My baby daddy has abandon me

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am a 25-year old lady expect­ing my first child. Meanwhile the father of the child says he does not want me anymore and is about to marry another woman.

Anytime I approach this man for money, he insults me and threatens to beat me up.

This man has a good job but has not supported me since he got me pregnant. He has made me so sad and ashamed to the extent that I cannot continue with my life.

I need your help badly.

Joyce,

Korle Bu.

Dear Joyce,

I AM so sorry you are going through this. Being abandoned by your baby’s daddy is pain­ful and can leave you betrayed.

This is a difficult situation but there are steps you can take to protect yourself and your child emotionally, legally and financially.

Kindly get your parents involved in this matter and consult the man’s family.

But if your parents will not intervene because they feel ashamed and angry with you, then see another elderly family member who can give you emo­tional support and counselling.

This person can see the man’s family on your behalf to remind them of his responsibil­ities to you.

Always remind yourself that his actions are reflection of him not you. Be strong for your unborn child.