction-free homework zone (like the kitchen table with the TV turned off and phones/tablets put away). Set up homework and study times (for example, Monday–Thursday from 3:30–5 pm) to help manage expectations and build and maintain good routines.

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7. Practice your new routine

Both children and adults can benefit from practicing the new school routine one to two weeks before school actually starts. Stage a morning dry run to see how long it takes you and your children to get out of the door in the morning. It will not only help you predict how early you and your kids need to get up, but your children will benefit from learning what to expect each weekday.

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…tips for building a good parent-teacher relationship

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Having a good relationship with your child’s teacher will make it easier for you to share concerns and work together to help your child thrive. Here are some tips for building a partnership. Here are some tips to help parents build a good relationship with their child’s teacher.

1. Meet with the teacher and staff early

Teachers are usually swamped at the start of the school year. But try to meet as soon as the teacher can. At your first meeting, find out how the teacher prefers to communicate it can be either by phone, email, or some other method.

2. Help the teacher get to know your child.

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Sharing information is key to a good parent-teacher relationship. Tell the teacher about your child’s interests, strengths, and challenges. If your child has an special need, make the teacher a aware, and let the him or her know about situations outside of school that might impact your child’s learning or behaviour.

3. Be respectful of the teacher’s time.

Be on time for appointments, whether they are phone calls, video meetings, or parent-teacher conferences. Try to wrap things up within the allotted time. The teacher may have other parents scheduled after you or other meetings and commitments. You can always set up another call to finish up.

4. Recognise the teacher’s efforts.

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If you are meeting in the classroom, look for displays of students’ work or teaching materials that you can compliment. If you are somewhere else, start things off with a positive statement, like something your child enjoys about the teacher’s class. 

5. Never talk negatively about a teacher in front of your child.

Showing your respect for a teacher will set a good example for your child.

6. Participate in school events.

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Take part in school events when possible. This shows that you’re part of the school community and want to be supportive. Offer to volunteer in a way that works for you, whether it’s at school or at home on your own time.

7. Say “thank you.”

Show your appreciation for the big or little things the teacher and other staff do for your child. Thank-you notes and emails can go a long way toward building positive relationships.

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