She changed after admission to Legon

 Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am a banker working with one of the prestigious banking sectors in Ghana. In 2020, I met a very pretty young lady who had just completed her secondary education and was preparing to proceed to the Universi­ty of Ghana Legon.

Prior to her entry into Legon, I proposed love to her and she gave in later but on condition that we did not engage in any sexual activity until we are ready to marry.

I fully complied with it and for over two years, we never had sex. In 2023 she finally gained admission into Legon and after three months on campus she started showing signs of disinterest in me, though she has sworn to me that she will never disappoint me in life.

When I demanded to know where I have wronged her, she could not say anything tangible to me. I have done all things to get her attention back but it seems, she has already made up her mind.

After sometime, I also decided to stay away from her though, I did not intend to call it quits until when she got to the second year when we met again and told her of the pain I had gone through.

She sounded encouraging, so we started through to the final year. My problem is that anytime this lady got out of my life, I find it difficult to meet another partner comparable to her. I still love her, what should I do?

Darko, Mankessim.

Dear Darko,

When it comes to love people take it on a smooth journey, others are not lucky.

From the look of things, I can tell that your girlfriend is no more inter­ested in the relationship. She might have another suitor at school.

You made it known to me that you still love her and you want to make her your wife.

In my opinion, if she continues to give you attitude and pretend you don’t exist, kindly walk away for your peace and sanity.

You made a statement that, it is difficult to get a suitor just as your girlfriend. My advice to you is that, don’t rush, relax and give yourself some time to heal. You will defi­nitely find a suitor who will give you peace and love.