She has set spies on me

 Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am a Christian brother of one of the churches in Accra. I am 28 and she is 22 and an apprentice in a salon.

Both of us attend the same church and we have finally decided to tie the knot.

She is been catered for by her two brothers who considers her to be too young for marriage.

Both brothers asked me to stay away from their sister because she is still young and has a long way to go.

I confronted her about the actions of his brothers. Her response was that we should end the relationship.

She told me point blank to find anoth­er woman and marry because her two brothers were against the marriage.

Ironically, she has set spies on me, telling my friends she will cause trouble if I don’t marry her.

Barima

Kofrom,

Dear Barima,

Are you prepared mentally, emotion­ally and financially to get married this year or you are getting married because of pressure from family?

Your former girlfriend is obviously hurt and still loves you that is why she has set spies on you.

But I must say her approach was wrong and immature.

I suggest you approach one of the marriage counsellors in your church and ask them to advise you and resolve the uneasiness between you and your former girlfriend.