Obaa Yaa
I am fed up with my girlfriend
Dear Obaa Yaa,
My girlfriend and I have dated for five years. Recently, we had a misunderstanding which I admitted I was at fault.
I have personally visited her at home to apologise.
I have gone to her office, sent her whatsApp messages but it seems she has decided not to forgive me.
After the apologies, she is still giving me negative attitudes and ignoring my calls.
My aim for this relationship was to make her my wife but I am confused with her unforgiving heart and attitude.
What should I do?
Daniel Ofosuhene
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Chorkor
Dear Ofosuhene,
Your situation is rather complex. Despite your efforts to reconnect with her, it appears she has moved on and is involved with someone else.
Since the numerous attempts to apologise and reconnect have failed, I suggest you leave her alone and move on with your life.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 35year –old-lady married to a banker. I am a housewife. I am fair in complexion. I got my left hand tattooed sometime last year. I have never had my peace with my husband because he strongly abhors.
In my attempt to get it erased, I have caused a big scar on my hand which has worsened the situation. Sometime ago, your esteemed paper carried a story about how permanent tattoo can be cleared and a location.
May I know whether it is possible to get the scar and tattoo erased, and how much it would cost.
Worried housewife, Prampram.
Dear housewife,
Since I have no idea how wide and deep the scar and tattoo are, it would be difficult for me to have a meaningful discussion with the specialists at the unit.
I suggest that the next time you visit Accra, you pay a visit to any skincare unit and ask what help they can offer.
But until then, do not apply any self-medication. You may also ask your doctor to advise you as if there is any way out for a surgery. All the best.
Dear Obaa Yaa,
Ever since we got married, two years ago, my husband seldom wears his wedding ring except on occasion such as church service, funerals, outdooring and other social gatherings.
For the rest of the week, he goes to work without it. The excuse he gives is that whether he wears the ring to work or not, he is by law married to me.
But I beg to differ. I suspect there is more to it than what he told me. I need your advice on this.
Eno, Ashiaman.
Dear Eno,
Some men don’t like wearing rings; others enjoy it. It is just like how some women like wearing jewellery or large earing while others would rather do away with them.
The fact, however, is that a man can misbehave even when he wears it or not because there are ladies who wouldn’t mind with the ring on.
When he gets back home, he would wear it again. What difference does it make if he doesn’t wear it all?
