He is seeing another Woman

 Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am 25 years old and married to a 35-year old man. We had a baby boy after three years of marriage. When the baby was two-year old, my husband started cheating on me. I am financially supportive in the family and earn more than him.

Recently he asked me to support him to further his edu­cation. After a year in school, he started giving me attitude but I kept it cool. He denied me sex and started coming home late.

I reported his conduct to his parents who later advised him, but he did not listen. I later had a tip off that my husband was flirting with another wom­an in his class.

He left home for about a year without telling me his whereabout. My problem is the same man who stayed for a year is now pleading that I take him back.

Meanwhile, I have a man who has proposed to marry me. What should I do?

Erica, Kyebi

Dear Erica,

You must be commended for your willingness to support your husband in diverse ways, including helping him to fur­ther his education.

It is sad to note that despite your efforts to make the mar­riage work, he suddenly put up an appalling attitude which is not healthy for a successful marriage.

You did well by reporting him to his parents although he was adamant.

Having multiple partners and going to the extent of de­nying you sex for a long period of time means he does not respect you. It is obvious he is no longer interested in the marriage.

His plea for acceptance is a camouflage.

Since someone has shown interest in you, why not accept to marry him.