Keeping the spark alive: tips for a fulfilling marriage —part 2

MARRIAGE is a journey that requires effort, commitment, and creativity to keep the spark alive. In our previous article, we dis­cussed the importance of communica­tion, quality time, and appreciation in building a fulfilling marriage.

In this second part, we will explore four more crucial tips to help you take your relationship to the next level. From keeping the romance alive to letting go of resentment, I will share expert advice to help you build a fulfilling marriage.

4. Keep the romance alive:

Surprising your partner

Romance is not just for the early stages of a relationship. Make an effort to surprise your partner, plan romantic getaways, and show affec­tion.

A simple kiss, hug, or touch can release oxytocin, the love hormone, and strengthen your bond. Some ideas for romantic gestures include:

• Planning a surprise weekend getaway

• Writing love notes or poetry

• Creating a special playlist of your partner’s favourite songs

• Cooking their favourite meal

• Giving them a thoughtful gift or surprise.

5. Laugh together

Laughter is a powerful tool in any relationship. Find the humour in life’s situations, and laugh together often. This can help you navigate challeng­es, reduce stress, and create lasting memories.

For example, you could watch a funny movie or TV show together, or share jokes with each other. You could even plan a fun outing to a comedy club or entertainment show.

6. Support each other’s dreams

A fulfilling marriage is built on mu­tual support and encouragement. Sup­port each other’s passions, dreams, and goals. Be each other’s biggest cheerleader, and celebrate each oth­er’s successes.

If your partner has always want­ed to start their own business, for instance, you could offer to help them brainstorm ideas or create a business plan. You could also attend network­ing events or conferences together to show your support.

7. Take responsibility and forgive

No one is perfect, and mistakes will happen. Take responsibility for your actions, apologise when necessary, and forgive each other. Holding grudg­es can create resentment and damage your relationship.

If you have had a disagreement with your partner, try to approach the sit­uation with empathy and understand­ing. Listen to their perspective, and acknowledge their feelings. You might say something like, “I understand why you’re upset, and I’m sorry for my part in the disagreement. Can we work together to find a solution and move forward?”

To be continued …

Source: Excerpts from “COURTSHIP MATTERS: Keys to a Fulfilling Lasting Marriage” Book by REV. COUNSELOR PRINCE OFFEI (Lecturer, Published Author, and Marriage Counsellor).

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