Relationship
When the tides change (Pt. 2)
Psst! Psst! Lean in closer… closer! Now listen, silence is golden, or so they say.
But when the Tale Bearer arrives with news from yonder, that golden silence suddenly turns into a shiny distraction you cannot ignore. So here I am, bearing tales from the gods, hot, fresh and ready for your ears!
Have you heard? Wonder Boy’s new status has him soaking wet like a sponge at a waterpark. And, oh boy, is he loving it! Ehem! Now, he is serenading us with a tune that has gotten us laughing and jeering mockingly ‘Johnny Just Come’, Johnny just come. Hehehe!
Who knew the rulers of the mighty kingdom of Umofia are living it up like royalty, while the rest of us are out here playing catch-up with life? Ah, life, the greatest comedian, always leaving us laughing, but with tears in our eyes.
Come to think of it, Umofians, the gods are clearly watching over us and this is their way of saying ‘wake up, Umofians! ‘He who does not see the clouds cannot predict the rain’. Well the clouds are gathering, pay ye heed.
Now, tell me, if our rulers have managed to build themselves a palace in the sky, should we, the children of Umofia, not ask for our fair share of the clouds? Should we not demand our own seat among the stars? Who knows, perhaps soon we shall all be sipping palm wine under the shade, enjoying the breeze together as equals.
Honourable Wonder Boy, if you think you are too small to make a difference, try spending the night with a mosquito. We the Umofians gave you a seat at the table of the rulers to speak on our behalf because we believe in you.
A word to the wise is enough, now show us you are not just another ‘Johnny Just Come, but the one who can stir the pot and serve justice hot! This is your moment, do not let it pass you by!
Tell your people that Umofians gave them the power, they should remember; power is like salt—use it too much, and it will spoil the whole food. Tell them oo, the people can snatch the power back quicker than a hare can outrun a tortoise.
Ah well! My elders always say, “Home affairs are best kept behind closed doors, not shouted from the public square.” So, I shall take my leave now before I turn into the village crier.
Until next time, keep your ears open.
With Eyram, the Tale bearer.
Relationship
The power of shared hobbies: how common interests can strengthen relationships and marriages
In today’s fast-paced world, relationships and marriages can be put to the test. With the demands of work, family, and social obligations, it is easy to lose sight of what brought us together in the first place.
However, research has shown that shared hobbies and interests can play a significant role in strengthening relationships and marriages.
In this article, we will explore the benefits of shared hobbies and provide tips on how to incorporate them into your relationship.
Shared hobbies can include dancing, cooking, painting or drawing, travelling, gardening, hiking, learning to play a musical instrument, photography, writing, baking, swimming, language learning, attending concerts or special events, and volunteering.
Shared hobbies and interests can bring numerous benefits to a relationship. For one, they provide a common ground for couples to connect and bond over.
When both partners are passionate about the same activity, it creates a sense of unity and togetherness. Shared hobbies can also help to:
• Reduce stress and anxiety: Engaging in a shared hobby can be a great way to unwind and relax together.
• Improve communication: Working on a project or activity together can foster communication and teamwork.
• Increase intimacy: Sharing a hobby can create a sense of closeness and intimacy, bringing couples closer together.
Take, for example, a couple who shares a love of cooking. They might enjoy trying out new recipes together, experimenting with different flavors and ingredients. Not only does this provide a fun and creative outlet, but it also allows them to spend quality time together.
Another example is a couple who shares a passion for travelling. They might enjoy exploring new places and taking in the breathtaking views together. This shared activity can create a sense of adventure and excitement, bringing them closer together.
If you are looking to incorporate shared hobbies into your relationship, here are a few tips to get you started:
• Find common ground: Identify activities or hobbies that you both enjoy, or try something new together.
• Schedule time: Make time for your shared hobby, whether it is a weekly dinner date or a monthly music concert.
• Be supportive: Encourage and support each other’s passions and interests.
In conclusion, shared hobbies and interests can play a significant role in strengthening relationships and marriages. By finding common ground and engaging in activities together, couples can build a deeper connection and create lasting memories. Whether it is cooking, special concerts, photography, or painting, shared hobbies can bring numerous benefits to a relationship. So why not try something new today and see how it can bring you and your partner closer together?
As the saying goes, “A happy marriage is a union of two good forgivers.” By sharing hobbies and interests, couples can build a stronger, more resilient relationship that will last a lifetime. So take the first step today and discover the power of shared hobbies in strengthening your relationship.
To be continued …
Source: Excerpts from “COURTSHIP MATTERS: Keys to a Fulfilling Lasting Marriage” Book by REV. COUNSELOR PRINCE OFFEI (Lecturer, Published Author, and Marriage Counsellor).
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By Counselor Prince Offei
Relationship
Balancing professional goals and relationship expectations
In today’s fast-paced world, juggling a demanding career and a fulfilling relationship has become a significant challenge for many individuals.
The strain of professional life can often encroach on personal relationships, leading to stress, conflict, and potentially even the breakdown of the relationship.
However, with careful planning, open communication, and mutual support, it is possible to navigate these challenges and cultivate a healthy work-life synergy.
The challenges of balancing
career and love
One of the primary challenges of managing a career and a relationship is the competing demands on time and energy.
A demanding profession can require long hours, frequent travel, and high levels of stress, leaving little time or energy for a romantic partnership. This can lead to feelings of neglect, resentment, and frustration in the partner who feels overlooked. Furthermore, differing priorities and expectations can also create tension in the relationship.
For instance, one partner may prioritise career advancement and financial stability, while the other may value family and relationships above all else.
Strategies for harmony
So, how can individuals cultivate a harmonious balance between their professional and personal lives?
Here are some strategies that can help:
1. Effective communication: Open and honest communication is the foundation of any successful relationship. By sharing career goals, expectations, and needs with your partner, you can prevent misunderstandings and ensure that both partners are on the same page.
2. Boundary-setting: Establishing clear boundaries between work and personal life is essential to maintaining a healthy balance. Prioritise quality time with your partner and learn to say “no” to demands that encroach on personal time.
3. Quality time: Spending quality time with your partner is vital to nurturing a strong and healthy relationship. Whether it is a romantic getaway, a quiet evening at home, or a fun activity, make time for your partner and prioritise your relationship.
4. Mutual support: Supporting each other’s goals and aspirations is critical to a successful partnership. Encourage and support your partner’s career ambitions, even if they differ from your own.
5. Seeking help: Finally, do not be afraid to seek help when needed. Whether it is couples therapy, career coaching, or simply talking to a trusted friend or family member, seeking support can provide valuable guidance and relief.
The rewards of synergy
When individuals successfully navigate the challenges of managing their career and relationship, they can experience numerous benefits, including:
1. Increased fulfillment: A healthy work-life balance can lead to increased satisfaction and fulfillment in both personal and professional life.
2. Deeper connection: Effective communication and mutual support can foster a deeper connection and stronger bond between partners.
3. Improved productivity: By prioritising time and energy, individuals can become more productive and efficient in both their personal and professional lives.
4. Resilience: A strong and supportive partnership can provide a sense of security and resilience, helping individuals navigate life’s challenges with greater ease.
In conclusion, cultivating a harmonious balance between career and relationship requires effort, commitment, and a willingness to adapt and grow together.
By prioritising effective communication, boundary-setting, and mutual support, couples can build a strong and resilient partnership that supports their personal and professional aspirations.
To be continued …
Source: Excerpts from “COURTSHIP MATTERS: Keys to a Fulfilling Lasting Marriage” Book by REV. COUNSELOR PRINCE OFFEI (Lecturer, Published Author, and Marriage Counsellor).
ORDER BOOK NOW:
https://princeoffei22. wixsite.com/author https://counselorprinceass. wixsite.com/edu-counseling-psych https:// princeoffei22.wixsite.com/ website
COUNSELOR PRINCE & ASSOCIATES CONSULT (CPAC COUNSELLOR TRAINING INSTITUTE)
By Counselor Prince Offei
