Ways to maintain a long distance relationship

 Long-distance relationships can be intimidating, but they do not have to be. Whether with friends or a romantic partner, distance does not need to define your relationship.

The most important part of maintaining a healthy long-distance relationship is remembering to prior­itise your needs and boundaries. By keeping these tips in mind, manag­ing a long-distance situation can be a positive experience for everyone involved.

• Set aside time for daily or week­ly check-ins

By establishing regular times for communication from the get-go, you and your friend or partner will be on the same page about how often you expect to hear from one another. Also remember, keep in mind the quality of your conversations. If you are re often arguing or you finish the majority of your interactions feeling unsatisfied or unhappy, it is time to re-evaluate if the relationship is still a positive one.

• Write letter or send surprise care packages

Taking the time to exchange let­ters with your loved one is a special way to enhance your connection and provide comfort and support.

The time it takes to write and mail a letter demonstrates to your friend or partner that you want to go the extra mile to show them you are thinking about them.

• Try a weekly video call

Even if you feel nervous about the idea of facetime or having a video chat, this type of communication can make you feel a bit closer to your friend or partner.

Prioritise setting boundaries for yourself, and ask your partner about their boundaries as well. If you find that your partner is often pushing you to have a video call so they can see where you are, that could be a red flag.

• Make sure to ground yourself in your daily life

Sometimes in a long-distance relationship, it is easy to get wrapped up in thinking about how far away you are, how much you miss the person, and how tough it can be.

The best way to avoid feeling sad or worried is by being present in your life and with the people in it. Outside of your daily responsibilities, make sure to stay connected to the friends and family near you.

If you do not know many people where you are, the best way to do that is by joining a club, volunteering at a non-profit you are passionate about, or joining a sport or exercise class that you enjoy.

• Make plans for the next time you will see each other

One of the best ways to feel better about the distance is by planning a fu­ture trip and talking about all the fun things you can do together the next time you see each other in person.

Remember, only commit to what is feasible for you, and what will not detract from daily life.