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New Year 2024: 8 Relationship resolutions to spice up your romantic life
As we approach a new year, it is the perfect time to bridge the gaps, invest in your relationships, infusing them with more moments of joy and connection.
It is the perfect opportunity for a fresh start and a renewed perspective on life. Among the areas that deserve your utmost attention is your relationships.
Relationships takes centre stage, considering the fact that it is the foundation of a happy and fulfilling life.
Here are some resolutions for a livelier and fulfilling relationship with your partner
1 PRIORITIZE QUALITY TIME
In an age of digital distraction, giving your partner your undivided attention is critical. Commit to spending meaningful time together without being distracted by cell phones, work emails, or social media. Commit to making lasting memories that will enhance your bond, whether a nice night in with a home-cooked meal or an outdoor trip.
2. COMMUNICATION
Effective communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship. Resolve to improve your communication abilities this year. This implies talking more and entails actively listening, being open and honest, and expressing your feelings constructively. Make time for regular check-ins to discuss your views, problems, and future goals.
3. EMBRACE NOVEL EXPERIENCES
Try new activities together to add spice to your relationship. Whether it is a cooking class, a new pastime, or a spontaneous weekend getaway, the excitement of sharing novel experiences can renew the spark in your relationship. Make a list of activities you wish to attempt and commit to crossing them off during the year.
4. ENCOURAGE INDIVIDUAL PROGRESS
While shared experiences are crucial, it is also important to encourage each other’s progress. Encourage your partner to explore their interests and set personal objectives. Individual development not only benefits your partner’s well-being, but it also adds new energy and zest to your relationship.
5. ENHANCE INTIMACY
Intimacy is essential to every romantic connection. Resolve this year to explore and diversify your intimate encounters. Experiment with new techniques, share desires or surprise your partner in bed. A more gratifying relationship might result from an open conversation about your needs and preferences.
6. ESTABLISH HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
Mutual respect and understanding are essential for healthy relationships. Set clear and healthy limits so both partners feel at ease and valued. Respecting each other’s personal space, being aware of individual needs, and talking freely about expectations are all part of this.
7. PRACTICE GRATITUDE
It’s easy to take your partner for granted amid daily life. Make it a point to express thankfulness regularly. Recognizing and appreciating your partner’s contributions to the relationship, whether through simple verbal acknowledgements, handwritten notes, or thoughtful gestures, can help to establish a healthy and loving environment.
8. RE-EVALUATE RELATIONSHIP GOALS
As people change, so do their relationships. Take the time to reconsider and reassess your relationship objectives. Are you both on the same page regarding your future together? Do you have similar goals and dreams? Reflecting on these issues and sharing your relationship vision will assist in guaranteeing that you’re both on the same page.
Muslims across the country celebrated this year’s Eid-ul-Adha in a colourful and spiritually uplifting atmosphere under the theme, “A Season of Sacrifice, Solidarity and Spiritual Renewal.”
The celebration brought together Muslims from diverse backgrounds in a remarkable display of faith, unity and cultural heritage.
The occasion was marked by special Eid prayers at various designated grounds, the slaughtering of rams in homes for sharing among family members, friends and the less privileged, as well as musical concerts and recreational activities including horse riding.
Leading the celebration was the Chief Imam, Dr Sheikh Osman Sharubutu.
While the national celebration was held at the Black Star Square where President John Dramani Mahama was the Special Guest of Honour, similar gatherings took place at different centres across the capital and other regions of the country.
A visit by The Spectator to some celebration grounds revealed Muslims, both young and old, elegantly dressed in colourful jalabiya and other Islamic attire, reflecting the rich culture and traditions of the Muslim community.
The celebration also portrayed the spirit of religious tolerance and peaceful coexistence in the country, as a number of Christians joined their Muslim counterparts to mark the occasion.
Muslim leaders and government officials used the opportunity to call on the faithful to uphold the teachings of the Holy Quran, renew their spiritual commitment and refrain from acts capable of undermining the peace, unity and security of the nation.
They further urged Ghanaians to continue to live in harmony and support one another for national development.
By Linda Abrefi Wadie
Dear Obaa Yaa,
During Eid-ul- Adha celebration, I decided to spend the weekend at my boyfriend’s place since we were planning towards our marriage.
To my surprise, what keeps me wide awake, restless and frustrated every single time is that he snores loudly like a generator running on full power, and I genuinely cannot get any rest
At a point, I thought it was just a normal thing, but I have realised it is something he does with ease and doesn’t see anything wrong with it.
When he steps out in the morning, I try to get enough sleep because I may not sleep in the evening.
The most annoying thing is that, he always wants to cuddle me. These two things are a no for me and a red flag.
We are about to get married, what should I do?
Enam, Keta.
Dear Enam,
The snoring and constant cuddling are frustrating, but you don’t have to choose between sleep and closeness.
Start with the snoring: check if it’s worse when he sleeps on his back, cut out alcohol before bed, try nasal strips or a humidifier, and see a doctor if he pauses while breathing.
For quick relief, foam earplugs or noise-cancelling headphones help a lot.
Separate blankets, a bigger bed, or sleeping apart on some nights often makes couples rest well and feel closer overall.
Bring this up before the wedding .Tell him you want to wake up next to him for years to come, but sleep deprivation makes you both miserable.
Test earplugs and side-sleeping this weekend, and if it’s still unbearable, bring in a doctor. Good sleep matters more for your marriage than staying glued together all night.
