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Talk about your relationship’s future
A lot of people can get intimidated by talking about the future. So intimidated, in fact, that they forget what these types of conversations actually mean. You’re not trying to talk about your future to torture your girlfriend or make her freak out. You want to talk about it because you want to spend your future with her! Does she know that she’s “it” for you? If not, I’d highly recommend starting there. Say something like, “You’re my person. I can’t see my life without you. The idea of thinking about spending our lives together makes me so freaking happy.” Something simple like that opens up the doorway to talk about your future in a joyful way, instead of a pressure-driven one.
Communicate clearly
Talking about the future can bring up HYPERLINK “https://www.bustle.com/articles/162478-6-ways-to-confront-a-fear-of-commitment” fears, insecurities, and anxieties. Just as important as talking about the specific details of your future together is talking about the best way to talk about the future. You mentioned that you and your girlfriend are both daydreamers who like to play things by ear, so it’s sounds like you probably have similar communication styles. Still, it’s worth asking your girlfriend questions like, “what’s it like for you when we talk about the future?” and “what’s the best way for us to talk about our future?”
Get clear on what you want
From there, it’s time to spend a little time thinking about what you’d like out of your lives and your relationships. You already mentioned most of the biggies in your question — HYPERLINK “https://www.bustle.com/articles/161363-should-i-have-kids-7-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-you-make-any-decisions” do you want to have kids? HYPERLINK “https://www.bustle.com/articles/163088-how-to-know-if-marriage-is-for-you” Do you want to get married? What places are you interested in calling home? What do you want to do with your careers? Do you have any financial goals?
Think about setting yourself up for success
Planning your future isn’t just identifying what you want; it also involves figuring out how to get there. With the stuff you know you want, start having conversations with your girlfriend about how the two of you can get there. Say something like, “I know we’re both daydreamers, but I want to make sure we set ourselves up to keep living the kind of life we want to live.” This process can help really big lofty goals feel a bit more tangible.
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Kpandai Parliamentary Re-run: Minority Caucus disagrees with court ruling, rejects re-run
The Minority Caucus has issued an official statement rejecting High Court ruling that nullified the 2024 Kpandai parliamentary election, insisting the poll was transparent and reflected the will of the people.
According to the Minority Caucus, records show a transparent process, a credible declaration, and a result that reflected the will of the people.
In a statement signed by the Minority Leader, Alexander Afenyo-Markin, it is important for the public to have a full understanding of what occurred before, during and after the collation.
The statement noted that Matthew Nyindam won the parliamentary election with a margin of 3,734 votes.
The statement added that “After the NDC secured the presidential results, the NDC parliamentary candidate, Daniel Nsala Wakpal, gathered a group of supporters who arrived at the collation centre in a Mahindra pickup wearing NDC T-shirts.”
“They damaged some ballot boxes in an attempt to interrupt the collation, believing that the Electoral Commission would not have the pink sheets required to complete the declaration. The tension that followed created serious security risks,” the statement alleged.
According to the Minority, this led the Electoral Commission to move the final declaration to its regional office in Tamale. All NDC agents had already signed the pink sheets at every polling station across the constituency. confirming the accuracy of the results.
They added that when Wakpal realised that he had lost the election, he refused to go to Tamale for the collation.
The Electoral Commission continued with its work and declared Matthew Nyindam the winner with 27,947 votes, while Hon Nsala secured 24,213 votes.
“Wakpal later challenged the results in court. His case focused on his absence in Tamale and on clerical errors in 41 out of 1$2 polling stations. During the trial, the main witness for the NDC stated that the total votes in contention were about 500. Even if the court had awarded all 500 votes to the NDC candidate, he would still have lost by more than 3,000 votes,” they further noted.
They highlighted in their statement that despite this clear position, the Tamale High Court has nullified the entire results and ordered a rerun in the constituency.
By Edem Mensah-Tsotorme
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Ghanaian gospel music dynamo and police officer, Assistant Commissioner of Police (ASP), Kofi Sarpong has unveiled a Clothing line to bring admirers closer to his sense of fashion.
The clothing line dubbed KOFSARP is part of his brand extension efforts to stand the test of time.
Speaking to The Spectator during a short ceremony to unveil the shop located Kokomlemle in Accra on Sunday, September 8, ACP Kofi Sarpong said, the decision to finally open a Clothing line followed constant suggestions from friends and colleagues.
He said upon further deliberations, the dream was birthed to give his brand another extension.
“I am now a musician, a police officer, and a clothes seller. The shop will be open starting from Monday, so anyone can come and buy.” Kofi Sarpong added.
Against this backdrop, he urged Ghanaians to visit KOFSARP, a hub for all unique menswear.
ACP Kofi Sarpong commended his manager Ernest Kwesi for his unflinching support and advice, adding that he was instrumental in making the dream a reality.
Also, the musician expressed his appreciation to the media for their tremendous support given him over the years.
Caption: ACP Kofi Sarpong flanked by his family officially unveil the shop
