They said the carpenter is not a good match

Dear Obaa Yaa,

As a University graduate from the prestigious University of Ghana currently doing my National Service in a very great institution, I am dating a carpenter who barely completed his Junior High School.

I love him, and I don’t see any prob­lem dating him but my sisters are against it.

I started dating him when I was in my third year, he is caring, free spirit and kind.

My sisters are saying he is not a good match for me and he will block my chances in future.

He’s even demanding to go see my parents.

Please what should I do?

Miriam,North Legon

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Dear Miriam,

I can see the love for your boyfriend is deep. I pray the two of you will be in this boat forever.

Love does not show class, level etc. It’s about two matured people who have decided to build a family together.

In your letter, you mentioned that your sisters were against you marrying the carpenter. They are looking at your boyfriend’s background and occupation.

If you really love him, you can help him to register for courses in order to up­grade his schooling and make his business very attractive.

I know there are men who are inter­ested in you as well. But don’t let that get into your head. Take your time and study all of them because marriage is a long journey.

Take him to your parents as well, they might even like him.