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Relocating – Living abroad A personal experience

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My first attempt at moving from Ghana my home country to live as an Expatriate in Papua New Guinea was in 1981. It was to take nine years for me to take that position as a Tourism Lecturer in Lae Technical College, Lae Papua New Guinea.
Yes, for some of us the decision to move from our land of origin to live in foreign lands comes after great consideration and preparation.
The psychologists will explain one’s travel patterns and there may indeed be much credit to their travel behavioural analysis as the word ‘wanderlust’ resonates with what perhaps led me to a South Pacific island.
In our geography lessons in 1974, I had been fascinated by the teacher’s explanation of Borneo as a tropical country. In my Ghanaian teenage-world then, I’d known only Africa, and oh yes, parts of South America as the places on earth with sunshine all year round; Europe, North America and all other parts of the world were different in the four seasons they had in a year. They were ‘cold countries’ to which my parents, their friends and other members of the family had returned to from their studies.
The ‘coldness’ of England had been confirmed when I had the opportunity to visit London for two weeks before going on to secondary school. I had not liked the cold much, neither had I enjoyed being indoors for most of the time with the cousins I’d stayed with.
The living style of the people in Borneo in my mind’s eye as Miss Owusu of blessed memory went through those Geography lessons where the people of Borneo lived the outdoor life as I knew it in Ghana was very appealing.
Seriously tucked away somewhere in my sub-consciousness was a deep imprint of a big factor that was to decide where else I could live should I at any time decide to leave Ghana for abroad. This, added to gaining the most in terms of economic fulfilment made the choice of Papua New Guinea where a childhood friend had relocated with her husband, a very alluring one.
I needed a place to give me not just a head up in the static economic situation most newly-graduated Ghanaians are familiar with, but also an outdoor lifestyle that would give me warmth internally and externally.
Other sunny beautiful places in the South Pacific were no options because of a lingua franca problem. I transact official businesses in English!
Nine years; understandably a long time but a time that saw a sustained journey of academic and skills preparation; of a maturity of my tenacity of purpose; a journey which also meant I now had the added responsibility of getting two young sons ready for a long journey far from home, school and church.
When one decides to travel into a 10-hour time zone from their original place of abode, a country that exists only in the history and geography lessons of family members, there is the added challenge of getting elders of the family on whose guidance and mentoring one has depended or hitherto buy into the whole idea.
These are no mean ‘elders of the family’ as is known in Ghanaian society-the uncles who turn up with a list of bride price nor are they those whom one meets only on funeral occasions at the village.
The ‘elders of family’ in this wise were uncles and aunties in the city who have great knowledge about ‘abrokyire’ – countries of the great beyond – the UK, U.S.A. and other such places; not places in the South Pacific!
So it was that their nod in such a venture was very vital.
Needless to say, there were overt and covert deeds and words of discouragement that eventually changed to prayers for the welfare of my children and I, when it dawned on everyone nothing could change my mind.
Having acquired the necessary skills, academic advancement and experience in the industry of my choice; and having also researched for and laid hands on pictures of anything positive from Papua New Guinea to get my sons excited, I set about voicing my intentions of gaining employment in my ‘dream country’ to any and every one.
A colleague at work picked it up, introduced me to Ghanaian Expatriates on Christmas holidays from Papua New Guinea in 1995 and before anybody could discount this dream of mine further, my very young sons and I were on our way from Accra through London, Hong Kong and finally arriving in Port Moresby on April 11,1996!
That is almost 28 years ago…..
As I listen to the elder of those two young sons I embarked on this journey with steps to relocate, I find my inner self smile.
A smile that means it may have been all worth it if he indeed sees that experience as having impacted his life positively enough to warrant him tread a similar path.
My chats with him informs me he’s done his homework well. Being a Mentor, I’ve had to add a few. The Expatriate life has a ‘shelf life’ and one needs to ‘know when to hold them’ and ‘….. when to fold them.’
One needs to research the terms of their contract vis-à-vis what other conditions of service, and pension pot contributions they would have had to work with back in their home of origin.
Completing mortgage payments, issues surrounding children’s education in higher institutions, changes in syllabus etc; simply a return from dreamland to reality so to say.
Above all, ensuring the baton of broadening horizons in forms that may not necessarily be exclusive to a relocating, is handed over to the next generation.
By Dzigbordi B-A
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Confronting newborn abandonment in Ghana: when a cry for help is heard in a dustbin- Part 1

“A woman who abandons her baby in a dustbin at Kasoa Lorry Station is not always a wicked woman. Sometimes, she is a wounded woman whose mind has broken, whose family has rejected her, and whose society has left her with only one terrible option: disappear or be disgraced.”
That is the hard truth Ghana must hear.
In the last 10 days alone, our nation has been confronted with the same painful headline, twice.
Case 1 – Kasoa Main Lorry Station, Central Region: A newborn baby girl was found abandoned inside a dustbin at the public toilet of the Kasoa Main Station. A woman who went to use the facility discovered the infant and raised an alarm. Commercial drivers and bystanders quickly retrieved the baby and rushed her to the Kasoa Polyclinic for emergency medical care.
Case 2 – Asante Bekwai, Ashanti Region: On Thursday morning, August 20, 2026, a two-week-old neonate was reportedly abandoned by an unknown nursing mother at Bekwai in the Ashanti Region. Residents who came across the child raised the alarm. The baby was admitted to the Bekwai Government Hospital as police commenced investigations.
Let me be clear from the start: Newborn abandonment is wrong. It is dangerous. It is criminal. And it can kill. This article does not excuse it. But if we only arrest and shame, we will never stop it. We must treat the root, not just punish the fruit.
What exactly is newborn abandonment? – The two definitions
The Legal Definition: Under Ghana’s Criminal Offences Act, 1960 (Act 29), Section 96, and the Children’s Act, 1998 (Act 560), abandonment of a child under 12 years is a criminal offence. It is classified as exposure and abandonment, punishable as a misdemeanor or felony. The law sees the mother as a perpetrator.
The Psychological definition: In clinical textbooks, newborn abandonment is defined as the intentional, permanent relinquishment of all parental rights, care, and responsibilities over an infant within the first 28 days of life without making formal, legal arrangements for care.
To understand this crisis properly, we must not confuse it with child abandonment. Newborn abandonment happens within 0-28 days of life, often driven by acute panic, denial of pregnancy, or postpartum psychosis where the attachment bond never formed. Child abandonment, on the other hand, involves toddlers to teenagers where a bond existed but collapsed over time due to chronic poverty, family breakdown, or parental burnout. One is an acute crisis of the first month; the other is a chronic breakdown over years. Both are harmful, but they need different interventions.
Psychologically, newborn abandonment is the ultimate rupture of the primary attachment bond. Think of a 19-year-old university student who secretly gives birth alone in her hostel room, wraps the crying baby in a polythene bag, and drops it at a refuse dump at midnight. That is not just a crime scene; it is a scene of extreme panic and psychological dissociation.
Why would a mother carry a baby for 9 months and then abandon it?
This is the question every Ghanaian asks. If you wanted to abandon it, why not abort? The answer is deeply psychological:
1. The psychodynamics of denial of pregnancy: This is a profound defense mechanism, not a lie. The mother’s subconscious mind completely rejects the reality of the pregnancy. She does not gain weight normally, feels no kicks, does not seek antenatal care, and genuinely convinces herself she is not pregnant until sudden, shocking labour pains take her by surprise in a toilet or bedroom.
2. Fantasy of a dissolving problem: This is called cognitive avoidance. She believes “my boyfriend will come back,” “my mother will forgive me,” or “something miraculous will happen before birth.” So she waits, paralyzed, until the baby is here.
3. Barriers to safe abortion: Deep religious guilt, moral anxiety, fear of dying from a back-alley abortion, lack of money for a safe procedure, and family laws force her to carry to term even when she feels incapable.
4. The shock of reality and acute panic: Upon delivery, the physical presence and crying of the newborn shatters all denial. Confronted with immediate exposure, shame, and reality, her brain enters a trauma response — “fight, flight, or freeze.” For many, it becomes “flight” — physically escape the threat of exposure to survive socially. That is why babies are left in places where others will find them -lorry stations, churches, hospitals.
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Counselor Prince Offei, CPAC’s founder, is a leading Mental Health Professional, Marriage Counsellor, Author, ADR Expert/Arbitrator, and Spectator Newspaper Columnist. He writes on relationships, marriage, parenting, special needs support, and their connection to mental health. For therapy, counselling, or enquiries, contact Counselor Prince & Associates Consult (CPAC) in Accra on 0559850604 / 0551428486.
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Environmental stewardship is an act of worship: The Islamic response to climate change, environmental degradation (Part 4)
The environmental consequences of illegal mining have reached alarming levels in Ghana. Several major rivers, including the Pra, Ankobra, Offin, Birim and Tano, have experienced significant pollution from illegal mining activities, increasing the cost and complexity of water treatment while threatening the availability of potable water for millions of citizens (Water Resources Commission, 2024; Ghana Water Limited, 2024). These developments underscore the urgent need for stronger environmental governance and collective action.
Islam equally emphasises accountability in governance. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught that every leader is responsible for those under his or her authority (Sahih al-Bukhari, Hadith 7138; Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1829). This principle extends to public officials entrusted with environmental regulation, traditional authorities responsible for communal lands, mining companies, local assemblies, and community leaders. Environmental protection cannot succeed
where accountability is absent.
At the same time, addressing galamsey requires more than law enforcement. Sustainable solutions must tackle the underlying socio-economic realities that drive individuals into illegal mining. Many young people are motivated by unemployment, poverty, and limited economic opportunities. Islamic principles of social justice therefore call for the creation of alternative livelihoods through sustainable agriculture, vocational training, responsible small-scale mining under strict environmental standards, entrepreneurship, and skills development. Environmental protection and economic empowerment should not be viewed as competing priorities but as complementary goals that promote human dignity and national development.
Faith communities also have an indispensable role to play. Mosques, churches, schools, traditional councils, and civil society organisations possess significant influence in shaping public attitudes and behaviours. Imams, in particular, should consistently remind congregations that wealth acquired through actions that destroy communities and Allah’s creation cannot be regarded as a blessing. Religious education should cultivate environmental ethics alongside spiritual devotion, reinforcing the understanding that protecting rivers, forests, and farmlands is an expression of gratitude to Allah and a fulfilment of the trust of Khalifah.
Ultimately, the struggle against galamsey is more than a campaign to protect natural resources; it is a struggle to uphold justice, preserve human dignity, and honour the trust that Allah has placed upon humanity. Lasting solutions will require strong governance, responsible citizenship, sustainable economic opportunities, and renewed moral leadership. Only when these elements
work together can Ghana safeguard its natural heritage for present and future generations.
Water conservation, waste management and sustainable development: Practical expressions of Islamic stewardship
Religious education should cultivate environmental ethics alongside spiritual devotion, reinforcing the understanding that protecting rivers, forests, and farmlands is an expression of gratitude to Allah and a fulfilment of the trust of Khalifah.
Ultimately, the struggle against galamsey is more than a campaign to protect natural resources; it is a struggle to uphold justice, preserve human dignity, and honour the trust that Allah has placed upon humanity. Lasting solutions will require strong governance, responsible citizenship, sustainable economic opportunities, and renewed moral leadership. Only when these elements
work together can Ghana safeguard its natural heritage for present and future generations.
Islam is not merely a religion that condemns environmental destruction; it also provides practical guidance for preserving and sustaining the natural world. Through its teachings on moderation, cleanliness, conservation, and responsible consumption, Islam cultivates an environmental ethic that remains remarkably relevant to contemporary challenges such as water scarcity, pollution, waste management, and climate change. These teachings encourage Muslims to become
responsible custodians of Allah’s creation in both private and public life.
Water conservation: A sacred responsibility
Water occupies a unique position in Islam as the source of life and an essential element of worship. Allah says, “And We made from water every living thing. Then will they not believe?” (Qur’an 21:30, Sahih International). This verse reminds believers that water is not merely an economic resource but a divine blessing upon which all living creatures depend. The importance of water is further reflected in Islamic acts of worship. Muslims perform ablution (wudu) before the five daily prayers and ritual bathing (ghusl) under prescribed circumstances.
Yet, despite its central role in purification, Islam strongly discourages wastefulness. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) once advised one of his companions not to waste water while performing ablution, even when using water from a flowing river (Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith 425). This timeless guidance establishes the principle that abundance does not justify extravagance.
Conservation remains a religious obligation regardless of the apparent availability of natural resources.
This Prophetic teaching carries profound implications for contemporary Ghana. Illegal mining has severely polluted many rivers, increasing the cost of water treatment and limiting access to safe drinking water for numerous communities. Climate change has also intensified seasonal variability in rainfall, placing additional pressure on freshwater resources (IPCC, 2023). Against this
backdrop, conserving water is no longer simply an environmental preference—it is a moral imperative grounded in Islamic teaching.
Water conservation should therefore become a shared responsibility among households, educational institutions, industries, and places of worship. Simple practices such as repairing leaking pipes, harvesting rainwater, protecting riverbanks, avoiding contamination of water bodies, and promoting efficient irrigation contribute to safeguarding one of Allah’s greatest blessings. Every effort to preserve water is an investment in public health, food security, and the
wellbeing of future generations.
Unfortunately, indiscriminate disposal of refuse remains a significant challenge in many communities. Plastic waste clogs drainage systems, contributes to flooding during the rainy season, pollutes rivers and beaches, and threatens marine ecosystems. Open burning of waste further degrades air quality and poses serious health risks, particularly for children and the elderly (UNEP,2024).
The author is Chief Imam of Katamanso Municipal and Certified Counsellor and Governnace Expert.
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