Relationship
Keeping the spark alive: tips for a fulfilling marriage —part 2
MARRIAGE is a journey that requires effort, commitment, and creativity to keep the spark alive. In our previous article, we discussed the importance of communication, quality time, and appreciation in building a fulfilling marriage.
In this second part, we will explore four more crucial tips to help you take your relationship to the next level. From keeping the romance alive to letting go of resentment, I will share expert advice to help you build a fulfilling marriage.
4. Keep the romance alive:
Surprising your partner
Romance is not just for the early stages of a relationship. Make an effort to surprise your partner, plan romantic getaways, and show affection.
A simple kiss, hug, or touch can release oxytocin, the love hormone, and strengthen your bond. Some ideas for romantic gestures include:
• Planning a surprise weekend getaway
• Writing love notes or poetry
• Creating a special playlist of your partner’s favourite songs
• Cooking their favourite meal
• Giving them a thoughtful gift or surprise.
5. Laugh together
Laughter is a powerful tool in any relationship. Find the humour in life’s situations, and laugh together often. This can help you navigate challenges, reduce stress, and create lasting memories.
For example, you could watch a funny movie or TV show together, or share jokes with each other. You could even plan a fun outing to a comedy club or entertainment show.
6. Support each other’s dreams
A fulfilling marriage is built on mutual support and encouragement. Support each other’s passions, dreams, and goals. Be each other’s biggest cheerleader, and celebrate each other’s successes.
If your partner has always wanted to start their own business, for instance, you could offer to help them brainstorm ideas or create a business plan. You could also attend networking events or conferences together to show your support.
7. Take responsibility and forgive
No one is perfect, and mistakes will happen. Take responsibility for your actions, apologise when necessary, and forgive each other. Holding grudges can create resentment and damage your relationship.
If you have had a disagreement with your partner, try to approach the situation with empathy and understanding. Listen to their perspective, and acknowledge their feelings. You might say something like, “I understand why you’re upset, and I’m sorry for my part in the disagreement. Can we work together to find a solution and move forward?”
To be continued …
Source: Excerpts from “COURTSHIP MATTERS: Keys to a Fulfilling Lasting Marriage” Book by REV. COUNSELOR PRINCE OFFEI (Lecturer, Published Author, and Marriage Counsellor).
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COUNSELOR PRINCE & ASSOCIATES CONSULT (CPAC COUNSELLOR TRAINING INSTITUTE)
By Counselor Prince Offei
Aries
You are a warrior by nature, try to balance out your own needs to ensure you do not give all of yourself to another. Give yourself some love, too!
Taurus
Do not fret, the secrets being hidden are not bad and are beneficial to your future. In fact, you will be super happy when they are revealed. Then, you can make strategic moves forward.
Gemini
Your friendship circle is evolving, allowing you to meet new people who will become your best buds over time. Embrace the rare chance to connect and engage with others you meet now.
Cancer
Home is where your heart is this week. And the more reason for you to start making yourself feel cozier in your space now. Treat yourself to a few new items to decorate and spruce up your pad to get in the spring spirit. Add fresh.
Leo
Lean into your higher mind and vibe. This will give you the ultimate opportunity to achieve personal fulfillment and spiritual growth over the next few months. Doing so will encourage you to reach new personal heights.
Virgo
Standing up for yourself takes a lot of guts and confidence. Luckily for you, you are able to assert your view against others and defend yourself against those who aim to bring you down.
Libra
Making your mark on the world is challenging, but you are headed in the right direction. As long as you accept that you need to be a leader rather than an innovator in your endeavours, you can take on your goals with success.
Scorpio
You are being introspective and plotting your next moves on and off this week. Take this time and energy to strategise the upcoming sunny days, so you can use them to your advantage and achieve your desires.
Sagittarius
It is time to get creative! This means busting out your drawing board, paintbrushes and colour palette to make art. Whether it is for professional endeavours or for pleasure, you will be inspired to bring your passions to light
Capricorn
Work is becoming very chaotic at the moment and requires all of your time, but you have the chance to balance out your vibe and not focus on professional endeavours. Find your chill spot and lean into self-care.
Aquarius
You are feeling extra chatty and more able to engage with friends. Word of advice: think before you speak to avoid conflict with others.
Pisces
This week gives you the chance to restart, reboot and get motivated to take on new opportunities. The question is: Are you ready now?
Attention-Deficit or Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is often mistaken for laziness or indiscipline. In consulting rooms across Accra and in reports from school teachers, the pattern repeats: children who are bright but forgetful, parents who feel helpless, teachers who see incompleteness.
Research is clear-Barkley (2015) and others describe ADHD as a difference in the brain’s regulation of alertness, impulse and working memory, not a lack of effort.
The family’s role begins with structure. Regular sleep, predictable meal and homework times, and a simple visual list (uniform → books → water → corridor) provide the external scaffolding these children need. Praise what is completed—“You opened the book and wrote the first sentence”-instead of rebuking what is missing.
Schools can help by seating the child front-row and centre, giving short written plus verbal instructions, allowing brief movement breaks, using quiet nonverbal cues and, where possible, grading effort and method as well as neatness. These adjustments reduce conflict and raise submission rates without lowering standards.
Couples and caregivers should share roles: one grounds, one pivots, and both protect rest. Shame-“bad parenting, bad child”-needs replacing with fact: different wiring, needs scaffolding.
Outcomes improve not by promises of perfection but by daily routines, clear limits and warmed connection. One homework slot kept, one instruction chunked, one calm repair after blurting-these small wins shift the family climate and let the child be seen beyond the label.
Resource
• CPAC (award-winning Mental Health and Counselling Facility): 0559850604 / 0551428486
Source: REV. COUNSELLOR PRINCE OFFEI’s insights on special needs support, relationships, and mental health in Ghana. He is a leading mental health professional, lecturer, ADR Expert/Arbitrator, renowned author, and marriage counsellor at COUNSELLOR PRINCE & ASSOCIATES CONSULT (CPAC COUNSELLOR TRAINING INSTITUTE) – 0551428486 /0559850604.
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