She came into my bathroom

Dear Obaa Yaa,

MY wife is a trader. She travels frequently to a neighbouring country almost every two weeks for two days.

While she was away, her step-sister comes over to do some cooking for me.

I have noticed that her step-sister has been making advances at me.

Recently, she entered the bathroom while I was in there, and realised I was bathing. She stood looking at me until I threw some water at her.

I intend to tell my wife about her sister’s behaviour, but friends say this may cause tension between the sisters. I need your view.

Ben, Togo.

Dear Ben,

IT is true that such revelation to your wife will cause some tension between the two sisters.

You can also sit your sister-in-law down and give her a stern warning. Let her understand that you intend to report her to her sister if she makes that mistake again.

Then you will have to see how you can arrange with your wife for her to cook enough food to store while she is away for those two days. If necessary, you may have to buy a fridge or freezer for that purpose. In that case, there would be no need for your sister-in-law to come and stay over. You will also have to take good care of the children if there are any.

A marriage only works when those involved are prepared to make sacrifices.

However, if after this arrangement this woman should persist with her advances, then bring the matter out into the open and let your wife and her family know about it.

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