His ex-wife is staging a comeback

Dear Obaa Yaa,

Before we got married five years ago, my husband told me that his former wife left him shortly after he lost his job following a financial scandal which rocked the company.

But thanks be to God that the court cleared him and ordered the company to pay him for the five years he stayed at home for wrongful dismissal.

As soon as this ex-wife heard that the company had complied with the court’s orders and paid him, she shamelessly declared that she was making a comeback and has vowed to kick me out of my matrimonial home at all cost.

She promised to hire ‘machomen’ to throw my things out of the house and was prepared to bear the consequence for that action.

Even though my husband has assured me that this would never happen, her ex is bent on disturbing my peace.

What should I do?

Adzo,

Tafo.

Dear Bertha,

The lady is threatening to use violence against you. That’s constitutes a breach of the law and she must be reported to the police for issuing those threats.

However, I will advise you to discuss it with your husband so that you are not seen as acting entirely on your own.

As a matter of fact, it is only the police that can handle this matter professionally and must be involved, unless of course your husband talks to his ex-wife to stop harassing you. So have a good discussion with your husband about the matter. All the best.