They planned to take my girl

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I AM 18 years old and she is also 18 years.
We have been lovers for the past two years.

I have a friend who knew about our relationship. This best friend of mine came home from school with his friend with the intention of giving him a girlfriend from his hometown.

This best friend of mine introduced my girlfriend to him and when I returned from school I was told about this sad issue.

I asked the girl and she replied negatively for several times. I was then advised by my friend to stop asking her about it.

For the second time my friend came with the same boy, but this time, I was there and in fact I really saw what happened and it was too horrifying.

Obaa Yaa, I made my mind to fight both boys but I later changed my mind.
She is very supportive and assists me with some of my needs in school.

What should I do, Obaa Yaa? She has still been visiting me but I’m worried.
O. D. Kennedy, Koforidua-E/R

Dear Kennedy,

I DOUBT if the person you claim to be your best friend is indeed a friend at all.
Why didn’t you confront him about this?

In any case, you don’t have to worry about her being snatched because it appears she loves you.

The only problem is that you are being over-anxious about the situation and feeling jealous.

For the time being, if you claim the boy trying to give out your girl is your best friend, then confront him and ask him to stop being treacherous — but don’t fight him.