Is he cheating on me?

 Dear Obaa Yaa,

My husband and I have been together for six years now. Recently when he came from town I asked him for money to buy something.

He directed me to bring the trousers but he later changed his mind and reached for the trousers himself.

Interestingly, I got the trou­sers first and when I removed his wallet, it came out together with a condom.

I asked him what he was doing with the condom because we don’t use it at home.

He told me to stop worrying him about it and never answered the question.

Esi Atta,

Krobo.

Dear Esi,

I AM afraid your husband might be cheating on you, but be thankful that he always has a condom in hand.

Try and discuss your fears with him and give him more attention.

Maybe he is not getting enough satisfaction at home and wants to go a bit extra-marital.

I hope you would not be too pissed off though. Take it cool, discuss the problem, and I believe that once he has been exposed, he would take steps to change.

But as I stated earlier, be thank­ful that he is a fan of condoms.