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Cultivating and maintaining Godly relationships (final part)

 It is important to under­stand that Christlike love is not self-centred. We live in a culture that promotes a “what’s in it for me” mindset in relationships. But god­ly relationships reflect in a different attitude. Instead of asking, “What can I get out of this relationship?” we should ask, “How can I serve, uplift, and encourage this person?”

Whether in marriage, friendships, or even work relationships, cultivating love means sacrificing our own needs for the sake of others. Christlike love is the glue that holds godly relationships together.

Ask yourself. Am I loving those around me in the way Christ loves me? Am I willing to forgive, serve, and sacrifice for others in our relationships?

If we are truly followers of Christ, love must be at the centre of how we relate to everyone.

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2. Godly Relationships Are Built on Trust and Integrity

The second point is that Godly relationships are built on Trust and Integrity. Trust is the bedrock of any healthy relationship, and integrity ensures that this trust is not broken. Without trust, rela­tionships become strained, and eventually, they fall apart.

Proverbs 12:22 says, “The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in people who are trustworthy.” Trust is earned through honesty, faithfulness, and a commitment to doing what is right. In godly rela­tionships, we are called to be people of our word, to be reli­able, and to act with integrity at all times.

Integrity in a relationship means that we are consistent in our character—we are the same in private as we are in public. It means we are not deceitful, manipulative, or hypocritical. Instead, we are transparent and honest. This applies to all forms of relationships, whether in marriage, friendships, or even professional relationships.

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Building trust requires time and intentionality. Do our actions align with our words? Can people depend on us? If we are to maintain godly relationships, we must commit to being trust­worthy and people of integrity.

3. Godly Relationships Re­quire Forgiveness and Grace

No relationship is per­fect because people are not perfect. Conflict, misunder­standings, and offenses are inevitable. But godly relation­ships are maintained through a posture of Forgiveness and Grace.

Ephesians 4:32 instructs us to “Be kind and compassion­ate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

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One of the most challenging aspects of maintaining godly relationships is the ability to forgive those who hurt us, intentionally or unintention­ally. Holding onto bitterness or grudges only destroys relationships and erodes our peace.

When we forgive, we imi­tate Christ, who forgave us of our sins even when we were un­deserving. Forgiveness is not about denying that we were wronged, but it is a con­scious decision to release the offense and allow God to heal our hearts.

Moreover, grace is essential. Grace means giving others room to make mistakes, to grow, and to change. We are all on a journey of becoming more like Christ, and grace allows us to see others as God sees them—worthy of love, compassion, and patience.

To be continued!

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  • By Rev. Dr Joyce Aryee, the author
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Islam and the environment (Part 1)

 We praise and glorify Allah, the Creator and Sustainer of the uni­verse. We send salutations upon the best of creation, Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), the final Mes­senger of Allah, who taught us to live in balance, justice, and compassion with all creatures of the earth.

Introduction

The preservation of the envi­ronment is not merely a con­temporary global concern; it is deeply

rooted in divine revelation.

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In Islam, the environment is a manifestation of Allah’s signs (Ayatullah) and a trust (Amaanah) given to humanity. Unfortunately, modern civilisa­tion, driven by profit, exploita­tion, and ignorance, has led to climate change, deforestation, water pollution, biodiversity loss, and global warming.

Islam’s holistic worldview offers timeless ethical principles that advocate environmental protection, making it highly compatible with international frameworks like the United Na­tions Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs).

As Muslims, safeguarding the earth is both a spiritual duty and a social responsibility.

Definition of Environ­ment and the Islamic Perspective

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The environment is broadly defined as the surroundings or conditions in which a person, an­imal, or plant lives or operates.

The Cambridge Dictionary defines it as “the air, water, and land in or on which people, animals, and plants live.”

In academic terms, it includes all external physical, biological, and chemical factors influencing living organisms (Miller & Spool­man, 2011).

From an Islamic standpoint, the environment is the creation of Allah entrusted to humanity to use with responsibility and moderation.

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Allah says: “And do not cause corruption on the earth after it has been set in order, and invoke Him in fear and aspiration. Sure­ly, the mercy of Allah is near to the doers of good.”

(Surah Al-A’raf, 7:56)

This verse explicitly commands humans not to destroy the bal­ance (mīzān) that Allah has

established.

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The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) further reinforced environmental

ethics through his actions and sayings, encouraging tree plant­ing, animal welfare, cleanliness,

and the preservation of water sources.

Components of the Envi­ronment in Islam

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The environment encompasses various ecosystems and natural elements, including:

• Dry and fertile lands – used for agriculture and housing.

• Forests – sources of oxygen, biodiversity, and medicine.

• Water bodies – such as rivers, lakes, lagoons, seas, and oceans, essential for life.

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• Ramsar Sites and World Heritage Areas – designated for ecological protection due to

their unique natural value.

Islam values every element of nature. For instance, the Proph­et (peace be upon him) said:

“If a Muslim plants a tree or sows seeds, and then a bird, or a person, or an animal eats from it, it is regarded as charity.” (Sahih al-Bukhari, Hadith 2320)

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 Why Should I forgive others? (Part 1)

 “Be kind and compas­sionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”- Ephesians 4:32 (NIV)

 INTRODUCTION

CONFLICT is never easy—espe­cially when it happens within the church. Many believers can relate to the heartache of strained relationships, misunderstandings, or even church splits.

Though these moments don’t make us lose our salvation, they often test our faith deeply. At times, the dis­couragement can feel so intense that quitting the Christian walk seems like a tempting option.

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Yet, in Christ, we are called into a new kind of family—a family transformed by grace. We are to be peacemakers, reconcilers, and forgiv­ers because we ourselves have been forgiven so completely.

Scripture doesn’t just call us to live in peace; it calls us to reflect the heart of Christ, the One who gave Himself for His enemies. The brief but powerful letter to Philemon offers timeless wisdom on this topic.

Living in grace

The Apostle Paul’s letter to Phile­mon is only 335 words in the original Greek, yet it carries profound lessons about grace, forgiveness, and recon­ciliation.

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Paul writes not as an authoritari­an apostle but as a loving brother in Christ, appealing to Philemon on behalf of Onesimus—a runaway slave who had since become a believer.

Paul gently urges, “Though I could be bold enough in Christ to command you to do what is proper, yet for love’s sake I prefer to ap­peal to you…” (Philemon 1:8–9). He pleads with love, not law. He even offers to pay any debt Onesimus owes: “If he has wronged you or owes you anything, charge that to my account” (v. 18).

This is not “forgive and forget.” This is a real reckoning of wrong, met with real grace. Paul illus­trates what Christ has done for all of us—He takes our debt and pays it with His own life.

Our identity in Christ

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Paul emphasises that Onesimus has undergone a radical transformation. Once “useless,” he is now “useful” (v. 11)—a beautiful play on the meaning of his name. The point? In Christ, our identity is changed. We’re not defined by our failures or past offenses. We are made new.

Philemon, a slave master, is being asked to receive Onesimus not as property, but as a brother in Christ. This is a powerful call to the Church: we must see each other through the lens of our shared redemption. Grace transforms social structures, erases labels, and redefines our relation­ships.

By Rev. Dr Joyce Aryee,
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