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Signs you’ve found the partner you really deserve

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Some people spend a long time trying to find love but others, too, do not wait so long to discover a soul mate. Irrespective of whatever time it takes, it is important that we do not take the love for granted when we eventually find one.
However, it is sometimes difficult to make a distinction over whether or not a partner is truly the kind of person we deserve.
This article highlights a few indicators that the lady or gentleman you’ve found is the one you deserve to spend the rest of your life with.
Affection: A true partner makes sure you know that he loves you regardless of what day it is. He or she would always put in the effort necessary to make you understand how important you are. He or she does not need a special occasion to remind you of how much you’re loved.
Attention to details: Your partner leaves you a lot of little love notes very often. This might seem like something so simple and easy. But the effort that he or she puts into it is really what matters. It just goes to show that he’s or she’s someone who values the little things.
Shows vulnerability: The right partner goes out of the way to make sure that you know how much he or she misses you. Your partner calls you even for the simple reason of wanting to hear your voice. He or she is not afraid of showing that kind of vulnerability towards you.
Transparent: Your partner does not shy away from opening up about his or her feelings to you. He or she does not care what people say when they express their feeling towards you. A well-deserved partner is transparent. He or she never hides anything from you at all.
Respect: The partner you truly deserve respects you and other people around you. He or she is not rude to close family relations or other important people in your life. Both the gentleman and lady would respect the women and men around you. This is also another signal that he or she is the one ‘made for you’.
Humble: The man or woman you deserve does not brag about their past relationship, if any. He or she only talks about it whenever you try to ask about his or her romantic history. And whenever he or she does talk about them, they remain respectful. A true partner does not make it seem he or she is holding any ill feelings or bitterness from a previous relationship.
Supportive: A well-deserved partner supports the professional goals that you might have for yourself. He or she acknowledges that you are a person of substance and that you’re not content with just living a life of mere mediocrity. He or she would honour the fact that you have a career or personal development path that you want to follow.
Seeks advice: He or she values your opinion and makes sure that you are heard and appreciated. A true partner seeks your advice on various issues. He or she does not leave you on the sidelines but would always ask for input and make you feel included.
Sensitive: Whenever he or she disagrees with you, it is done in a peaceful and graceful manner. He or she would take a sensitive approach to manage conflicts with you.
Appreciative: A well-deserved partner is insanely attracted to you. He or she makes you feel that you are not taken for granted. A true partner makes sure you are validated.
Confident: A true partner would always want to show you off to the world. He or she is not ashamed of you. He or she would never do anything to make you feel less confident of yourself. He or she is always proud to be with you.
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Tain residents in shock as husband allegedly kills wife, commits suicide
Residents of Brodi, a farming community in the Tain District of the Bono Region, have been left in shock and mourning following the alleged murder of a 45-year-old woman by her husband, who later died by suicide.
According to information gathered by the Ghana News Agency (GNA), the suspect, popularly known as Kwabena Jack, believed to be in his 50s, allegedly attacked and killed his wife, Abena Donkor, while the couple were working on their farm on Monday, August 11, 2026.
Mr Kingsley Obah, Assembly Member for the Brodi Electoral Area, confirmed the incident to the GNA.
He explained that after news of the woman’s death spread through the community, residents launched a search for the suspect. His lifeless body was later discovered in a nearby bush on Tuesday, August 12, 2026.
Police have since conveyed both bodies to the Tain District Government Hospital, where they have been deposited for preservation and autopsy.
Investigations into the incident are ongoing. -GNA
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Chaos at Madina REDCO… Hawkers, preachers take over footbridge

Hawkers and roaming preachers have taken over the five-metre high Madina REDCO footbridge and adjoining streets, making it increasingly difficult for pedestrians to use the facility intended to promote safe road crossing.
The traders have virtually turned sections of the footbridge into a marketplace, displaying their wares on the floor using jute sacks, plastic sheets and metal trays, while others have occupied both sides of the walkway with their merchandise.
Foodstuffs such as okro, garden eggs, pepper, onions, dried fish, smoked fish, grains, spices and other groceries are openly sold on the footbridge and along the roadside, forcing pedestrians to weave through the crowded path.
Clothing and fashion accessories including slippers, brassieres, panties, socks, bags and other household items are also displayed for sale, leaving only limited space for commuters to use.
The situation is worsened by the presence of itinerant preachers who position themselves on the footbridge with public address systems to evangelise, drawing crowds to further obstruct pedestrian movement.
Head porters are also seen crossing the highway through the median while carrying heavy loads instead of using the footbridge, exposing themselves to the danger of being knocked down by speeding vehicles.
Also, portions of the footbridge are showing signs of deterioration. Several metal railings are rusted, bent and loosely secured with pieces of wire, raising concerns about the safety of users, especially children, the elderly and persons with disabilities.
Sections of the concrete surface are worn and chipped, while makeshift wooden supports attached to parts of the structure suggest temporary repairs.
After a visit by The Spectator last week, it emerged that many commuters preferred crossing the busy Madina Highway instead of using the footbridge because of the congestion created by the trading and preaching activities.
For years, successive attempts by the police, the military and the La Nkwantanang Madina Municipal Assembly to address congestion around the REDCO and Zongo Junction enclave have yielded little success, with the area becoming notorious for roadside trading, indiscriminate parking and pedestrians refusing to use the footbridge.
A pedestrian, who gave her name only as Maame Yaa, described the situation as worrying, saying the footbridge, which was constructed to protect lives, had gradually lost its purpose because of the growing encroachment by traders and preachers.
According to her, many pedestrians were discouraged from using the facility because navigating through the crowded walkway had become difficult and uncomfortable.
She appealed to the La Nkwantanang Madina Municipal Assembly and other relevant authorities to intensify enforcement to prevent unauthorised trading and other activities on the footbridge and ensure it served its intended purpose of promoting pedestrian safety.
However, during the visit, personnel of the Ghana National Fire Service (GNFS) were seen carrying out a decongestion exercise to remove hawkers from sections of the roadside around the footbridge as part of efforts to improve public safety and ease the movement of both pedestrians and motorists.
The exercise forms part of a pilot project initiated by the Municipal Fire Commander for Madina, Division Officer II (DO II) Abdul Salia, who assumed command of the Madina Municipal Fire Station three months ago.
Speaking in an interview with The Spectator, DO II Abdulai Salia, who is also a long time resident of the community, said the month long project began on July 1 and ended on July 31, with 30 firefighters deployed daily to regulate traffic, clear hawkers from the streets and footbridge, and create access for emergency vehicles.
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By Esinam Jemima Kuatsinu




